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mytearsrricochet

sometimes harvest mice sleep in tulips. here are some that will make you happy

thanks. Have a great day

ronanwazlib

au where everything is the same except sirius black is played by jonathan van ness from queer eye

everythings-onfirebut-itsfine

Harry: Wait, so Pettigrew actually betrayed my parents?

Sirius:

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Men are held to such low standards in relationships and it’s infuriating; just today I heard from my co-workers that ones husband never drove to come see her when they were doing long distance, and the other’s hasn’t mowed once in their 30+ years of marriage.

Like we like fun at lesbians moving fast in relationships, but that’s because women are socialized much differently than men, and those traits lead to healthier relationships. Though gender roles are fucking wack in general, you can’t deny that women are raise to be more understanding, expressive, and caring in general. My girlfriend drives 2 hours to come see me every weekend, and my friends boyfriend can barely make the 40 minute trip to come see her.

When women are in relationships with each other, they are more likely to talk about feelings, and go farther for their partners. Women do this in hetero relationships too, but it’s rarely reciprocated if they’re with a cis male.

I read an incredible essay about how gay marriage is incredibly beneficial to straight partners, because straight relationships always have a basis in inequality, due to societal gender divisions. Gay relationships show what it’s like to have a relationship without a gender based power imbalance.

Ladies, if you wouldn’t put up with it from a best friend, don’t let a boyfriend get away with it. Cultivate a society where men in relationships have to at least have basic decency; not only through your partners, but also through how you raise your sons.

meme-sauce

I’m shamelessly rebloging myself because I think this is a very important concept that more people need to be introduced too; I hope this gains traction and shows people to think critically about how they are treated.

electratart

when you’re having a good time but remember something embarrassing you said 7 years ago

my baby has started sleeping through the night but now I have insomnia :(

msmarvel

how it feels to be an adult

damnselfly-b-deactivated2022042

quick protip: if someone is crying or freaking out over something minor, eg wifi not connecting, can’t find their hat, people talking too loud, do NOT tell them how small or petty the problem is to make it better. they know. they would probably love to calm down. you are doing the furthest possible thing from helping. people don’t have to earn expressions of feelings.

shoren18

I’m just gonna put it out there that if someone’s freaking about something small, they’re really freaking out about something big that they’re trying to deal with, or something long term that’s been building up, and that little thing is the straw that broke the camel’s back.

I don’t know, try and give people the benefit of the doubt. Don’t be the next straw on their broken back.

jrkaplonski

Needed this today.

animate-mush

People don’t actually go from 0 to 60. If you think they did, you have failed to notice how long they’ve been at 59.

thesassycat

You can only reblog this today.

When someone says you only love Legolas because he is pretty

Person: You only love Legolas because he's pretty.

Me: Excuse me? I love Legolas because he is always there for his friends, he is ready to do anything for them, he is an awesome fighter and he's so tough but such a sweet cinnamon roll at the same time, he has a father who does not pay so much attention to him, the girl he loves doesn't loves him back so he has a broken heart and he deserves so much better and so much love, he is indenpendent and that is why l love him..and well..umm..he's hot too.