Syspunk Safe Zone

Continuing the fight to keep a safe space for us. DNI pro/neu endos and non-traumagenic "systems" asks - open

[syspunk-safe-zone]

aaand we're back! Is this thing on?

🎵 I believe in keeping a safe zone for punks against endos and for systems as a whole. That's why I've decided to continue this blog after the previous owner deactivated.

🎵 Not affiliated with the previous owner but hopefully we can continue what their blog was for the community.

About us: I'm a diagnosed DID system of about 50 known alters. I go by shi/hir or they/them and so many neos I couldn't list them all if we tried lol

Feel free to send asks, vents, confessions, stories, and anything else that you'd like! See ya! 💚

[lemony-ink]

Does anyone else go into a dissociated state of not being able to do anything or think at all after watching something new that a fragment alter latches on to?

I just Consumed A New Media™ and I haven't been able to do anything for a day now because of the shock from introjection.

[fuck-systems-cringe]

System resets are not what these dudes on syscringe are saying. At all.

A system reset can happen when the host discovers the system while still going through trauma and it is not safe for them to know. Not all the alters reset, it’s mostly just a case of getting a new host in who doesn’t know anything about the system. It’s a safety precaution not something done when they get fed up of “roleplaying the current alters”

[syscultureis]

Syspunk culture is we have not stopped dissociating for nearly 3 months to the point I don't think we're making memories period, fuck amnesia barriers those memories just don't exist

[npdjaygatsby]

fakeclaimers when alters act like source : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when alters dont act like source : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when high headcount : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when low headcount : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you dont remember ur trauma : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you DO remember ur trauma : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when an alter dates someone with a different source : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when an alter dates someone with the same source and ISNT dating just bc of said source (guys this CAN happen btw,,,) : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you tell them that no matter WHAT fakeclaiming does more harm than good : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when factives : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when fictives : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when brainmades : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you tell them there is more to the disorder than just alters : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you act traumatized because you are : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you are publicly talking abt being a system : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you arent publicly talking abt being a system : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you dont tell them everything abt ur system : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you trauma dump to them bc they asked for proof : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

fakeclaimers when you dont wanna talk to them : 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

ik there’s more feel free to reblog to add stuff

[traumagenic-positivity]

i love you systems who call your alters "parts"

i love you systems who call your alters "alters"

i love you systems who call your alters "headmates"

i love you systems who call your alters "voices"

i love you systems who call your alters swears

i love you systems who call your alters things that are silly, weird, or normal

dont let anyone tell you what to call them <3

[syspositivy-deactivated20250616]

don't ignore your alters. don't push your parts away. don't pretend like they don't exist. ''if i ignore them, they will go away,'' <--- something you shouldn't do. even if you don't like your system, it is not something you can ignore. they will not vanish because you're ignoring them. please, cooperate. work with them. you share a body. not liking them doesn't matter. you share a life with them and everyone has the responsibility to move forward and live the life. it's okay to dislike your system. it's not okay however to ignore them, push them away, pretend they don't exist, not do anything to help them and just let everything be in chaos. that will not help. it will make everything worse. love for your system means cooperating; working as a team, family or roomates; maybe even coworkers; and not ignoring and confusing everyone in your system because you hate them. moral of the story, ignoring your system won't make them go away. once your parts are there; they'll always be there. do the bare mininum and at the very least, work together.

[formidablefangs]

Let's talk about Sysboxes.

[Let's talk about sysboxes]

Disclaimer:

This is just an awareness post, not meant for fighting and whatever you chose to do with this information DO NOT HARASS ANYONE MENTIONED.

Dont go harassing the blog or any of the mods. You can block them or what have you just do not spam them with asks or messages or anything of the sort. If they ask to be left alone then leave them be otherwise that is harassment. Thank you.

Now as many might be aware already, sysboxes is a userbox blog for systems that claims to be anti endo yet has quite a bit of controversy around that and there mods, one mod to be specific though more mods are included.

If you are unaware, this blog has stated they are anti endo, but their mods dont all align with what the blog is supposed to be. A handful of their mods are neutral but there is one that is a pro endo mod.

The problem with this is because if you're claiming to create a safe space for systems excluding endos and then have mods running the blog who themselves violate that claim, you are not creating a safe space and you are going against your own stance by allowing someone to invade.

Below we have screenshots a user sent our partner including their own statements. Apologies for the lack of ids. I hope it's in order.

If sysboxes has not yet taken responsibility for allowing an ableist pro endo "mixed origin" system to be a mod in a space meant to be anti endo then they seriously need to. They are not a victim they are putting victims, that had horrible experiences with endos and follow them, in danger.

But until then here are some blogs that you can follow and support instead that are more transparent about actually being anti endo:

those mentioned are perfectly welcome to ask to be untagged or removed from the list entirely.

@sysboxed , @systiveboxes , @disabledsysboxes , @antiendosysboxes , @sysboxesforsystems , @antiendouserboxes , @systemuserboxes

[formidablefangs]

Adding on screenshots of these posts..

First link referenced:

Second link referenced:

Apologies again for lack of ids.

