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herpsandbirds

I LOVE TO BITE THINGS

CUZ I LIVE TO BITE

I LOVE TO BITE THINGS

AND I ALSO LOVE TO BITE

BITE BITE BITE BITE BITE

spacecat24-7

unironically I will block you for saying “my Shayla” about your blorbo. The meme came from people mocking a Black man for crying for his daughter. When you say that about a sketch of Skinny White Dude #27 you are treating Black pain as a joke. I want to assume most people don’t know the context and wouldn’t use it if they did but too many of yall straight up do not care and would keep using it anyways

either way now you do know, so you can either be better or shut the fuck up

bee-unknown

I remember after finding out the context of the meme feeling so disgusted every time I saw anyone use the audio or comment "my Shayla" on random posts about fictional characters

averagecygnet-blog

reading abt avpd is like "these annoying clingy oversensitive immature assholes need way too much attention and reassurance all the time and they can never take criticism and they have no ability to recognize that the kind of relationship they fantasize about is unreasonable and unrealistic and selfish and unhealthy <3 which is why they all die alone"

and it's like i KNOWWWWWWWW i know i know I KNOW i know that the idealized relationships i construct in my head where the other person understands how i feel and doesn't blame me for it and is willing to reassure me and be patient with me and never get angry and always help me when i need it ,,,, it's unfair, it's unrealistic, it's selfish, i know. but the idea of never having that is just , equivalent to never living a day of my life where im safe and i might as well pull the knife out of the wound and bleed to death bc whats the fuuuuucking point if im never gonna learn what safety feels like ever

i think things would be better and easier if i was less me

#reluctant rambles #szpd #suspected szpd #avpd #suspected avpd #fuck everything all the way to hell #im so fucking tired

screenshotsofdespair

selene1311-f

Okay, since somebody asked, I think it's important that I post just explaining the issues with TMA and TME.

TMA is a term meaning Transmisogyny Affected. TME is Transmisogyny Exempt.

In its usage, anybody that is not transfem is considered TME; in more extreme cases, anybody that is not a trans woman might be considered TME. I've gotten the sense that I'm getting pretty close to the transandrophobes declaring me TME, as the term is very inconsistent.

Here's the elephant in the room, TME is a slur; it is a new slur, and I've not seen anybody really label it as such yet, so I'm taking some responsibility for making that call and getting the word out.

TME is not used as a helpful, educational, empowering, or even consistent label. What it is used for is solely to attack transmasc and nonbinary people. It exists to silence them, to other them; that is its purpose.

TME is also built upon a falsehood; the truth of the matter is that no trans person, not a single one, is exempt from transmisogyny. We are all affected. People using TME as a term like to claim otherwise, as a means of centering themselves, but the claim is completely unsubstantiated and borders on self delusion.

Knowing this, I believe we need to recognize TMA and TME for what they are, unacceptable terms with no valid usecase, which exist solely to cause harm to our community.

Edit: Also feel free to use the tag or reblog or make your own posts about it; I just want to see this term die, so gotta get the word out about what it really is.

gumy-shark

playing stupid games but im really bad at them so im not even winning the stupid prizes

if empathy is what makes one human, then that's just further proof that I am non human

#reluctant rambles #szpd #suspected szpd #holothere #non human #inhuman #low empathy #no empathy

homunculus-argument

God will see you at the lowest point of your life, and say "what the fuck I thought I killed that thing." But you skitter too fast and you are too creepy.