Adventures as a Cripple™️, part 2948.
So, I once saw a post that discussed that yes, actually, if you are disabled, you are literally the reason that folks are told not to use the elevator in a fire (that, and in case the fire department needs it, or obviously in case there *is* structural damage).
I am an ambulatory wheelchair user, and i am currently in a hotel.
And amongst a *spontaneous* line of enquiry we just recieved (after having been here for several days, and having consistently used our wheelchair for the last two), including, but not limited to, "are you staying with someone?", complete with a concerned head tilt - we were informed than in a fire, the elevators will shut down, and I will have to walk down the five or so steps (luckily, we're on the ground floor, and there's just a couple to the front door).
Fortunately, I can do that. I have a cane, and if it's *really* that bad that I cannot stand at all in that moment, I could certainly butt-shuffle down a few steps in an emergency.
But also... What the fuck?
There is an evac chair, but she did not as much as glance at it, let alone mention it (let me guess - nobody would know what the hell they're supposed to do with it?). Nope, just "You'd have to walk. Can you walk? You're not booked into one of our accessible rooms." (Bearing in mind, we haven't actually seen this particular receptionist so far).
She was nice, certainly. She encouraged us to come to reception if we needed anything. And she didn't, I'm assuming, go out of her way to make me feel ick.
But the fact that a) the lifts *shut down* in a fire drill, and b) she was very focused on 'do you have someone with you', has left such a bad taste in my mouth. I struggle a lot with not feeling "disabled enough" to use my chair (I have a balance disorder, and one of the things that causes flare-ups in being unwell, which, you guessed it, decided to coincide with the beginning of our meet up with our partner, yaaaay). The fact that my limbs technically fully work means that yeah, on some days, I can even run! My legs work fine. But the way people look at me if I stand up from my chair low-key makes me hate using it. And the knowledge that in an emergency with doubtless countless people around I'd have to shuffle my cripple ass down some stairs with only my stick at best - and then stand outside for an indeterminate amount of time and just hope I don't end up on the ground! Yay! /sarc - has made me wildly uncomfortable.
Anyway. Don't shut off elevators in an emergency. Don't basically demand that disabled folks have a *minder*. Don't generally make folks uncomfortable.
Also, mobility issues =/= wheelchair user. Why isn't running through evac protocol for folks with mobility problems standard procedure? You don't know if someone is like me, or needs an aid for anything over the distance between the front door and reception, or maybe is fine on flat ground but can't do steps.
Tldr: I'm irked and sad and sick. And I'm tired. Sigh.