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Reminder:
Aplatonic-spec, afamilial-spec, aQueerplatonic-spec, aAesthetic-spec, and everyone else on the A-spectrum who isn't as talked about as asexual or aromantic Are completely valid, real, and deserve to be represented in pride month!
🖤🩶🤍🩷 Plain Ansthetic Banner & Dividers!
Heads up:
If you're looking through anaesthetic/ansthetic tags, be sure to have blocked edblr, 4n4blr, ana, and other eating disorder-related tags. Some use the 'anaesthetic' tag for their content or vents.
Alternative Anaesthetic and Anaesthetic Spectrum flags
Just because we prefer aspec flags that have dissimilar colours to the attraction flag, and the aesthetic attraction is pink, red, yellow, and orange. So we thought cool colours would work better for our preferences. Edit May 18th 2026: Wanted to give the stripes specific meanings, so on the anaesthetic flag blue is for those who experience complete lack of aesthetic attraction, purple is those experiences very minimal aesthetic attraction, white is for anaesthetics who are allo for other types of attraction, and black is anaesthetic who are aspec for other types of attraction. For the anaesthetic spectrum flag, dark blue is for those who experience complete lack of aesthetic attraction, blue is for darker grayaesthetics, lighter blue is for those who fluctuate on the spectrum and/or use multiple different labels an the spectrum. and purple is for lighter grayaesthetics
shout out to demiromantics
Shout out to demiromantics who are asexual!
Shout out to demiromantics who are allosexual!
Shout out to demiromantics who are aplatonic!
Shout out to demiromantics who are afamilial!
Shout out to demiromantics who are aaesthetic!
Shout out to demiromantics who are closeted!
Shout out to demiromantics who are out!
Shout out to demiromantics who are questioning!
Shout out to demiromantics who use the SAM!
Shout out to demiromantics who do not use the SAM!
Shout out to demiromantics who are romance adverse!
Shout out to demiromantics who are romance favorable!
Shoutout to demiromantics who are romance ambivalent!
Shout out to demiromantics who are something else!
My take on the aspec flag!
[PT: My take on the aspec flag! /End PT]
[ID: A flag with 6 horizontal stripes, divided in four sections by a white compass rose in the middle of the flag. Each section has 3 stripes that form a gradient that gets darker towards the middle of the flag. Clockwise, the sections are in red, green, blue, and purple hues. /End ID]
The 'main' aspec flag only includes the ace and aro spectrums, and I didn't find any inclusive flag I liked, so I made my own. This flag focuses on the diversity of the a-spectrum.
Symbolism:
None of the colors have meaning on their own. The dark purple and dark green are taken from the most used flag, just a little fun fact.
The colors are separated in different sections because the a-spectrum is vast and individuals within it can have wildly different experiences while still being under the same umbrella.
But they're also grouped in gradients, because multiple different 'colors', or individuals, can still belong in the same space and have similar experiences!
The white compass rose is a tribute to the most used flag; it still represents how different individuals feel or don't feel attraction.
However, I also kept it white because for some, white is the absence of hue or saturation, representing a lack of attraction, and for others, it's what you get when you combine every color, representing wholeness even without 'traditional' colors.
Can y'all help me find clear definitions for the different types of attraction, and all the aspec labels?
I'm planning on making a resources & definitions masterpost for this blog so I'd like some help hunting down as many labels and definitions as I can to compile into a through guide.
Lists of labels and corresponding flags would be helpfull aswell!
-dread