i think it’s ok to be frustrated initially that james spends chot unable to tell anyone about the gracelet so long as the connection is later made that he’s an SA survivor and the gracelet is a physical manifestation of that grooming, and that you really wouldn’t expect a survivor to be able to divulge what happened to everyone immediately
i thought the deep-seated shame and fear he felt, and the self-blame for not being able to stop it or recognise it sooner, and not wanting daisy to stay with him out of pity for him were all indicative of the SA metaphor but i see lots of takes where people talk about how annoying james is being for not just telling cordelia












