[nsfw, all mention of "you" is hypothetical person doing infantilising, not blog owner or readers]
everyone seem to assume that because am middle support need autistic, have cognitive disability, use AAC, and not always able talk "good", that am inherently not able understand sex or consent. does not matter that am adult, that can demonstrate understanding, that like it. people see disabilities, make assumptions without asking--or assume am wrong about own understanding, because poor autistic cognitive disabled girl could NEVER understand sex EVER.
i not want have it in real life, but not all is because of above. very very like writing about, reading about, talking about nsfw stuff. have whole blog for it! have fun talk to mutuals and make posts. (have big 1k+ note post circulating right now even though blog is very very small, even!)
BUT. there are people. see all of mental problems. see that take longer to understand things, see that us would not able to withdraw consent if were to do it in real life because of cognitive disability + autism, and think "oh, M should not engage AT ALL EVER. M is being GROOMED. M is being ABUSED. M not actually able to understand sex. M wrong about able to be understand. M not know what best for her."
am adult! want to enjoy adult things! let me enjoy adult things!! is not like YOU PERSONALLY have to have sex with me if not want to! you are not "savior" that think you are!!! you just involve yourself in stranger's sex life because YOU assume that STRANGER not able to understand because YOU refuse to listen! [muffled frustration screaming]
This is infantilization of MSN autistic people, people who have cognitive disabilities, and AAC users.
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