#abstinent

[itsfortheplants]

u/fuckmikenewton69

My (m 105) wife (f 18) wants to try things in bed I’m uncomfortable with (sexual intercourse).

I’ve tried threats, shoving her off me in disgust, breaking up with her, threatening suicide, offering to open the relationship to include her best friend (m 17). None of it works. What are some ways to avoid sleeping with her?

Any advice is appreciated, thanks!

[its-terf-or-nothin]

[pisceanpharies]

My List of Posts on Sexuality, Relationships vs. Celibacy, & Natalism vs. Anti-natalism

(Note: I wrote these posts. Posts and reposts of other peoples related content are in my tags - celibacy, anti natalism, and anti-sexualism. Off-Tumblr links are at the bottom of this post.)

Ask Answered: "Healthy Blackpilled Separatism"

I Comment on Christian Mythology Verses, post 1 and post 2

Can you make the sex math math? They can’t.

Ask Answered: Healing Sexuality into Anti-sexuality is a Process

Ask Answered: Different Connotations of & Miscommunications About Celibacy - "Boring", Alone vs. Lonely

Reasons For Why Romance Doesn’t Work

Long Term Relationships & if I Think Men are Evil

The Joys of Celibacy (poem)

Both Exoteric & Esoteric Truth of Collective Chaotic Reality Creation

Forms of materialistic self-obsession are destroying the world, and sex is the root cause.

Porn Dehumanizes People & Destroys The Spirit, Other Animals Deserve the Planet

If Lesbians & Febfems Procreated and My Related Response to an Anon

A Bit of Tumblr Celibacy "Community" Drama From 2025

Time, Self-Reflection, Women & Men, Freedom: Why Labels Don't Work For Me

Both Men and Women are "Subtly" Pedophilic Trash

A few memes.

Why I'm Against Intercourse

The Desperation of Natalists

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Off-Tumblr Recommended Resources

The Anti-Eroticist

The NEW Antisexual Stronghold

r/antisex

r/antinatalism2 (against arguments about veganism)

Trust Your Perceptions' essay, Semen: Men’s Chemical War Against Women

Stop Non-Consensual Intimate Image Abuse and Take it Down

Audio archives of removed content by separatist women Black Obsidian and Sekhmet She-Owl

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Books, non-fiction

Sex is not compulsory: Giving up Sex For Better Health and Greater Happiness, by Liz Hodgkinson, 1986

Women, Passion & Celibacy by Sally Cline, 1994

Adam's Curse: A Future Without Men, by Bryan Sykes

Mother Ann Lee: Morning Star of the Shakers, by Nardi Reeder (biography of Shaker founder Ann Lee)

Sexology of the Bible: The Fall and Redemption of Man; a Matter of Sex, by Sidney Calhoun Tapp, 1870

Books, fiction (women-centric, and each with little to no romance)

Mystery novels involving the celibate, historical God-is-both-male-and-female, religious group the Shakers - Sister Rose Callahan Series

Middle-grade / All-ages, surprisingly complex and well written fantasy series - Faerie Tales from the White Forest by Danika Dinsmore

When Women Were Dragons, by Kelly Barnhill and Women are a Dangerous Magic, by Elora Nicole Ramirez

The Longest Night, by Lauren Carter

The Palace of Illusions, by Rowenna Miller

Atlas of Unknowable Things, by McCormick Templeman

The Obsidian Sisterhood (a trilogy about a martial artist ex-nun fighting supernatural forces to save her mostly female friends)

[oasisr]

Men will be like: "Wow, you're beautiful. I will love and cherish you. I will commit to you and guard your heart. I'll never leave you. Oh, you don't want to have premarital with me? Sorry, I'm just so busy lately. Too busy to talk to you."

[svdaily]

[mothhauntedbyblame]

YOU TAKE THE GIRL OUT OF THE ADDICTION NOT THE ADDICTION OUT OF THE GIRL

[nonsensicalmaus]