Sugar-Brown

Over 18, queer 3A, French, neurodivergent Mostly on tumblr to catch a break from the real world because it's tough. Impulsive reblogs at: sugar-brown-reblogs PP from: Issy (@_artizzy on instagram)

[parsonkenny101-deactivated20161]

[sugar--brown]

Let me slap this right here...

Yes, I will block you if you are against those. No, I don't care if it's censorship. Yes, I am here to have a good time so I keep political debate out of this space.

[risu-with-glasses]

Baby's first art fight, wish me luck and courage. And for any curious fighter (or not fighter): my profile

[birdplushie]

"it's not that deep" START DIGGING!!

[magn-animously]

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[philosopherking1887]

OOPS TOO DEEP

[breaks-hetheon]

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[artist-of-obsessions]

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[saym0-0]

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[sugar--brown]

[mx-macintosh]

y'all need to relearn the word erratic and stop using schizophrenic/bipolar/psychotic as a replacement

[mx-macintosh]

y'all need to relearn the word particular and stop using ocd as a replacement

[weresoul]

People need to relearn the word "egocentric" and stop using narcissist/narc as a replacement.

[thatpreciousthing]

People need to relearn the word "impulse" and stop using "intrusive thought" as a replacement

[answrs]

People need to relearn the word "lying" and stop using "gaslighting" as a replacement

[spookyspeks]

People need to relearn the word "hopeful" and stop using "delusional" as a replacement

[lakemojave]

You know that whatever character did those problematic things isn't like. Real, right?

[lakemojave]

You are aware that a fictional character is just a rhetorical construct designed to fulfill a narrative/thematic purpose right? That their actions are written by an author who wants to use them to explore complex ideas and moral gray areas within the safe confines of fiction right? That they aren't a real person who has killed real people right?

[sugar--brown]

Yes to all this! With one exception:

Unless the heavy themes serve nothing but fanservice (let's call it that) and the creator openly admit it only does that because they thought that was what everyone is horny about in secret.

But at this point, we have a bigger problem than just a questionnable fiction since we have a real person who doesn't realise why some people aren't comfortable around heavy themes...

(I am talking about Bastien Vivès btw, who isn't a very nice person to start with)

[vibrantstarfire]

ladies… has anyone ever told you it’s okay to be feminine 🩷 i’m sure no one has ever ever ever reinforced this deeply held secret, that’s it’s okay for you to be feminine. 🩷 i know the world totally tries to tell you that you have to be manly and masculine and grow your body hair and eat as much as you want and get strong and stand up for yourself and make waves and take up space and show your bare face and show your anger. but it’s okay to do the exact opposite actually. 🩷 it’s okay to shrink yourself down to the exact same mold every other woman is expected to conform to. 🩷 did you know that it’s okay to be feminine. 🩷 did you know it’s okay to be feminine. 🩷 did you know it’s okay to be feminine. 🩷 has anyone ever told you it’s okay to be feminine. 🩷 will you be feminine. 🩷 will you be feminine. 🩷 will you be feminine. 🩷 will you just be feminine already. 🩷🩷🩷

[maemaybe]

I don't know who my intended audience is here, so whoever needs to hear this, I am begging you to learn to participate in conversations that are about things you aren't interested in.

Part of socializing and having friends is being a good listener even when you don't actually give a shit about the subject.

Your are hurting other people's feelings when you bluntly respond with "Anyway..." and then change the topic.

It can not always be about your preferred topic.

You are being rude. Yes, even if you are neurodivergent. You can be both autistic and rude.

[sugar--brown]

My trick is to not focus on the thing but to focus on how that thing makes the other happy! And since I care about this person, I bevome invested in the talk.

[fluffyartbl0g]

Shout out to that one tumblr post that was like: "You know it's not just trans people who ponder their gender, it's healthy for cis people to take a look inside and be like! Yep that's all good!" And I read this post and was like.... like what do you look at inside though T O T??? I asked my boyfriend how he knew he was a boy and he said he just felt this unexplainable intrinsic feeling he was a boy... and I'm like... I HAVE GENUINELY NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT WTF 😭😭😭!!!!!!!! So apparently its like. Normal for people to feel this inexplicable 'Gender' feeling or whatever,,, I feel like how asexual people feel when they discover people around them aren't making up the fact they experience sexual arousal T O T

Obviously all my sciency stuff is just speculation! But I'm the type of person who believe that everything has a rationale behind it, and like an adopted child who is curious about their biological parents, I just am just interested in my origins! The field of genetics still is mostly just like,,,, hmmm we think this whatever MIGHT be a contributing factor to a person turning out this way... maybe. If you are more interested in the topic I discussed, just look up 'Genetic Memories in Animals' and there should be some more stuff OuO!

