Morgan & Cie

iels/ils - TDNS ; TDAH ; TAG - Santé mentale & trans tips !

[genderqueerdykes]

I am not really sure where else to put this, so here it goes. I am a binary transgender man. I do not use the term non-binary in any capacity, I dislike it, and I dislike being put in a not-man/neutral box. But I am genderqueer. I am a genderqueer binary transgender man.

It is something I struggle to explain and am reluctant to tell others, as they tend to put me in that box I do not like. Your box about being genderqueer and not needing to use the term nonbinary felt. Good. It felt nice to read. I still do not believe I am capable of being open about it, no, but I feel like your little ask box here is somewhere I can admit it. To myself, mostly. Thank you.

i wanted to thank you for sharing this genuinely!

i feel like there are a lot of others who feel the same way! i use the tern nonbinary because i have to in some spaces, genderqueer is lumped under the nonbinary umbrella a lot, and some folks just don't know the term genderqueer. i don't think its right to force people into a box they dont necessarily fit in just because of a similar identity. if they want to adopt it, great, if they don't, also great

take care, thank you so much for sharing your experience! i wish you all the luck in your journey. take care!

[forestcoric-mogai-fox]

Saphe

Saphe: being lesbian in nonbinary way! It includes straytbians and gaybians, of course

For @arco-pluris

[transenbyconfessions]

wait ok are gc2b binders really unsafe? and if so, how? i’ve seen conflicting information, and my only binder is from there and i want to know if i can keep wearing it or if i need to get a different one

Submitted July 4, 2023

[queerism1969]

[kurtkankle]

[liberalsarecool]

It's not just the LGBTQ students, it's any student who has a LGBTQ person in their life: a mother, a father, a friend, a neighbor, an aunt, an uncle, a cousin. It's more than just classmates.

No one has no right to question if people are valid.

[transenbyconfessions]

the trans experience of losing track of time and realizing you need to take your binder off soon, thus scrambling to explain why you suddenly have to head home without outing yourself lol

Submitted July 3, 2023

[the-omnirealityverse-coning]

Enboy - Someone who is both nonbinary (enby) and a boy in some way.

Flag remake by snowkit-and-blackquill.

[systeme-neverland]

<3

[uncanny-tranny]

Social transition being seen (by some) as this super easy thing that isn't as hard as real transitioning (medical) is bullshit. Be critical of the idea that there are some trans people who just "have it easy" because they are trans or because they are trans in ways you may not be.

Social transition is just as difficult, hard, and rewarding as medical transition. Maybe it is not as hard for some, sure, but that is not the same as thinking that social transition is inherently easier or lesser. If you're socially transitioning, your voice still matters.

[systeme-neverland]

<3

[samijami]

YO BITCHES AUTISTIC PEOPLE CAN BE TRANS TOO

DON'T MATTER IF THEY GOT NO DAMN IQ, OR IF THEY SMART AS ALBERT FUCKING EINSTEIN

WE ALL DESERVE THE RIGHTS TO TRANSITION IF WE FUCKING WANNA

[rainbowobsidianbutterfly]

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[kiriamaya]

Hi, everybody! I’m Pazi. I am a transgender, autistic woman who writes novels and attends university — and I need your help! Transitioning has brought so much joy and relief into my life, but the dysphoria and depression I feel as a result of my anatomy are interfering with life, school and writ…

Pazi is a good friend, and I want her to get this!! Boost!!

[transgooglesearches]

Your binding info page is a bit out of date.

There is actually one kind of tape that is safe to bind with. Kinesiology tape (aka "K-tape" or "Trans Tape") is an elastisized sports tape that can be safely used for binding without wrapping around a person's ribs.

K-tape is used to pull aside each side of a person's chest without wapping around like in this picture so that it doesn't put pressure on ribs or impede breathing.

K-tape is actually the only way that I can bind safely because a regular binder would risk setting off my fibromyalgia, and it's also the only binding method I know of that can be safely used while exercising.

Thank you for the information! I don’t always have computer access so unfortunately I can get behind on keeping pages up to date, I’ll edit it in the upcoming days though!

[transenbyconfessions]

https://www.genderfreeworld.com/collections/all

This is a clothing website for trans people, I haven't looked too deep into the brand, but I want people to know there are places out there for us!! I love you all so much and you are all beautiful human beings!

Submitted June 21, 2023

Link

[transenbyconfessions]

Me: the idea of male and female in certain products is ridiculous. There should be no restrictions in such a way. Putting things like smells behind the idea of womanhood or manhood is not ok

Also me: hehe using boy deodorant

Submitted July 1, 2023

[systeme-neverland]

BAHAHAHAHA FR

[ratcrux]

i have somehow allowed myself to develop a hatred of ever being seen as masculine. and a fear and disgust of being seen as a man. almost all my life i identified as a trans guy. but now i find it incredibly difficult to allow myself to do so.

this is just a vent/ramble about gender stuff

i've repressed this shit without even realizing until way too recently. idk what's going on anymore with my gender - being intersex complicates things even more for me i think, tbh

this could be misplaced, but i just have such a strong fear of allowing myself to identify as a man. to use that kinda label. i worry people won't like me anymore and that I'll be seen as a traitor or something. might sound silly, but part of me is worried of how much more difficult it would make things for me.

identifying as nonbinary and leaning fem makes people more comfortable around me. people don't like men. if i am a man, people won't like me. they won't feel comfortable around me anymore. I really don't want that

also.. both irl and online i have almost no trans masc friends (nearly all my trans friends are transfem), and i would really like to be able to make more trans masc friends - i feel like this would be beneficial for me with transition

idk im rambling but i just feel so stuck at the thought of letting myself be more comfortable with the thought of maybe being a guy. if me being a guy makes other lgbt people hate me then it just feels like.. what's the point even of me saying im one. :(

i also don't wanna hate myself and my body. i wanna be positive about the effects T has had on me, even parts that i always hear people say are gross. i don't wanna think they are.. i wanna value myself more and love myself for whoever i am, and love the trans and intersex body i have. i just don't know how to get there

idk. these are all just thoughts I've had stuck in my head for a while now

[systeme-neverland]

I FEEL THE SAME SOMETIMES

[systeme-neverland]

Trans discussion

Idk if it's just me or something, but I feel like I WANT to pass as a boy, but I don't want to be perceive as a CIS MAN. Like, i want people to see me as a boy, but I don't want to look like a CIS one, because they can have problematic behaviours.

For exemple manspreading : I know I can have a better passing doing this, but I don't want to, because i can't with cis men doing it too much in public, and I don't want to look like them.

U see what I mean ? TwT

[usbotthrills]

I’ve been looking into safety for trans tape and I haven’t seen any posts on here with all the tips in one place and so I’ll write them here, for anyone else thinking of using it:

Before applying, make sure to wash skin to make sure there are no oils or moisturisers on your skin

Make nipple covers. This can be done with trans tape by folding a bit in half and sticking that on, so no adhesive side touches

Cut each strip with round corners, so that they are softer on the skin

For bigger chests, laying down whilst applying it can help

Don’t stretch it fully when you apply it, so that you don’t restrict your chest dangerously.

Remove slowly with the use of oil and or a hot shower, making sure to be gentle

While it seems as though there are a lot of things to do to be safe with trans tape, it is a safer alternative to binding and can be worn for far longer. I’ll put other resources I’ve found below:

Safety information for binding or taping chests

Application manual for trans tape

How to apply trans tape for large chests - video

Shop for a starter kit for trans tape

Or, kinesiology tape can be a cheaper alternative, which can be found on amazon just by searching ‘kinesiology tape’

If anyone else has any tips they’d be appreciated!!!