Searching for Wisdom.

Question everything.

[veryfunnymemes]

[i-cant-make-a-good-name]

[dandy-boi-ftm]

The best part is the fact that out of the two of them Martha Stewart was the one who went to prison.

[shadowkat678]

Wait…what?

[2fngrsin]

Wiiiiild. He did commit murder (in self defense - no judging) and America‘s Best Housewife was sent to jail because of insider trading, securities fraud, obstruction of justice and conspiracy. This is wiiiiiild 😄😄😄

[skrytch]

[brunhiddensmusings]

also he has every right to make fun of kanye west considering snoop has had a successful career for about two decades including his own cookbook and appearing in movies whereas kanye is a flat earther who had to crowdfund another album because he ran out of money despite kim kardashian being with him, not having the money to produce another album should be the metric when you know you can tell a musician has failed somewhere in either money management or actually being a musician rather then a famous trainwreck

[sunshine-tattoo]

snoop dogg is a good man who loves cooking, nature, and supporting the dreams of young children in poverty. kanye west helped get trump elected.

[brunhiddensmusings]

seriously though check out his cookbook its beautiful

and filled with lgiht humor, legit cooking, and charming life stories

[nevercure]

Whenever I think about snoop I remember that episode of cribs where he lived in an unusually modest house compared to everyone else on that show, spent the entire time with his young daughter hugging onto his leg and dragging her around as he walked. He even talked about how he didn’t want his kids to be musicians and that he just wants them to have a chance at a normal life / he doesn’t wish music career drama on anyone

The dude is mega down to earth for having a networth of 135 million dollars and staying relevant for longer than some of the top charting musicians have been alive

[brunhiddensmusings]

he says he keeps a supply of poptarts in the house for his nieces/nephews and grandkids but admits theyre really for him and then goes on to discuss what selection of condiments your fridge should have to jazz up leftover takeout hes one of the most thoroughly human humans ive ever known of

[owengrose]

Doesn’t he also coach football for kids, and stops smoking during the season to set a good example for the kids?

[bossymarmalade]

all these people going on about how Hozier is the peak representation of musical soft masculinity when Snoop has been out here rocking the smoothest braids and most hype manicures for decades

[stelamaris]

[unamedwatcher]

Have you seen his Planet Earth voiceover video? It’s the best thing I’ve ever heard. Man knows nothing about otters

[randomslasher]

Plizzanet Earth is a joy. Here’s the playlist:

[cherrylimeade-l3sbian]

haha yeah what a great guy.

I also remember him cheating on his wife multiple times, saying the most vile shit about women and then refusing to apologize about it later in the years when asked on the breakfast club.

i remember him taking women on leashes:

him admitting to being a pimp in the past and “selling women” to other stars while on tour.

In regards to Gayle King bringing up the 2003 allegations against Kobe Bryant, he had this to say:

to which he later threatened to “come get” to King if she didn’t stop speaking about Bryant. Hahahaha. What a charming old man who just smokes weed and bakes with Martha Stewart.

Y'all have completely fallen for his PR bullshit and let him get away with all the women he has hurt. He doesn’t care about black people, he cares about black MEN and black BOYS. This nigga is literally a terrible person and you really just sat here and called him a good person compared to Kanye?? They’re both shit. Snoop is a shit human being.

[germicelli]

hes waiting by the microwave

[mioxenoblade]

WHYS THERE A METAL CUP IN THE MICROWAVE

[supportive-rapport]

NOOO LITTLE CAT DONT PUT METAL IN THE MICROWAVE

[lesbian-toddhoward]

[riley-rogue]

[searchforwisdom]

Not me reading it to the sound of that bo Burnham TikTok

[martindykewood]

some of yall will be like “i dont care about your dreams, i dont care about your spotify wrapped, i dont want to hear about your interests, dont you dare talk to me about your trauma,” and its like. what do you even have friends for. bc it sounds to me like you dont give a shit about anything that makes them a person. what do you talk about.

