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adrasteiax

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I still will be your shelter Through rain and through storm And with you in your cold grave I can not sleep warm

#i havent thought about this song in ages omg

jk jk jk

se1lkie -> selchs

raylangivins

(three decades into my life) sorry I wasn’t paying attention, can we start again?

celestial-tadpole

forget your zodiac tell me what you order at a bar and at a coffee shop

#rum n coke or mojito / iced chai or matcha latte

possessable

it's good enrichment for The Character(s) when one of their friends gets possessed and they have to find some way to bring them back. great friendgroup bonding activity. especially if they have to do some exorcism bullshit and it's traumatizing for everyone involved and there's collapsing and sobbing afterward. great thing for The Character(s) to do. highly recommend.

#hi yes. watch the magicians

galactic-mayhem

saw this on pinterest but i think it belongs here too

vinnie-vindictive

this will never not be important

iero

T-shirt that says "I'M SORRY FOR THE PERSON I BECOME WHEN I'M OVERHEATED"

hmmmmmm i'm on my regularly scheduled sexuality crisis again

#this time i'm just like. am i just femme4butch #i think maybe i'd stop having the inklings of attraction to strong big men if i could win over a strong big woman #being only conditionally open in my current relationship doesn't help but then again it's not like i'd be actively looking even if that #were confirmed to be a go #anyway i still like. Find Feminine People Attractive too #but at the end of the day i'm like. do i only Want sex and romance with mascs. is that perhaps a thing #or is Everything just conditional actually and i need to kill the thought police in my own head and stop trying to tailor labels to myself #i can just be a dyke and shut up that's also an option

in general i want to be drawing rn. but i need. the stupid attachment to charge my stupid apple pencil

#finally got the motivation back and i'm incapacitated

hyliantomatoes

wait now i’m curious what’s everyone’s go-to pair of shoes

#birks. because i'm a DTWOF character at heart #or my mukluks or just more birks but in boot form in winter

i'm gonna fuck with a few older commission pieces and repost them but i don't remember the usernames ahaaa. um

#one was someone i don't even think i was mutuals with at the time i Did the commission #the others were mutuals but i can't find them on here again since rejoining???#i guess maybe it'll put me back in touch if they find the posts #but either way it's gonna have to wait bc i need to buy a new tablet pen charger lmao i hate apple

teetheater333

urtica dioica (teeth eater)

ohmovie

Everything! Everything that you wanted, I have done! You asked that the child be taken - I took him. You cowered before me - I was frightening. I have reordered time, I have turned the world upside down, and I have done it all for you! I am exhausted from living up to your expectations of me. Isn't that generous?

Jareth, the king of the goblins & Sarah Williams LABYRINTH │1986

junglejim4322

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

junglejim4322

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

junglejim4322

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

transhumanisticpanspermia

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?

apolladay

On what part of your body is your biggest scar?

head

torso

arms/hands

legs/feet

a different part of my body

I have 0 scars

Remaining time: 1 day 21 hours

#torso. top surgery. yeah

yesterdaysprint

The Tampa Times, Florida, August 15, 1917

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