VENUS AND WHY PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUĀ
ābased on people iāve known and lovedĀ
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one of the most important people in my life has venus in the 1st house and people justā¦ have very intense reactions to them. like, they canāt just tolerate them, they either love them to death or absolutely hate them and make that hatred known. the thing about this venus is that it makes someone very desirable ā theyāre people persons, they love being around others and feel a strong need to communicate their ideas, beliefs, passions, and listen to other people talk as well because theyāre a sucker for studying people. as in, they know thereās a lot to learn from others and they have really strong observational skills, their intelligence is criminally underrated. those who like them, fucking love them and want to constantly be around them (which can be a bit suffocating for the venus person) and even those who hate them canāt seem to be able to keep their names out of their mouths, lmfao. they do feed a lot off of validation from others (mostly due to deep-seated insecurities + fear of rejection) so they try hard to show off their talents, their personality, their skills. they canāt really exist in silence because they draw so much attention to themselves (and people often drag them into unnecessary drama), and because they feel such a strong need to help those around them. theyāre also amazing storytellers, they really know how to charm people with their words.Ā
a friend of mine has herĀ venus in the 2nd houseĀ and she really gives off sugar baby vibes, lmfao. older men are crazy about her and whoever meets her wants to spoil her. she gives off very innocent and sweet vibes and that adds to her appeal, although many people have tried taking advantage of that. as in, they use her compassion and empathy and ability to provide security for others, to be like a rock thatās there whenever you need her, so sheās often taken for granted. sheās very compassionate and shows that to literally everyone, which often leads to her feeling emotionally drained and needing to isolate herself to recharge + attracting emotional vampires that feed off of her difficulty in setting boundaries. sheās also often objectified - sheās very beautiful but has a very low self-esteem that incapacitates her from seeing it; she gets a lot of attention everywhere she goes, people turn their heads to look at her twice, strangers make conversation a lot of with her, and she also tends to get free stuff all the time. might i add ā she used to be a literal model but stopped because it was a very toxic environment. sheās very charismatic and talented at dealing with people, she was elected the class representative and took it on herself to solve the problems of everyone in our class, wanting everyone to feel accepted, seen, and heard.Ā
iāve been with someone who has hisĀ venus in the 3rd house, and people fell in love with his words. he wasnāt oblivious to it, he actually bragged a lot about how good he was with words and how he was able to sweet-talk someone into doing what he wanted. he was very communicative and valued solving all our problems through talking instead of ignoring it. people also fell in love with his intelligence, he was really thoughtful about any subject and loved having debates about it and people would get impressed with his analytical and rational mind, with his ease at making arguments and counter-arguments; with the way he had a really unique view on the world and his energy when talking. he was witty and just loved having fun in general, very open to making friends especially with powerful people. he valued a lot having new experiences and going to parties. he was also really loyal and constantly bragged about his friends, he talked about them like they were his family. compliments were literally his love language lmfao it doesnāt get more stereotypical than this, if he liked you heād shower you with attention and praise all you do and he felt really confident when youād compliment him back. he was like that one phrase āto know is to loveā come to life because he placed a lot of importance on knowing all the details about you, having deep conversations, getting to know all your opinions and perspectives on every possible subject.Ā
one of my closest friends has hisĀ venus in the 4th houseĀ and, surprisingly, people fall in love with him after they fuck lmfao. i donāt know what it is about him but as soon as someone has sex with him, they become addicted and hold on to him with claws and teeth until he breaks their heart because, sadly, heās awfully afraid of commitment. and iāve been noticing this a lot with people with venus in the 4th house ā youād think venus in the house of family makes someone long to find their soulmate (and they do, deep down), but itās like truthfully, theyāre scared of actually finding it; so they leave after getting too serious in a relationship, perhaps due to a fear of intimacy even though they really crave stability. although, heās very honest and values honor a lot, so heās upfront about his intentions with someoneā¦ if he wants to fuck you only, youāll know; if he wants to pursue a relationship with you, youāll know. i think thatās why so many people are into him, heās very assertive and goes for what he wants with no shame. he also is someone very reliable, especially with friends, whatever happens, you can count on him. heās really a ride or die and is a very protective person so people feel safe around him; heās also very family-oriented in the sense that he takes any of his connections very seriously, especially the one with his mother. heās, like, the alpha in the wolf pack lmfao.Ā
