Nico le Freak

Young adult | xe/xem | Writer | Queer | Disabled | System | Neurodivergent | Credit to @thebeehivesys for the Picrew that made my pfp | Known in the writing realm as Solstice Fields

[laguz]

women’s flat chests

[laguz]

your true colors are showing for reblogging men’s tits but not this post smh

[stardusted-queerness]

Penguinself

Penguinself pronouns, made by me.

Pen/pen/guin/guins/penguinself

Examples (in order):

Pen went to the market today. I met pen today. Pen walked guin dog today. Pen let me borrow guins phone. Pen drives penguinself to school every day.

These were made for somebody who's penguingender and wanted pronouns to fit that.

[stardusted-queerness]

I made this flags for cis-boy and cis-girl after seeing the ones on the LGBTA+ Wiki. The current ones feel very "eh, I didn't wanna put a lot of effort into these because these are the 'normal' genders" and the grey feels very much like it's blatantly stating "these aren't that important because they're the Stereotypical Genders" to me and I wanted to create something that felt more prideful. So, this was my attempt.

Cisboy [left] and cisgirl [right] are meant to be more about being proud of your journey rather than as a bland attempt to give a flag to the medically assignable genders and that's what I attempted to do.

NOTE: I do not believe the creator of the originally flags meant to convey the feelings I mentioned above, that is just the vibe I got from the flags, which is why I created alternative flags. Please do not attack the original creator as this entire post is based off of my interpretation of a work that can be construed as anything.

[writingwife-83]

Guys, if you read on AO3 please try to create an account. So many of us writers are going to be forced to lock down our fics to registered users out of necessity to help keep AI away, and it kills us because we don’t want to stop any of you from reading.

AO3 is invite only. So if you know an AO3 user, ask if they have an invitation to give you (we’re given invite codes to share with others who want to join) because that’s an easy way to get in. If you don’t know someone you can ask, this is AO3’s instructions for requesting one from them…

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

I know this seems like an extra step and maybe you don’t think you need it and can just read from people who haven’t locked their fics. But this isn’t just about you as the reader. If you enjoy fics and you want to keep them coming, this is how you support your favorite writers! If our stats and comments plummet, I guarantee writing is going to start going down as well. Nobody wants that! So please consider making an account and signal boosting this as well! 🙏🏻

**NOTE: AO3 indicates (as of today) there’s 48k some people in the queue for invites and they’re sending out about 5k per day. That’s not a bad wait at all!!**

[stardusted-queerness]

Fractigender

fractigender - a gender that feels that it was whole or working at one point in time, but due to a undiscoverable reason, it has been corrupted and/or feels different.

EX Imagine you write a piece of code and it prints out "1 + 2 = 3". The first few times you run the code, it prints "1 + 2 = 3", but after the 3rd or 4th run, it starts printing "1 + 2 = 13" or some other nonsense, but you can't figure out what in the code is causing this bug. This is what fractigender feels like. You were once "working" but now you are "corrupted".

ETYMOLOGY fracti is "broken" in Latin.

NOTES ~ This is not an exclusive gender. ~ It is a good-faith identity under the non-binary and xenogender umbrellas. ~ This gender does not denote a presentation or preference for femininity or masculinity. ~ This term does not currently have a flag. Please reblog + tag me (@stardusted-queerness) so I can see it. Thank you <3

[our-queer-experience]

ive been meaning to make a post about this but like. i want to hear stories about trans people falling in love and dating people and hooking up and getting married and i want to hear from aro trans people about the friendships they value and i want to hear about transhet people who find love and i want to hear about nonbinary love and genderqueer love. i just. i want to hear about trans people in meaningful relationships. whether if it’s in my inbox or in the tags, lets start spreading trans positivity!

[stardusted-queerness]

I met my spouse when I was a freshman in high school. He noticed one day when I was silent, only writing my thoughts because I thought no one wanted to hear my thoughts and figured I'd just be silent. Within minutes, he had me speaking and laughing and being goofy and silly.