I wouldn't call this taking responsibility for letting a pro endo invade an anti endo space.

Make of it what you will .

They haven't been active as of the 9th of april so guess we wait to see where this goes if anywhere.

[formidablefangs]

Here are the screenshots the person who sent the ask provided!

This way you can read them in full

[antiendovents]

reblogging the full callout because I didn't link the reblogs (and I didn't know about them till now)

[syspunk-safe-zone]

We also love @fairygodsystem !!

[jesterjamz]

getting tumblr asks is like receiving a letter in the mail to me. you understand.

[keeryhours]

i love when you guys send me asks 🥹

[octoconbeware]

OCTOCON BEWARE

TLDR; A pedophile that has admitted to abusing a minor is in the Octocon servers, and the creator of the bot and the moderator team for the servers have stated they will not do anything about it. The Octocon servers allow minors and have minors active in the server.

If you are in a server that uses and has ever recommended a member go to either of the Octocon servers, I ask that you please notify the mod team so that they are aware there is a predator in the servers they are recommending their members to.

A second post with evidence of the discussion with the moderators as well as the pedophile admitting to abusing a minor is linked at the bottom of this post.

More details about the situation below. Content warning for a slightly more in depth discussion of pedophilia.

The creator of Octocon and the moderators of the Octocon discord servers were made aware of a pedophile that sexually abused and traumatized a 14 year old when he was 18 years old. The evidence submitted into a private ticket with the moderators was the pedophile admitting to doing so in a private message with a user that I will keep anonymous.

After over a week of inaction from the Octocon mods, where the pedophile was allowed to talk in the servers with minors and staff members, the moderator team came to the decision that they will allow the predator to continue to use the servers as "The situation is too old and complex for simple moderators on a discord server to judge." I found the inaction of the moderators and final decision disturbing. The fact that this was all handled quietly and server members were not made aware of this decision at all was extremely discomforting to me. I personally have decided to move away from the bot/app and ended my support for it due to the complete lack of care the owner and staff has expressed in regards to member safety by letting a self-admitted pedophile chat with minors in their servers. I reached out to the user who had initially brought up the concerns to the moderator team for permission to make a post about it so people are aware of the situation. Link to evidence post: https://www.tumblr.com/octoconbeware/775057200100065280

[syscultureis]

sys culture is the freeze response also happening over the most mundane things ever

"We Are Fucking Under Attack" wrong! you are getting groceries

.

[fleshfictive]

NOT supportive to your system friends:

- "can you make [alter] front?"

- always asking who's fronting

- getting upset when they can't remember something

VERY supportive to your system friends:

- giving them money

- "here's $50 for you"

- relinquishing your money to them

- offering them money

[draxons-farm]

Hey, if any of y’all go out of your way to harass and attack endos or non-disordered “systems”, just know you’re not welcome here.

We hate them too, but harassing someone you think “deserves it” is disgusting behavior.

Just ignore/block them.

[syspunk-safe-zone]

cant hide forever pedo

Docs on it's way 😘

"Docs on its way" - sent a month ago

Idk guys I think endos are just projecting their fear of being exposed onto me since it's easier than confronting their ableism 😬

[syscultureis]

sys culture is Experiencing the Horrors and then going about your day like a happy lil fella because you forgot

.

[youngchronicpain]

hi hello if you play video games as a way to distract yourself from your chronic pain please know that I understand and that even though to others it may just look like "wasting time" giving your brain a solid distraction from pain is a very necessary thing sometimes! my partner and I play stardew valley in the evenings and it is so nice to disconnect from my body and focus on the game. if that is the best way you have found to rest while also being distracted, then that is great! I am glad you have something that works for you. please don't feel bad about that.

[the-night-crew]

I hate when syscourse is like "we all experience plurality wether disordered or not, we are the same thing"

like not coz it's not about plurality ? It's about the PTSD, the dissociation, the flashbacks, the chronic pain, the social challenges that it brings

Plurality is so secondary like even tertiary, irl no one knows about DID, we appear as weird, sometimes aggressive and dangerous, the memory issues and dissociation make it that it' just hard to do anything ever

It takes me an hour to wash a plate and a fork because I'm zoned out for most of it and randomly stop moving, sometimes I can't even do tasks, because an other alter has the knowledge of this skill and I have no idea what to do

It makes it borderline impossible to get a job (before treatment of course) because genuinely I can't be present ever, I don't retain info so I make people repeat over and over, then they leave and I forget the entire thing

Plurality is like, so unimportant and that's why we want our own space, it's not just about the alters

I want to be able to look up in the "actually DID" tags to find a way to cope, there use to be good tips here, sometimes I want info on how to get through a suicidal trauma holder or a persecutor that wants to destroy everything we own.

Now when I look it's mostly incorrect quotes, funny haha "inner world" interactions, it's basically a fandom with the fanart, aesthetics and roleplay that go with it

it's crushing, I feel so alone now because it's hard to find other systems that actually have the disorder, the tags means nothing more than a visibility tool and I'm just sad.

Having DID feels lonelier than ever now