[searchforwisdom]

This is how I feel when people talk about certain book characters. For example anyone who could read about a character having a lifetime of trauma and then hates that character for being messed up about said trauma and not getting over it in a few chapters (Omg this character is so whiney, omg I know they got treated like crap and was kidnapped but her kidnapper seems nice now how could she be so ungrateful, etc). And it just makes it so clear to me that if someone like that was to sit in the head of someone with PTSD they wouldn't have sympathy for what they've gone through they would only be annoyed that they were affected in the first place. It's sick and disheartening

[radfem-moira]

I know no one likes to hear this, but the little boy who abuses, harasses, and assaults a little girl is not ‘just as innocent’ as she is. He’s not just the poor victim of male socialization. She’s the victim. Women and girls are the victims of male socialization, not men and boys.

[femmesandhoney]

these are middle school boys jesus christ i cannot imagine how terrible they treat the girls like yall are like twelve wtf are you talking about

[mithliya]

elementary and middle school boys make games out of sexually harassing girls & women & making us uncomfortable, recording us, and rating us based on our appearances so.. this is normal.

[seeuspacelesbian-deactivated202]

[user87262893]

turn the camera around, lil guy! I'm sure you're a catch yourself to these girls -

Hm. Anyways.

[the-rainbow-lesbian]

women tweeted about being assaulted by a homeless men and braindead misogynists are instead more concerned for the man who assaulted her

[sickofeverythingmale2]

Daily reminder to not care about men - any man. Not homeless men either. Save your money and your time.

[wintertidewater-deactivated2025]

Almost no man would help you if the positions were reversed and you were homeless. Did you know women constitute the majority of the poor despite MRAs framing homelessness as a male issue? Homeless women are often raped and/or killed by men (homeless and homed) or trafficked. Help the women. Bring her pepper spray if nothing else.

[user87262893]

Any suggestions for how to deal with non abusive but generally creepy male family members? My brother recently moved back home and has always had a blithe disregard for my boundaries. His most recent thing is trying to convince me to get an onlyfans, sell feet pics, or do some type of online "sex work". The rest of the men in my family are more classically sexist in a right wing, "women are children to be protected" kind of way, but this brother's comments seem to have encouraged them to start being weirdly sexual towards me as well, jokes and stuff. The most my mother can do is sigh and roll her eyes at them when I speak to her about it. I'm really just feeling generally hopeless that this is how my family sees me. my mother is the only female family member in my life and doesn't seem to see a problem with it. I really don't know if I'm overreacting or not, its just such a gross feeling to have that energy coming from family

You are NOT overreacting and this is incredibly concerning that the males of your family are sexualizing you. Your brother telling you to do sex work is extremely innapropriate and you would be smart to keep your door locked when he's around.

If you are a minor, please talk to an adult you trust at school. Teacher or counselor.

If you are not, or cannot do this, make them as uncomfortable as they make you. When they make a sexualized joke, say "I don't get it. Can you explain it?". They will explain it, either ashamed or arrogantly. Regardless of their tone, make a confused face and say "so you're saying you want to fuck me/have intercourse with me?" And look disgusted. Do this every time. Tell others, in front of them, when they are doing, while addressing them. Do this every time moving forward.

I.e. loudly at dinner in front of relatives "Uncle Jeremy, you need to stop making jokes about wanting to have sexual intercourse with me. It makes me uncomfortable."

Shame is an effective learning tool for men.

They will try to say that's not what they meant, and that you need to take a joke. Just say "I am not comfortable with jokes about you raping me incestuously". Let them see plainly what they're saying.

I hope this helps.

[user87262893]

hi newbie rad leaning fem here. just wanna say i rly appreciate how informative ur blog is. i have a question. when/where did the term “radical feminism” originate? did the “main” (idk how to better phrase it lol) radfems actually call themselves radical feminists or simply feminists? maybe im not looking hard enough, but i cant find a direct answer.

Radical feminism uses the latin term "Radical" meaning "root", as we are seeking the root or core of feminist issues. Radical feminism was originally understood to be second wave feminism, popular in the 60s as womens fight for liberation raged on in the United States. It was given the name Radical Feminism by various feminist groups at that time.