two people in my friend group haveĀ venus in the 5th house, and might as well just call them genius masterminds. i swear, they have plans straight out of a movie. they can not and will not get bored because thereās always so much going on in their life. cue to harry potter saying āi donāt go looking for trouble, trouble usually finds meā. they lead very intense lives especially when itās concerning their family and their relationships, but they still manage to make fun of the difficult stuff they go through. people fall in love with their laugh and their brilliant minds. like, these people are criminally intelligent and very much slytherins in the sense of being resourceful, cunning, with an ability to take a shitty situation to their advantage and to take advantage of every opportunity life presents them. they really give off main character vibes especially since they canāt fucking sit still for a moment, they always gotta be onto something. theyāre very active and energetic and that type of energy is very addictive, they always know how to make someone have a good time around them. the problem is that some people might get too addicted to their energy and guilt-trip them into hanging out with them every day even when they donāt want to, draining their energies and making them feel like an animal caged up in a zoo there for otherās entertainment only.Ā
iāve known someone who had theirĀ venus in the 6th house, andā¦ venus in the 6th people are so fucking particular, they avoid telling you how they feel at all costs but show you in the tiniest, most indirect ways possible (like telling you good night every night, always taking time out of their busy schedules to talk with you, rearrange your hair when thereās a strand out of place) and swear theyāre being obvious. itās so funny, they make me feel like a detective trying to decipher their behavior. they can also be very territorial about whoever they like ā at worst, they can be very controlling and overly possessive, at best, theyāre just hot as fuck like iām sorry please do attempt to claim me. iāve noticed that people fall in love with theirĀ power. they exude a vibe that makes people afraid to fuck with them because theyĀ knowĀ itāll have consequences. theyāre just so commanding and act like they wonāt tolerate any bullshit or no one trying to waste their time, theyāre all for business. they also tend to look expensive as hell, they could be wearing something cheap out of bershka and still make it look regal and like youād never afford it. they have really high standards so people try very hard to impress them (and fail most of the time lmfao) and get just one minute of their time. the person i knew literally had fangirls following them around in school and begging for their attention. their response? āoh, they are? i didnāt notice and quite frankly, i donāt care.āĀ
one of the most important milfs that went through my life had herĀ venus in the 7th house, and people fell in love purely with her personality. no, i donāt think you understand how charming and funny she was. she was an amazing storyteller and had an infinite amount of stories about her life to tell, and it was impossible to ever get bored around her because she had so much to say. she was also very expressive in her way of speaking, and you could feel her emotions through her words. she had an awfully mischievous grin that made her look like she was always up to something and it was so funny. people would gather around her to her and pay close attention to what she would say next since she was so unpredictable. she could also be very diplomatic and persuade people to her side, whether in arguments or business matters. she placed a lot of importance on education and knowledge. another thing about her was that she was so secretive - and thatās something very few people caught on about her since she was so good at talking and told so many stories, but i did find her personality difficult to pinpoint because she would only open up about superficial matters. as in, she would tell a story of her as a teenager going to parties and shit, but whenever iād ask her a more private matter like how she met her husband, sheād laugh and say āthat oneās for me to know only.ā it was very hard to get to know the real her under all the glamour and popularity. she also gave me the sense of someone sinking on their own sadness but she hid that at all costs in the name of being the sun that lights up the room. i donāt know, something in her eyes.Ā
my best friend hasĀ venus in the 8th houseĀ ā sheās very, very selective about who she talks to and gives attention to very few people. she fears opening up and sex is a tricky subject for her because although she loves talking about sex, itās very hard for her to trust someone enough to even consider letting them close to her. she fears betrayal, rejection. she likes keeping her circle close, which i think is a way for her to avoid having to go through the process of letting someone in. sheās also extremely loyal and very aware that few people deserve that loyalty ā once she likes someone, she only sees that person and no one else. she really longs for a meaningful and intimate relationship. i feel like people fall in love with her after getting close to her, sheās a very thoughtful person with a strong personality and, once someone gets to experience her intensity, theyāre addicted. no one ever says this about 8th placements but theyāre fucking crackheads, theyāre very lighthearted most of the time and just want to have fun and a good time, they can have the humor of a 5-year-old and people find that side of her very endearing; they fall in love with her humor and the way sheās so good-hearted even if she tries hiding that fact. she canāt help that sheās so genuine. might i add that she really has that scorpionic look, with thick dark hair and big, deep-set eyes and you can really read her every emotion on them.Ā
