Huiuiui

27 babeyyy, they/them, aroace, rumors say i graduated

[egberts]

"i ate too many cookies" is truly an ageless problem. an unlearnable lesson.

[pngclub]

[ver8370]

impossible sequence.

[everydaylouie]

desk self-portrait

[teathattast]

[vortexsophia-deactivated2022110]

[greelin]

i’ve been thinking about this and desperately searching for it for months

[julykings]

recovery bug 1

[fairycosmos]

you literally have to unironically listen to some shit like party rock anthem so you don’t kill yourself

[boringkate]

It's not too late to suppress all of your wants and desires and to die unfulfilled and afraid without anyone ever having really known you.

[venovenous]

peace and love on Earth..

[aggressive-positivity-network]

When someone gives the advice of “don’t be afraid to disappoint your parents” they don’t just mean taking music theory in college or starting a YouTube channel.

It also means wearing things they might not approve of. Using accommodations that they might not think you need. Not falling for their guilt trips. Eating when you’re hungry, not when it suits them and their idea of your weight or health. Making your own friends instead of seeking the stamp of approval from them.

Of course, some parents are stricter than others, and some use abuse to keep you from expressing yourself. But do what you can, even if it seems small.

Otherwise, when your parents are no longer in the picture, you’ll try to find it somewhere else to get validation. A strict boss, an abusive partner, a selfish friend.

Going against your parent’s wishes is developmentally healthy. Not doing so stunts your independence and self-regulation. You shouldn’t be living to constantly please others, even the people who love you.

[victusinveritas]

[black-crested-jaybird]

I always think of the description I saw years ago: Self-imposed deadlines don't help me, because I know the person who set them, and they're full of shit.

[37q]

[antisocial-transfag]

tags by nothorses

[lesbianrey]

every day i get a little madder about the ‘dream job’ narrative… all i want is to have a job that benefits society somewhat, doesn’t abuse me, and lets me live a happy life outside of my job lol. jobs should not be (and arguably can’t be) cosmic destinies and identities

[notmusa]

SCARED

[s3znl-gr3znl]

[uncertainlys]

i hope everything works out in the end because i am so so scared

[scorpionlafemme]