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[thombalan]

Every bit of support helps me keep creating. 💙

Patreon link in bio 👆

[yourtryhard]

[phantomrose96]

I like when fic length/book length/movie length is its own punchline

[phantomrose96]

characters: Ah, I'm so glad that's all over now :). But luckily that's done and dealt with and we can all resume our normal lives now :)

fic length: Chapter 9 out of 48

[phantomrose96]

[medievalspecs]

[memorilore]

[epilepticfox]

Odysseus: Thank you for the concern, but brother, I can assure you Our journey is almost done.

Song 11 of 40

[meowmorials]

2008

[vintageeveryday]

A group of people lying in a drunken heap in a living room, 1954. Photographed by Kurt Hutton.

[sinistra-orlok]

[we-all-got-scars-again]

IT’S MARCH

[multifand0mtrash]

[magical-awesome-kid]

Uh… It’s still May…

[clowncare]

[normalstuffidk]

It’s august

[storm-driver]

[werewolfclaws]

i feel like this is a dying art called 'being a good human being' anybody else agree. anybody

[luna-azzurra]

What helped me write trauma better is remembering that the nervous system learns predictions. If danger used to come after quiet, calm can feel threatening. If kindness used to come with a price, kindness can feel suspicious. So healing is not just “they know they’re safe now.” Healing is the slow, annoying, deeply unfair process of teaching the body that the old prediction is not always the present truth.

[simonamorao]

Starting a What’s in my bag chain

Here’s my bag 💖🌱🍓

No pressure tags @boozilla-valentina @greensleeves2107 @shamanbluesss @mariaportadoceu and any who wants to play <3

[boozilla-valentina]

Here’s my “bag”

Tagging @greensleeves2107

[greensleeves2107]

@simonamorao and @boozilla-valentina thank you so much for tagging me☺💖

Packed my bag :) wow I've got so much stuff! Forgot to add my lipstick😃

No pressure tagg: @tsukimiii @soffesoffee @swallow-wind @myalicelostinwonderland @kettle-on

[swallow-wind]

Ahh thank you so much for tagging me @greensleeves2107 !!

Here's my bag :)) this was so fun!!

No pressure tags: @bunnyprincessbecca @ninetimesbluedemo @nastasyafilippovna11 @earthandsunandmoon @libramooon and whoever else would like to!

[nastasyafilippovna11]

thann you for tagging me @swallow-wind!!

idk how putting pins on leather like this would work but shhhhhh

no pressure tags:

@kurtisrichardprattbstard @softersalt @cimacally @tatsuyamss @ro-fromthestars @sneez @kitty-diangelo @/anyone else who wants to do it please!!!!

[softersalt]

I’ve never been one for carrying more on me than I absolutely have to, but I nonetheless appreciate the tag @nastasyafilippovna11

tagging @chess-blackmyre @something-softer @karinyosa @bumblingest-bee @whittakerchambers @stoportotouch @muined

[something-softer]

My bag if it were my personality rather than what I carry. Of course that would only be the necessities: Phone, Wallet, and Keys.

@tardis-mind-palace wanna give this a try?

[luulapants]

My elderly father started talking about how frustrating he finds “the pronouns thing” and I was like. Oh no. He had such a good stand on this, he’s been they/them-ing his cishet siblings for god’s sake! Is he regressing?? And he was talking about how difficult it is to remember, and how onerous it feels to expect strangers to keep track of it, and I’m like oh no oh no.

Then he says, “I mean, the problem isn’t the gender thing. The problem is four words: she, her, he, and him. We got rid of stewardess and turned it into flight attendant. It doesn’t matter if the flight attendant is a man or woman, so we got rid of it. We just need to get rid of those. I don’t need to know.”

“You don’t need to know… people’s gender?”

“No. I don’t care, I don’t need to know, and I don’t want to remember it.”

So we can relax. It’s just a continuation of his crusade to they/them the world. He doesn’t want to remember anyone’s gender. He’s abolishing the genders.

[teaboot]

Your dad is so powerful

[witless-winion1]

this fanfic shit is easy

[tlirsgender]

Btw if people keep telling you to stretch but never told you how to actually do it right you're supposed to go slower than you think & just hold it until you feel the muscle relax. Like how anal works

[tlirsgender]

Also the muscle that goes up to your temples and gives you headaches is the same as the one that clenches your jaw & it goes down the sides of your neck so stretching your neck helps with headaches and jaw tension. You can also massage it with a vibrator

[tlirsgender]

Stretching as far as possible immediately is not the goal you just bend until it feels tight. It's not supposed to Hurt You Worse. It won't hurt if you're doing it right. Much like another activity

[tlirsgender]

Many are saying "we're on the celibacy website these people don't know how anal works either" I know. That's my secret second lesson

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

— unknown (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

[forgleto-o]

Date idea: I lie face down on your bed and you pet my head for maybe 2 or 3 hours.

[badlydrawneverything]

[dragon-in-a-fez]

top notch interaction I had with the ambulance crew after my accident a couple years back:

paramedic: hi, I'm Allan

me: you told me. and your colleague is Jim, and the man who found me is Peter. guess my short-term memory is okay

Allan: ..are you doing a cognitive function test on yourself

[dragon-in-a-fez]

Allan, two minutes later, putting a third blanket around me: okay, how's that feeling now

me: well my feet are still freezing but it's okay, I know you need to focus on getting my core temperature up first

Allan: how many times has this happened to you

[dragon-in-a-fez]

noteworthy that they literally had a mask on me hooked up to a tank pumping narcotics into my lungs through all this, and my body temperature was like 34°. I would have been doing well to just have both eyes pointed in the same direction

[supreme-leader-stoat]

"This is great. I'm going to get a good grade in post-accident cognition."

[majestictortoise]

puttering around the house is an underrated form a self-care. make some tea or coffee. put on a podcast. sort the mail. tidy some pillows and fold some blankets. start the laundry. thaw some soup. just casually wander around aimlessly doing little things to make your space and life a little nicer. who cares if you get distracted or only do a little. you aren't being productive. you're puttering.