*miami vices it*

PYREX SEMTEX LATEX GAY SEX // nicky, 23 // nsfw 18+

[semtexting]

nicky • 23 • switch, apparently

idk this is just where i put all my horny shit. i’m trans. DNI if you’re under 18.

[faeriefag]

new gender just dropped: toy. not even a person, just a thing to be used. thrown around, passed from one needy set of hands to the next. no regard for your pleasure, only your function. bent over a table, a boot shoved between your legs to keep them spread. you can't help but grind against it.. maybe a hand wrapped loosely around your throat, a leash, a reminder of who's in charge. your body is just a convenience for them, a warm, wet place to sink into. you can't help but be excited at faceless bodies take turns with you, praising just how good it feels, how pretty it is. how much it can take. and the best part?

you fucking love it.

[northirish]

Bet it feels good as fuck to be disassembled, cleaned and then reassembled as a firearm

[transmechanicus]

o yeah babey

[evilselfishfool]

this is why they shouldn’t have banned normal porn

[transmechanicus]

no amount of cishets going to plapsburg could ever distract me from the cold certainty of steel

[goth-fucker]

I see a lot of posts about being passed around by your dom that are like "use me, destroy my holes, treat me like an object" etc but i really think theres something to be said for being the beloved fleshlight for a group of people. Laying back on the sofa or bed, as comfortable as possible, blissed out and spoiled with all your favourite things. Your dom making sure everyone knows the rules, that playing with you is a privellege theyll revoke in an instant if you treat their toy with anything other than reverence, respect, and the desire to make it cum over and over. I want to be the toy loaned out for use, but i dont want to be used selfishly by them. I want to be the selfish one. I want to be desired and coveted. I want everyone in that room throbbing between their legs at just the idea of getting to touch me, to be the one that brings those sweet sounds out of me, to finally, finally sink into that tight, wet heat that has my dom obsessed with fucking me. I want to be the prize that everyone is fucking aching to get their hands on.

[miscling]

the whole 'kink is just sexy roleplay' defence is a good first step, but like, it's not always roleplay. people are doing kink for real, and are making things as true and real as they can in real life. 'it's just sexy roleplay' is what you teach the unitiated so that they don't think they're witnessing abuse or try to emulate it without realising the weight of it.

sometimes someone really actually owns their sub

sometimes someone is actually raped and coerced

sometimes someone has been brainwashed completely

sometimes someone is getting fully beaten up

sometimes the dynamic doesn't end at the end of a scene

the kink scene is full of people doing kink for real. it's not roleplay and it's all consensual and you can't stop them and the more you try the more you make what they're doing dangerous by cutting them off from education, safety materials, and community support.

and if you want you can join in. you don't have to treat kink as something you roleplay at for a couple of hours at the weekend, or that you can only do in chatboxes online. if you really want, you can make it everyday and normal for you.

[queeranarchism]

#i actually really dislike the roleplay framework#even and especially as an introductory mode of thought #it encourages a limited view of consent and divorces people from the consequences of their actions #and roleplay can be significant! roleplay can be edgeplay! roleplay can push your boundaries and leave you feeling empty and broken #how do you expect to care for yourself and others if you don't think what you're doing is real #i see the applications of the argument. but i hate seeing people actively involved in kink using it to inform their risk and consent

Yeah, this. I've also seen people use it to dismiss genuine experiences of violated consent.

"I thought I was engaging in some sexy rape roleplay until my partner actually raped me" type of situations

or "Every time my partner and me have an argument, the next scene we play is so much more cruel and painful, so now I no longer feel safe challenging my partner on things. "

If a whole community is invested in the idea that it's 'just roleplay', they're not going to be ready to recognize that real things can happen that someone doesn't want done to them and that there isn't always a clear 'this is the moment my consent was violated' moment when that happens but it still needs to be taken just as seriously as consent violations in a vanilla setting.

[rippleeffector]

Maybe I'm misunderstanding something, but if someone consents to being 'forced' to have sex, it's not 'actual' rape. I understand that 'roleplay' isn't an adequate word, but 'actual rape' shouldn't be bastardised...

[queeranarchism]

Hey, you're entering a complex conversation here about the subtleties of where roleplay meets reality in kink, so it's not great to walk in and immediately start accusing people of 'bastardizing rape'. If you're looking for simplicity: stop reading and move on.

If you want to understand and you're ready to ponder on complex situations, start by imagining these scenarios: 1. Person A tells person B "I think it would be sexy to do some rape play with you!" and person A meant "I want you to pretend to rape me" and person B thought they meant "I want you to actually rape me". As a result, Person A has an experience that they absolutely did not want and felt that their consent had been violated.

2. Person A tells person B "I want you to pretend to rape me, and also I want you to push my boundaries a little bit and I want to be scared" and person B misunderstood that and went too far with that. As a result, Person A has an experience that they absolutely did not want and felt that their consent had been violated.

3. Person A tells person B "I want you to pretend to rape me, and also I want you to push my boundaries a little bit and I want to be scared" and person B understood where the line was but deliberately went too far with that. As a result, Person A has an experience that they absolutely did not want and felt that their consent had been violated.

'Rape play' took place in all 3 scenarios. But in which scenarios did rape take place? - If you approach rape as a legal category, you might say that Person A consented to something that resembles rape in every scenario, and must prove that something else took place, or else none of it was rape. - If you approach rape as a 'thing bad people' do, you might say rape happened only when person B deliberately went too far. - If you approach rape as an experience that the victim has, you might say that rape took place every time person A felt like their consent had been violated.