one of my friends hasĀ venus in the 9th houseĀ and sheās the funniest person ever. seriously, sheās the life of the party, always looking to crack a joke and the room doesnāt feel as lively without her. people fall in love with her unpredictability, her light-hearted nature and how sheās always looking for something to stimulate her mind, by learning and finding new places, new people to deepen her knowledge. one thing about her is that people tend to underestimate her a lot. just because she loves having fun and takes nothing seriously, they think itās okay to try and mess with her, and then they regret that shit deeply because even if she rarely shows her serious and ruthless sideā¦ oh, itās there and she will not hesitate (especially if you fuck with her friends). she also tends to suffer a lot in love because sheās looking for a serious relationship and to bond with someone, but people tend to objectify her and use her for her body. but sheās too elegant to let that show, she really knows how to hide her suffering under a bright smile. sheās a very supportive person and things always end up working for her because she has such a good heart (the people who do her dirty get so fucked by life later), and people tend to envy how she seems to have it all. they donāt notice how hard-working and ambitious she actually is.Ā
i haveĀ venus in the 10th house. people fall in love very easily with me, but itās never actually with me because they donāt know me, they fall in love with myĀ image. as in, people often approach me to tell me they fell in love at first sight with me just because they saw me on the bus or some shit, or they talk with me for 3 days and swear iām the one when i havenāt revealed anything about me. men also tend to suffer from āi can fix herā when around me. itās the effy stonem disease lmfao, they see me being pretty and fucked up and try to fix me, plus, i donāt do relationships so they always think theyāre gonna be the one to ātameā me. i also give off very cold and unattainable vibes and the first thing people notice about me is how iām hard to get so they often portray me as the forbidden fruit, someone theyāre never gonna get but they still try. which makes me feel really objectified at times because itās likeā¦. you donāt know me, you donāt even try to know me, you just idealize me in your head and put me on a pedestal. which is why i think i have an aversion to love, most people donāt experience it; they experience infatuation and confuse it as being the same thing as love, and itās too superficial for me. if you have your venus in the 10th house, chances are youāre very desirable and sought after but that has given you a very difficult relationship with the concept of love.Ā
if thereās anything about people with venus in the 11th houseā¦ theyāre passionate. so passionate about anything that they believe in, and they make that very clear. they put a lot of importance on fighting for whatās right and for justice, so they get very emotionally involved in othersā problems, even if it doesnāt in any way benefit their own lives. and when i say this i donāt mean just getting involved in social causes and organizing charity events, i mean that they intuitively feel whatās wrong with the people they love and they donāt rest until thereās a solution. theyāre masters at providing emotional comfort and bringing people together because they donāt believe in the differences between human beings, weāre all idiots going through the same shit called life. and thatās what people love so much about them: their tenacity, their drive, their ambition, their big dreams. their compassion for everyoneās problems, the glint in their eyes when theyāre speaking about subjects ranging from animal cruelty to how wrong capitalism is lmfao, their need to feel passionate about everything. most of them have struggled with the loss of someone they loved and are now very aware of the need to live life to the fullest. these people also have a way of making someone they barely know feel like their best friend.Ā
iāve known someone who had hisĀ venus in the 12th house, and he was probably the most emotionally complicated and troubled person iāve ever known. he was very withdrawn and the quiet confident type (although he had a lot of insecurities deep, deep down) and everyone knew his name, he was constantly surrounded by friends but itās like no one actually knew him. he stood out so much, not even in his appearance even though he was beautiful, it was his energy. he also wasnāt afraid of standing alone and heād do it whenever he disagreed with something or to fight for his beliefs, so he was respected by everyone. anyways, to be one of the lucky few to get past his distant persona, you had to be just as thoughtful and interesting because he really didnāt waste his time with people who werenāt worth getting to know. people fell in love with his way of seeing the world, his empathy (thatās something youād never expect from someone who had such a āharshā exterior ā he never acted without considering the consequences and heād feel a lot of the worldās pain), his intensity, the way everything was so serious to him and there was no room for superficiality. he was a very unforgettable person, i donāt think iāll ever be able to forget his eyes or how he seemed to fight a daily battle just to keep going.Ā
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