I'd love to hear how this 'inexplicable gender feeling' feels to gendered individuals! For those willing to share, I'd love to listen!

[sockth]

Hey if you See This can you reblog this or comment on this with a character you headcanon as aromantic, asexual, or both. It can be canon it can be founded on absolutely nothing I just need more aroace stuff on here #yay

[sugar--brown]

I will die on this hill.

[nicothespy]

oh tumblr staff definitely noticed the transphobe allegations and put the entire lgbtq+ in it LMAO

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[manuciruja]

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

[smadsel]

would be remiss not to mention that the rainbow notably straight up just removed the trans flag colors from it. like they’re gone. it’s the progress flag minus the trans flag colors.

[smadsel]

that’s not the whole flag, now is it

[manuciruja]

hey staff what the fuck

[sugar--brown]

I am so relieved! I thought I lost them while moving out! But they came back yesterday while I was rewatching the show!

Nothing better than watching one of your comfort show during a summer thunderstorm with an ice cream while planning where to put your merch!

[theshitpostcalligrapher]

the curse of summer is buying and eating an inadvisable amount of fruit in single sittings.

[amethystsoda]

[theshitpostcalligrapher]

ive mentioned this before but the main reason this is a CURSE and not a BLESSING is because bombarding your SYSTEM with that much fruit sugars and fibre all at ONCE will often create THE BAD TOILET EXPERIENCE

[theshitpostcalligrapher]

I am having my first (admittedly RESTRAINED) watermelon experience of the season and i am READY

[inquissien]

Arsène Lupin, losely based on the short story 'Le Sept de cœur / Seven of Hearts'

[thesituation]

i don’t feel like debating that topic much farther bc truthfully if it comes down to “women will lose to men in every sport bc they don’t have as much testosterone!!!!!” my elite feminist response is honest to god “ok we will lose with honor as equals instead of having our own special Easy Mode Female category so we can win amongst ourselves” like i’m sorry i just can’t be persuaded. i’m a brick wall. i want co-ed sports

[sugar--brown]

That's what I thought, because I suck at sports in general so each and every man in my class was better than me. I thought it was because I was born as a woman and I was bad at sports, so double suck at it.

Until I realized that some sports have no reason to be gendered! Like... archery? Riding? Shooting? Acrobatic Snowboarding?

And I was even more shocked to read that some women have more testosterone than some men! And some athletic women are stronger than some athletic men! Wtf?!

That's when I realized that the sport's system is archaïc asf. If we need to separate the population to maje competition more fun and fair, it shouldn't be based on gender! Like in combat sports - yeah still by gender - but also by weight! Why not in other sports? Like height in basket?

I am no expert in sports, but I know we have the technology to make more accurate levels than just "vagina on one side, penis on the other".

[stillnaomi]

using violence to liberate people from sweatshops, unsafe mines, and grinding poverty isn't the same as using violence to impose those things on people. the idea that violence is morally repugnant regardless of context is a belief that every oppressor throughout history would love for the oppressed to hold

[sugar--brown]

On this subject! I always considered myself as a pacifist who has enough trust in the fondations of our society to believe we can fix the system instead of burning ut to the ground and redo it completly. I don't like degradation during protests, I don't like singing how everyone hates the police, I don't like seeing other people having a harder or uncomfortable life because of my actions...

BUT! I am neither naive nor stupid. I see the news. I participate in protests. I see the state of the world and despite being very privileged compared to the majority of the world I understand that we need to do something.

And when the nice way doesn't work, when you only receive empty promises while they do whatever they want anyway, when you see people's lives being destroyed on the autel of whatever rotten problems which benefits the elite... You have to admit that the nice way isn't enough. The reasonnable way isn't enough because you fight against unreasonnable people. So, you have to accept that violence is sometimes the only answer, the only way.

Of course, I am not claiming we should escalate every conflict into blood baths every time! I am not saying the nice way is dumb or useless. I am still a pacifist at heart, but my empathy is bigger than my own satisfaction at being pacifist. Where you put the limit of this violence is up to you, it's hard to do but it's necessary.

And even if you can't being violent like me, can't resolve yourself to break and hit and cause chaos, it doesn't mean you can't help! People who fights need support. They need people in the back to help with patching them up, to communicate their message, to have their back when they fall.

When the elite doesn't listen pacifists, the fighters have to stand up. And the fighters need pacifists to back them up.

[volitantia-webcomic]

Love in Greenmarsh