#asexualrepresentation

[kyri45]

Happy Pride to all the other Asexual people out there!

It's so nice to see so other many Ace people that pass by to say hello under my lgbtq posts!! 🤍💜🩶🖤These are all available on my RedBubble page!

[weakheronicki]

Hi, I would like to place a request pleasee. Something like:

How would the Weak Hero Class boys react to you being asexual. Like, the first time they want to s3x with you, you reject them and tell them that you don't feel/like those things. And you keep rejecting them every time they ask

I would love it if you could do it, either way its okay if you can't

I Need Nothing More

Summary: How the weak hero class boys (Sieun, Suho, Baku, Gotak, Juntae, Seongje, Baek Jin) would react to finding out you’re asexual — the first time they try to initiate something sexual and you reject them, and how they handle repeated rejections. Contains: Character reactions, emotional exploration, mentions of rejection, frustration (especially Seongje), comfort, supportive dynamics. Relationship: Reader × Weak Hero boys (platonic/romantic depending on interpretation). Word count (approx.):4k (long reactions, semi-narrative style). TW: Discussions of sexual rejection, mentions of frustration/anger (Seongje), light emotional conflict.

Sieun

When you tell him you’re asexual and reject his advance, he falls silent for a moment. He’s not the type to make a fuss; instead, he studies you, as if trying to read your feelings. — “I see…” he murmurs, processing. He doesn’t push or pry, letting you share only what you want. Then, in his calm voice, he adds: — “Don’t worry. I don’t need that to stay by your side. What matters to me is how I feel when I’m with you.” And he proves it with actions: no pressure, no insistence, just quiet loyalty that shows nothing has changed for him.

Suho

Suho’s reaction is much more intense. When you reject him, his brows knit and he asks directly: — “So… is it that you don’t want to, or that you don’t want me?” It stings because he takes it personally at first. He needs an explanation, and even then, he doesn’t fully understand right away. Still, he’s not someone who’d force you. After a pause, he mutters: — “Alright… I don’t really get it, but if that’s who you are, then I’ll learn to live with it.” Over time, he realizes what he values most isn’t the physical side, but how important you make him feel. But in the beginning, there’s definitely a clash with his pride.

Baku

The first time you reject him, he laughs nervously and blurts: — “Wait, seriously? I thought you were just in a bad mood.” When you explain you simply don’t feel sexual attraction, he goes quiet for a beat, then covers it with a joke: — “Well, guess that means more time for games and stupid adventures, huh?” Behind the humor, there’s real respect. He doesn’t push, doesn’t sulk. Instead, he shifts naturally, finding other ways to bond. Baku shows affection sideways, but you can feel it.

Gotak

He reacts with immediate understanding. The moment you finish explaining, he either takes your hand or looks you dead in the eye and says: — “You don’t owe me an explanation. I just don’t want you to feel pressured around me.” For Gotak, loyalty and emotional closeness are far more important than anything physical. He never brings it up again unless you want to. His quiet patience and steady presence remind you he’s here because he chooses you, not because of what you can give him.

Juntae

With Juntae, things are awkward. He just stares, blinking in confusion. — “Huh? What do you mean you don’t like it? Doesn’t… doesn’t everyone like it?” It’s not malice, it’s just his inability to process new ideas. At first, he might even bring it up again later, thinking maybe you’ll change your mind. But he’s not trying to push; he genuinely doesn’t get it. Eventually, when he sees your resolve, he accepts it. He might never fully understand, but he adapts in his clumsy, roundabout way because being with you matters more.

Seongje

He’s the one who struggles the most. The rejection hits his pride and temper all at once. He may lash out immediately: — “Then what’s the point of this? Why are we even together?” It’s not that he wants to hurt you—it’s his frustration boiling over. For Seongje, passion and intensity are part of love, so he can’t wrap his head around letting that go. If he truly cares, though, his anger will eventually soften into a rough attempt at compromise. He’ll still be frustrated, still grumble, but he stays because his feelings are real, even if they’re messy.