Over the next 2.5 years, he'd watch as I started to struggle with my identity. He was there for me when I had mental breakdowns, when my systemhood showed itself, when the depression and dysphoria was too much, and he never judged me.

We started dating on August 20, 2020. We got engaged on July 21, 2022, my 18th birthday. We married on January 12, 2023. He is the absolute love of my life, my sun and my moon, and my soul mate. He's accepted me as I am every step of the way, through the agender and trans parts of my journey, and even now, as I finally start planning for starting T. He's supported me and my sysmates throughout our journey as a system and has always been there for us to cry when we needed to. I love him to death and will never give him up.

[writing-prompt-s]

You rule a tiny kingdom and all of your citizens are monsters. You gave them a place they can belong, and they’ll defend it to their dying breaths.

[stardusted-queerness]

Makes me think of my idea for a "twilight court" for the Fae. It's for the mixed peeps, born of a Seelie and an Unseelie Fae, for those that are half-human, accidental creations, and the like. Those born into the Court are strongest during the In-Between moments, such as twilight or that moment between the time the sun is completely under the horizon and completely above the horizon.

[our-queer-experience]

i am so tired of queer experiences being reduced to oppression, mental health issues, isolation, and bad things in general. I want yall to flood my inbox with stories where you had a queer experience and it was good. 

you and your girlfriend’s first date, your first major haircut, the first time you made another gay friend, when a family member was accepting, when you first realized you were queer, i don’t care. i want to hear about happy experiences from queer people or from straight people about a time they saw their queer friend being happy or accepted or something. we’re spreading positivity this month, bitches! reblog this so others can see if you feel like it and send me a sentence or two!

(if you don’t want to be called queer/it to be tagged queer since you don’t identify w/t the term, please let me know in the ask)

[stardusted-queerness]

Adding to this (again) because of a recent event.

I got my 3rd official binder, this time from Underworks. I've used small brands from Amazon and GC2B, but Underworks is the truly only safe and affordable US-based brand I've found so far. I put it on for the first time and I now have the same physique and shape as my spouse when I'm wearing it. I'm so happy to finally have a binder again due to crippling dysphoria and a chest that fluxes between a C cup to DD cup within 2 months. I'm so so happy seeing myself from a side view and it's a black tank!! I don't have to wear something over it!! I can just wear it!!! I'm probably a ride or die with Underworks now because GC2B has stitching all over the place, which makes white tanks quite noticeably not tank tops and their safety rating as gone down and my Underworks binder was only $35. So so happy with this binder!! The euphoria is real mate!!

[stardusted-queerness]

Endergender

I know there's endermangender, the definition being "Endermangender is a gender that is related enderman and the end." but I want to add a new one because it's not 100% the way I see an enderman gender.

So. Endergender. Definition: a gender relating to endermen and their mysteriousness. May feel like your gender teleports around and you can't find it, that your gender is mysterious and unexplainable, or simply that it is very much like how an enderman looks/acts/sounds. These are not all the ways endergender can be experienced.

so yeah, endergender! 🎉

THERE CURRENTLY IS NO FLAG. IF YOU MAKE A FLAG FOR THIS, PLEASE TAG ME SO I CAN SEE IT!!!!!!!

[virgildoesthings]

The LGBTA Wiki has a PR problem.

I intend to solve that.

Scrolling through tags like "lgbta wiki" on here makes me realise quite how much of a problem the wiki has with PR. This is a problem that I was, for far too long, blissfully unaware of. It's now a problem I wish to solve, and in the process try and make the wiki as best as it can be.

I've been seeing your rants about the wiki, including the ones about the sourcing policy Jeb announced a while back and the truly awful crediting situation for a lot of terms. I hear you. I see you and I hear you. And I want to include more voices in the wiki's future. That's why I'm bringing the LGBTA wiki back to Tumblr, so let me introduce myself.

Hi, I'm Virgil. I'm pan, ace, genderfluid, and probably a bit more. I really don't have the energy to figure that out every often, lol. I like playing games, exploring the depths of the interwebs and every now and then writing code.

