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[sundayswithdolly]

“We live in a world that rewards urgency” (- a really pretty girl on tiktok)

[sundayswithdolly]

“Learning to have patience only because you are timeless” - Kendrick Lamar

[scorpionlafemme]

[superstarsisi]

if it is genuinely meant for me, God will make sure that it finds me

[scorpionlafemme]

[nikasholistic]

You can have the most magical life. You can have the most magical reality. You just have to decide what it is you really want. You have to be specific. Show the Universe exactly what you want. Show the Universe the blueprint for your perfect life. How does your perfect life look like? Think about it carefully.

You’re the creator, the designer of your reality. But you have to specify what it is that you want. Vague manifestation gives you vague results. Being specific allows you to create the life of your dreams. Know what you want. Sit with yourself and ask yourself what you really want in life. And then include as much detail as you can. You can have the life of your dreams, but you have to define the life of your dreams.

[scorpionlafemme]

[sundayswithdolly]

On thissss !!🤏🤏🤏🤏

[deardiarywrites]

how to make better friends 𖹭 coming from someone who has spent her whole life trying to fit in when she was meant to outshine

having good friends has to be one of the biggest blessings ever. this is something i lacked for a long time, due to both the people i surrounded myself with and my own mindset.

while you are on the journey to finding your kind of people, you will find yourself in many situations where you feel so lonely and confused :

☆ why do they seem so awkward around me? ☆ are they ignoring me? ☆ why did they not invite me? ☆ is something wrong with me? ☆ am i meant to be alone forever? ☆ why does everyone exclude me?

these may be some of your thoughts. and ykw? it is completely alright. i went through the same things and sometimes i still do, even though, now, i am surrounded by beautiful, strong & kind people. just like everything else in life, making friends is not easy. it demands time, effort & investment from both sides. you cannot expect to have great friends if you put it no effort and treat the people around you like trash. you can't expect to attract great friends if you treat YOURSELF like trash either. it just doesn't work like that. and why? because you lack boundaries. your friends might not realise that they are hurting you. and you will ofcourse never talk about it. in one way or another, either of you will slowly start to drift away. there is no perfect recipe to making friends. and not every friend cannot fulfill every single "criteria". some friends are fun to hangout with. some are awesome at giving advices and going on walks with. some are just so creative and calm and help you get in touch with your inner child. keeping that in mind, you have to understand that you cannot expect your own self to be that perfect person either. no one is perfect and that is what makes life sm better. sometimes you might notice a friend of yours being closer to another friend. and that is okay because maybe that person fulfills what ur friend needs at the moment. the best thing to do in this situation is to accept that and hangout with people who need you at that moment or who you need at that moment.

and i don't really believe in friend groups. i think friendships should be very open and not restricted to certain groups only. talk to everyone, be on good terms. you don't have to be nasty and assume that everyone hates you. maybe you are awesome. and maybe everyone secretly like you for that. maybe you are the only one who cannot see that since you constantly surround yourself with other nasty people.

my final piece of advice would be to allow yourself to do things you want even when your friends don't want to do it. compromising your fun just because someone else thinks something you like is "boring" is the worst thing you can do to yourself.

you just gotta have fun and enjoy yourself, the rest just falls into place.

[theambitiouswoman]

The best way to treat yourself is to treat yourself in your love language. So for example, If your love language is acts of service, try doing small, intentional things that make your life easier because you deserve to feel supported by you. This is one of the ways you will feel most fulfilled. Also remember that we teach people how to treat us, by how we treat ourselves

Acts of service: Cleaning your space, prepping your meals, planning your week, booking needed appointments, taking your vitamins, setting reminders, doing what you said you would do

Quality time: Take walks, sit in silence, read a book you love, journal, turning off your phone, making time just for you

Receiving gifts: Buy yourself flowers, order your favorite food, invest in things that are meaningful to you, wear something special just because, gift yourself something thoughtful

Words of affirmation: Write yourself a love note, say nice things in the mirror, make a gratitude list, read affirmations daily, celebrate yourself

Physical touch: Apply body oil, yoga or stretching, warm baths, gua sha or face roller, hug yourself, get a massage

love yourself, you deserve it 🤍

[sundayswithdolly]

theres so much beauty in silence. you can do so much in it. even if it feels lonely , your presence gives yourself company already.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[margecouture]

friendly reminder 🪷

in my control

my actions

the way i respond

my values & goals

my boundaries

my beliefs

my choices

my perspective & mindset

what i take responsibility for

what i focus on

how i spend my time

how i engage

in my influence

my health

my wellness & wellbeing

my connections

relationship dynamics

my reputation

certain aspects of the future

my energy

my environment

my finances

not in my control

the past

my memories

regrets

others feelings

others thoughts

others words

others beliefs

others behaviors & responses

politics

world conflict

aging

illness

loss

the weather

the future

[sundayswithdolly]

Summer. It is beautiful.

[scorpionlafemme]

[sundayswithdolly]

Literally receiving a unique form of love

[lilydrafts]

The moment you decide you are worthy. The universe starts to agree.

[sundayswithdolly]

Cheerful because my humor is insane, music taste unique and diverse, b (ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ഒdy is serving, face card is never declining, skin clear , fashion taste exquisite and safe + sound in my home, protected by God.

[sundayswithdolly]

May my year be filled with growth , discipline and humbleness. May i be filled with love, joy and security , protected by beautiful and blessed energy. Amen.