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nyctibiius

she has been pickled for her crimes

guooey

sandmanalone

The spirit of Mouse compelled me:

demon-dm-22

@ladysqueakinpip

squimshmallow

@haunted-house-heart

#pickling you brb #kai tag

oldwomenyuri123

"HATE. LET ME TELL YOU HOW MUCH I'VE COME TO HA-GURLGURGGU💦LGERGGU💦💦GERGUR💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦"

atopfourthwall

Who has no mouth and needs to scream NOW, asshole?

squimshmallow

The picture didn't load at first and I only saw the text. Let me tell you. My brain rot kicked in and I thought it was AM getting freaky

#blurry tag

withswords

^ me shocked that normal people don’t know ben drowned lore

rileyrose31

I’m gonna take a wild guess and say that Ben drowned.

withswords

you cannot begin to imagine what happened to ben

#idk who i am tag

the-habitat-sysblog

DID therapist trying to be comforting: you know, you're not alone

me: yeah, that's actually the problem

#kai tag

sys-polls

has anyone - who was unaware of your CDD - ever jokingly said you have a "split personality"?

yes, once.

yes, this has happened multiple times.

unsure/don’t remember!

nope.

other (explain in tags?)

[not a traumagenic system/see-results button]

Voting ended onMay 19, 2024

bonus question: who was it & why do you think they said it?

- amaranth.

#maggie tag #we got a lot of 'who are you and what have you done with [deadname]?'

fernwah-funzone

wait you understand that kinks are ok because they're fantasies that make you happy right? you all get that you don't need to have trauma for your kinks to be okay? right? like none of you think i witnessed a tragic accident on the pool toy assembly line right?

fernwah-funzone

like "some people work through their personal issues with kink" was a good first step for some of the class that were struggling but i think now we're ready for "things that don't hurt anyone and make people happy are okay even if you personally think it's icky"

curlicuecal

misunderstandings-georg

BECAUSE ROUGE THE BAT DRAWN AS WIDE AS SHE IS TALL WITH TITS TO MATCH KILLED MY GRANDMA, OKAY?

#kai tag

system-hottakes

my hot take is that some littles/middles don't want to be treated like their age or feel like they cant participate in mature topics

most ive met want be treated according to their age, but ive met some littles/middles who are capable of 'adult' activities. alter age is complicated. treat littles/middles the way they want to be treated, and that includes respecting them if they choose to date (body age comes first), use substances, drive, engage in sexual acts, etc! it depends on the alter/system if they can consent to these things!

yeah! Alter age and alter maturity are very different! Some of our littles are sexual alters, they present as children but are much more mature and capable of consenting and acting "adult". It's important to keep in mind every system is different and alter age Vs alter maturity is very different. This is also important to keep in mind for adult alters, as if the adult alter is older than the body they likely won't be as mature as an actual adult, as alters are limited by what the brain knows and can't really be more mature than the brain itself!

#kai tag #this so much #jackson may be 15 but he's been around for at least 12 years #he likes to engage in adult conversations and be treated as an adult #if someone is uncomfortable with that he backs off but he is a 15 year old alter in the body of a 25 year old #if he had aged along with me he would be in his late twenties

homoidiotic

Members of Lesbians with Disabilities Support Group, 1982, photographed by Cathy Cade (source: Gay by the Bay : a history of queer culture in the San Francisco Bay Area)

figbian

[ID: A black and white photograph of three lesbians in a linked line. From left to right, a wheelchair user leads the line, hand on the wheels; a cane user holds on against the back of the wheelchair, mid-step; the final lesbian with her guide-dog holds the elbow of the cane user in front of her. The three of them are crossing the street. End ID.]

squimshmallow

@haunted-house-heart

shiftythrifting

found this at a second-hand/culture store and absolutely lost it

#kai tag

tag-that-oc

tag the oc who bites affectionately

#kev's oc #xavier is so dog coded fr

gently-decaying-flowers

guys the day when you find the friend you can be 10000% unfiltered with will be the best day of your life i promise

haunted-house-heart

@squimshmallow me n you <3

#kai tag #🥺#yeah it IS me and you fr

pinkdovess

this meme is so niche

squimshmallow

@haunted-house-heart

#kai tag

adhdxxsdiary

#kai tag

magnusbae

To illustrate this post by @mayahawkse I would like to visualize to you the difference:

A post in 2023:

A post in 2014:

A zoom out of the same post:

This is what a community looks like.

See how in 2023 almost all of the reblogs come from the OP, from their few hours/days in the tag search. Meanwhile in 2014 the % of reblogs from OP is insignificant, because most of the reblogs come from the reblogs within the fandom, within the micro-communities formed there. You didn't need to rely on tags, or search, or being featured. Because the community took care of you, made sure to pass the work between themselves and onto their blog and exposed their followers to it. It kept works alive for years.

It's not JUST the reblog/like ratio that causing this issue, it's the type of interaction people have. They're content with scrolling and liking the search engine, instead of actually having a reblogging relationship with other blogs in their community.

Anyways, if you want to see more content you like, the only true way to make it happen is to reblog it. Likes do not forward content in no way but making OP feel nice. Reblogs on the other hand make content eternal. They make it relevant, they make it exist outside of a fickle tumblr search that hardly works on the best of days.

If you want more of something, reblog it.

magnusbae

Something I see mentioned often is "I don't have many followers, my reblog won't matter" which is untrue.

First of all, reblogging, commenting and interacting is how you start gathering your own micro community, second of all— you literally do not know how far a single reblog from you could go in the long run.

For instance, let's say you only have one person reblog from you, and that person only have one person who reblogged from them also, and so on, and somewhere ten reblogs down the line a very large blog reblogs it and boom, the post is getting more and more exposure!

You see, it does not matter if you don't have a large following so long as you cultivate a micro community with the people you do enjoy interacting daily with.

As you can see in the second picture I added, most of the reblogs were between very small groups of people, and occasionally it'll lapse into a large blog that would create a bigger reblog pool. BUT STILL. Saying that you don't have many followers and so it doesn't matter if you don't reblog is UNTRUE.

Even if someone just randomly wanders into your blog one day, it's beneficial for both sides because A. Seeing you reblog content they like might be enough for them to follow you B. They would be exposed to new content creators they didn't know previously and might also follow / reblog from them!

So yes, do not underestimate what your reblogs and words mean, just because you're not 'big' or whatever. It is not how tumblr works!!

P.S IT IS NOT CRINGE TO REBLOG 10 YEARS OLD CONTENT ON TUMBLR. YOU SEE IT. YOU LIKE IT? REBLOG IT. DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU DIG IT FROM THE DEPTHS OF HELL ITSELF. XOXO :'D <3

#kai tag