Baek Jin

Baek Jin listens quietly, never interrupting, just letting you finish. Then he nods once. — “I understand. You don’t need to worry—I’m not here for that.” He doesn’t make you feel odd or broken. Instead, he searches for other ways to show intimacy: deep conversations, trust, small acts of care. Maybe he has questions deep down, but he’ll never burden you with them. His calm maturity makes it clear that, for him, your bond is enough.

Author’s Note: Waa, I love trying out new things and playing with different ideas ✨💭 I hope you enjoy this as much as I loved writing it <3 thank you for reading, it honestly means so much 🫶

[rubinrotegwenny]

Yayy, finally there is an asexual character in a BL! 🖤🤍💜 Let's hope we'll get some good representation!

Also: Plakhao is such a cutie! 🥰

[asa-the-ace]

ASEXUAL REPRESENTATION

It’s in like the BEST WAY but also the worst way, I’ll explain.

So I’m watching Slasher (S3) on Netflix, I’m about five episodes in when Kit (bisexual sex addict) is flirting with Amy. He’s flirting and giving as many signs as possible and she seems to either be ignoring it or not at all aware and THEN:

Kit: “Okay, I’ve flirted with you and you give me nothing. I’ve made my moves. You have zero reaction.”

Amy: “You were making moves?” (We learn she’s super dense but dARE I SAY MOOD???)

Kit: “Yes. And you barely even look at me. Like I understand if you were gay, but fuck me- but you probably won’t because I bet you’re asexual.”

At this point I’m throwing my phone and screaming internally as I dance around my grinning. Because is this representation I smell??????

Then a later scene depicts Amy and Xander (they’re partners (kinda-sort platonic??)) and Xander is trying to arouse Amy. It swaps to a shot of Amy’s phone aND SHE’S RESEARCHING ASEXUALITY. Like this man’s (Xander) is literally downtown trying to get some action and she’s just surfing the web and I CANT.

But then she’s all chill with having sex with him and I melted,,, This representation has me SHOOK.

Also, warning about the show, it’s EXTREMELY gorey and gives me major snuff film vibes but I’m finishing it solely because of Amy.

[yoonminhope13]

Happy book birthday to @themackenzilee! I read this back in July and I’m so happy it’s out in the world so i can scream about it with everyone! Felicity is my patronus and i can’t recommend this book highly enough. Also, pro tip, the audiobook is on Hoopla so I’m going to be rereading it soon! 🌈🌈🌈 Also I’m really excited to untie the Montague siblings on my shelf and that the colors fit together on my rainbow shelf. Bless. 🌈🌈🌈 #asexualrepresentation #queerlit #theladysguidetopetticoatsandpiracy #bookstagram #books #bookworm #booknerd #bookphotography #read #yalit #bookgeek #igreads #instabooks #instabook #book #bibliophile #booklove #booklion #bookaholic #bookaddiction #bookaddict #bookhoarder #goodreads #bookstagrammer #bookgram #bookworm_insta https://www.instagram.com/p/BodACZmFrB3/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1in234ks8kbi1

[believe-you-cam-fly]

Why do people think that because I’m asexual my perception on dating is different? It’s something I think about at night sometimes, but it’s just I’m asexual not aromantic. Just because your version of romance involves sex doesn’t make my version any less romantic. I still want to sweep a girl off her feet, to be late because I was caught in the moment. To spend hours with a person, and still miss them when they leave. I want to be with someone who wouldn’t say ‘you don’t know what your missing’. I want a great love. I think that the main reason I need asexual and aromantic representation is because people can’t understand a lack of love or sex.

Sorry for the rant.

[theysheshe]

I read #LetsTalkAboutLove last weekend and it was amazing. I highly recommend it. I love the relationships and how Alice thinks and processed things. Also the cover is beautiful, just look at it. 💜🖤 #ClaireKann #asexual #acerep #asexualrepresentation #qwoc #interracialcouple #queerwomanofcolor #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queerbooks #queerreads

[polychromatic-catastrophe]

OH. MY FUCKING GOD. GUYS. ASEXUAL REPRESENTATION IN A TV SHOW. It's called 'Sirens' and it's a pretty good show on Netflix! The episode 'The Finger' the Asexual EMT 'Voodoo' is openly asexual in the station and she has to tell the new guy exactly what that means and it's wonderful.