Personally, I follow the 3rd approach. To me, the experience of the victim is the most important way to understand what rape is. One of my favorite reads on this topic is the article Consent as a felt sense:

If our concern is with not violating a person, rather than not violating a rule, then “a violation” is defined by what happens when a person processes and continually re-processes their feelings about an experience. Likewise, if our concern is about behaving ethically and with integrity, rather than making sure we are not held accountable for coercive actions, then we should respect consent as an experience people have, not a commitment people make. Consent does not equal permission; it is a felt sense. Of course, this understanding of consent fucking terrifies people (mostly men and sadomasochistic “Dominants”), because it implies that consent (as they understand it) can be “revoked” retroactively. But this is only a problem for someone whose desire to understand consent is primarily focused on how to not get in trouble for violating consent, or at the very least on how not to feel bad about themselves for violating consent, rather than on how to not violate consent.

These three scenarios are are still fairly simple, simple enough to fit in a text post. Things can get a lot more complex and messy when actual people have sex.

[castleofdracula]

[plaidos]

girlies, if you’re gonna do maidplay you’re gonna need to talk about or at the very least understand the racialised nature of maids.

[plaidos]

i know it’s boring to some of you to constantly be asking “what are the politics of this kink?” about literally everything but unfortunately we do in fact live in a society and pretending racism doesn’t exist encourages it rather than preventing it.

[storyweavingspider]

Being fully serious, racialized people have to consider this with basically every kink we interact with constantly, and the fact that whites don’t is a facet of white privilege.

For example, personally, I’m technically a switch but in reality I’m a Domme 99% of the time, NOT BECAUSE IM A TRANS WOMAN (for once), but because so many kink spaces in the US are so overwhelmingly white that finding a Dominant of Color that there’s mutual attraction with AND is normal about trans women is hell.

“Well what’s wrong with white Dominants-“ I’m a Black woman with significant racialized trauma, I will die before I willingly and genuinely call a white person Master or many other Dominant titles as a submissive, or allow them to perform like 75% of common dominant acts/behavior for any reason beyond education. A lot of other Black folks in kink feel similarly, although not all.

What this means is that a lot of racialized folks are CONSTANTLY having to dance around our kinks/desires in a way that the vast majority of whites simply.. don’t. I may like impact play but you will NEVER see me being the Black woman in the kink club getting whipped by a white man, or woman or enby either. You may be able to get off on being a partner’s “slave” but for a lot of Black folks, either side of that equation will be de-facto race play. Other races got other hangups or concerns too.

Part of kink is being aware of the potential harms that can come of any kink. It doesn’t mean you can never do it, but it does mean you have to think a bit more about your shit than “oooo hot” or going “well I’ll only ever fuck white people so I don’t have to worry” because that’s ALSO racist lmfao.

[abitofjenesaisquoi-deactivated2]

tboys are sooo easy its crazy. at any moment ask if they want to grind on your knee they will say yes. doesnt really matter the context. its so fun and they will thank you afterwards

[prettyboypunkz]

Thinking about someone filming themselves touching me while I’m sleeping, having them slowly push my shirt up to reveal my chest and them touching my nipples, watching them gently spread my legs a little wider and touch me over my boxers, then finally taking them off me and carefully inspecting my cunt, in awe at how wet I am while asleep. They’d watch me twitch and stir me as they tease my cock and stick their fingers in my hole, seeing what sounds they can get me to make without waking me.

and I never would’ve even known if they hadn’t shown me the video

[snoreznore]

I need him to tie me down completely and make me watch all kinds of porn. He’ll put on whatever he wants, and observe my cunt getting wetter when he puts on something I like. He’ll laugh and tease me about how wet I get over whatever I’m watching. Call me pathetic because “really? THIS is what you get off too? Wow, you really are just a dirty, depraved little pervert, aren’t you?”

He’ll stick his fingers in me and touch me up to different videos, and see when I moan the most. He’ll force me to act out certain scenes to see which ones I like most.

“Really? this is what you like, puppy?”

But he’ll wait until I’m dripping down my thighs to flip me over, spank my hole and absolutely ravage me from behind.

[mandatory-ftmbreeder]

guy who appears like a typical douchebag fratboy partygoer but is actually a sweetheart with a heart of gold and you go to have sex with him and he gets super nervous and says "i have to tell you something" and then he reveals he has a pussy and then ahahahfhahhf *blacks out and when i wake up my cum is leaking out of him*

[infectiouspiss]

aha yeah i'm porn-brained . they gave me a ct scan and there were hot people in leather doing sex in there .im a medical mystery apparently

[homoidiotic]

FAG/TRANSFAG: written by Paul Davis (1998) for FTM newsletter issue. 40

[o-fantasma]

monogamy is ofc a v sexy fantasy but it would be incredibly dangerous and honestly kinda fucked up for anybody to attempt it in real life

[fatherenoch]

They just released Bible 2. Prayer has been replaced with sucking the priest’s cock. How interesting. It is required to get to heaven, by the way.

[curiositysavesthecat]

Hypothetically, would you feel violated if a stranger told you they masturbated to a photo you posted online?

I’d feel violated, scared and angry. I’d take my photos down/stop posting them

I’d feel violated, scared and angry. But would still post my photos normally

I’d feel violated, scared and angry. I would private my account immediately

*I wouldn’t care if a stranger did it as long as I wasn’t physically harassed(+)

I would be flattered as long as I knew my in-real-life safety was guaranteed

I would be flattered. I don’t care about my in-real-life safety or life anyway

I would be aroused/turned on

Something else (feel free to elaborate)

Voting ended onAug 28, 2024

*The continuation of answer choice number four, due to character limit preventing us from fitting the whole sentence in an option, I wouldn’t care if a stranger did it (masturbating to my online photo) as long as I wasn’t physically harassed and I could be 100% sure that they could NEVER see or harm me in real life

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[toxifoxx]