From wiki:

The leading figures of this second wave of feminism included Shulamith Firestone, Kathie Sarachild, Ti-Grace Atkinson, Carol Hanisch, Roxanne Dunbar, Naomi Weisstein and Judith Brown. In the late sixties various women's groups describing themselves as "radical feminist", such as the UCLA Women's Liberation Front (WLF), offered differing views of radical feminist ideology.

So the coin was termed by different feminist orgs in the 1960s. I definitely recommend reading through the article for more info!

Know your foremothers!!

[siberiannette-deactivated202301]

i see billboards advertising botox, with big pictures of women with perfect faces. i see billboards for "gentlemans clubs" with silhouettes of impossibly-proportioned bodies in sexual poses. victoria's secret ads, thin-waisted nearly-nude women, posing to be attractive to men when their customers are women.

and i think about being a little girl, who's parents are so careful not to let her on the internet, to protect her, just innocently looking out the window at the countryside on the highway and seeing those images sprinkled into it, her own objectification in fields and against the woods, she can't escape it. and her brother sitting next to her, learning something very different.

[only-tiktoks]

[aftabkaran]

Bless you.

[amithedevil]

[madfemur-deactivated20250321]

That's incrediblly considerate of her to offer to have it for him if he seriously wanted to raise the child. The entitlement of brainlet men never ceases to amaze me.

[bwiththelg-deactivated20221119]

It’s her fucking body. He doesn’t even want to raise the kid, he just wants to force her to use her body for 9 months for his own personal gain. Disgusting.

[prole-log]

[flipocrite]

[the-land-of-women]

vulgadrawings

[thecrucifiedophelia]

I listened to an old Radiolab episode recently where they were trying to unscientifically “quantify” Albert Einstein’s genius. Like they were discussing various things that led to him making the breakthroughs he did—from his cultural milieu to his education to the very structure of his brain... and the (of course) woman reporter chimed in about his wife, Mileva, who was in the SAME courses he was at the institute where they both studied. And the rest of the “panel” (all men) decided that she contributed about 12% towards Einstein’s eventual success.

12%. That’s it. To the fact that Einstein had a live-in servant to take care off all of his physical needs so he could be completely absorbed in his intellectual pursuits. Pursuits that SHE contributed to. With no credit, not even after the fact, with the perspective of history.

[user87262893]

thinking about how thoroughly ingrained sexism is in every aspect of life...

how a study showed people are less frightened of storms named after women...

and therefore evacuate and seek shelter less...

and therefore die more

[ihatemenandtherearereasons]

There was a pro abortion protest at my college campus yesterday which I knew nothing about and you know I got really excited and wanted to join in but while I was gathering my stuff they pulled this trans flag out of nowhere that was so big it had to be carried by six girls. The other signs weren’t even visible anymore and on top of everything they drew with chalk and paint some more on the walls and sidewalks. Like what the fuck does it even have to do with abortion?? It makes no sense

[user87262893]

Its at the point where the trans flag is a symbol of "we won't actually be focusing on the issue the event is about"

[amithedevil]

"me (31m) and my girlfriend (21f)" was all I needed to read tbh 🤢

[powerfem]

Dodged a bullet 🤢🤢🤢

[maria-scariotes]

"Traditional men" means controling freak semi pedophile

also "a dress that leaves nothing to imagination" dude, she isnt walking around naked, I bet. I bet all my money on that

[vegradfem]

Is he her bf or her father?? Tf? Where do men get off thinking they have the right to treat women this way? They truly believe it’s a god given right

@ihatemenandtherearereasons

[dawsvaws]

Should have just broken up with her if he cared that much and she would have been better off for it. He is indeed that asshole.

[the-rad-menace]

The title says "cutting" but he then says he tore it while she was wearing it. Destroying her clothing to control her is already abusive. This scenario is straight up domestic violence. He probably grabbed the neckline or something and yanked her around until it tore because he was angry that she wasn't letting him control her.

I also just noticed the ten year age gap. 🔪

[the-rainbow-lesbian]

the age gap 🚩

instead of pursuing a woman who agrees and practices the same values he pursues a woman who doesn’t 🚩

because she is so much younger he wants to “shape” her into what HE wants 🚩

men feel a sick sense of victory when they pursue happy, free and less traditional women and then abusing them into submission