I've been helping run the wiki for probably around a year and a half by now, and so far have very little intention of slowing down. It's been a hell of a time, with a community I've grown to love even more than when I started out. Who woulda thunk that was possible, lol.

Anyways. Good to meet you, I guess. I'd appreciate if anyone who gets lucky enough to see this would drop a few cool people to follow on here, because I haven't exactly used this platform much up until now.

With that said, if you wanna talk about anything, be it related to the wiki, queer issues, or even something else like the football scores or the sheer state of your local mcdonald's, gimme a holler. I'm down to chat.

Virgil o7

[stardusted-queerness]

follow 'em. Know them from Discord and they're pretty awesome ^_^

[7bitter]

that post calling ppl "mentally slow" for using chatgpt was v weird. while i think u should be learning & not getting chatgpt to write ur papers (tbh it's not even good at writing papers), i get that school is v demanding, esp when u have disabilities and/or a lot else going on. here's a couple tools to help take off some mental burdens of studying:

goblin.tools -> excellent site full of tools

magic to-do: AI breakdown of tasks into sub-steps

formalizer: in the name! changes text to formal language

judge: can tell u about the tone/subtext of ur writing

estimator: judges the length of a task for u

compiler: turns a braindump into a to-do list

researchrabbit: input a source u have already found to create connection webs (through citations) to other literatures -> ensures higher relevance in the sources u find vs digging thru ProQuest or JSTOR for hours

connectedpapers: same function as above, however it's limited to only 2 free articles

in case the hyperlinks break, direct links are below the cut

ResearchRabbit

The most powerful discovery app ever built for researchers 🔥

Connected Papers | Find and explore academic papers

A unique, visual tool to help researchers and applied scientists find and explore papers relevant to their field of work.

[stardusted-queerness]

am i supposed to feel this broken

[stardusted-queerness]

Anyone else have survivor's guilt because you made it through the US school system without a shooting?

Like, every time I see the headlines for another shooting, I always think "It should've been me". I still get dreams about being in school and hearing the lockdown call. I feel sick whenever I think of how my dream was to become a teacher, but because of medical problems, I never will be and that means the kids I could have saved will die. I feel sick and hopeless when I see another TikTok talking about using your surroundings and your body to save your students. I fear guns, even blanks. I get anxious and fidgety whenever I see someone with a gun on their hip, even police officers. I constantly scan every area I go to, taking note of what could be used as defence and what could be used as offence. I constantly scope out exits, where the most vulnerable people are, where fire extinguishers are. I'm always hyper vigilant because even though I'm not in school anymore, a shooting is still a very prevalent threat.

But yeah, anyone else like this?

[stardusted-queerness]

anybody know of an app for desktops/laptops that will let you pull up an overlay that shows the date/time/event scheduled at the push of a button? being vision-impaired, it's hard for me to get the time pulled up on my laptop/desktop, so I was wondering if there was an app that could help

[levi-ish]

saw this on twitter rn, if you ever feel discouraged about writing fanfiction, read this again

[dduane]

...This.

[stardusted-queerness]

💯❗❗

[our-queer-experience]

i get into this argument a lot in the conversation of trans rights and i just want to see something

is psychology a science?

psychology is a science

psychology is NOT a science

its more complex than that

Voting ended onMay 21, 2023

[our-queer-experience]

if you picked the third option, i’d be very interested to hear why in the tags.

[stardusted-queerness]

I want to stop remembering you. My heart has bled for far too long now. And I can’t stop the blood from flowing. Please, let your memory rest within my soul.

I want to forget all the times I cried over you. All the times I wished I could be yours. All the times I laughed and smiled because of you. I want to forget, because it hurts too much.

Three times, I fell. Three times, I bled. Three times, I tried. Three times… is it not enough?

Please stop summoning yourself in my dreams. Stop making my heart bleed years later. Give me peace from my despair. Let me be happy.

Please.