I can feel the romantic attraction fading and honestly? I prefer not having them, crushes kinda suck especially when the person is drifting apart and likely doesn't wanna see you anymore, i think if my attraction starts to fade it'll be for the better so i can move on (also ngl its just. Better. Like not experiencing romantic attraction i mean)
Yess oh my god!! This is what I'm sayinnn. I love being aro so fucking much and you know what?
You're right on time cuz I literally just now woke up from a nightmare where a friend asked me out on a date and kept making moves on me and I had to explain that I'm aro. It was so gross wtf. It was so fucking horrible, I'm so glad it was just a dream ugghh. This was fucking disgusting and I hated all of it.
I hate romance what the fuck. Goodbye, I'm so fucking glad I don't experience it anymore. I experienced it twice in my life and it was horrible I'll never do it again. Presential, aesthetic, platonic etc attractions are so much better, they feel so much more freeing.
Getting a bit off topic here but I'd rlly love for anyone to interpret these dreams abt my friend. This isn't the only dream I've had where the 2 of us get close, but this was the 1st one where she made romantic moves out loud and the 1st where I actually didn't like it. In others we kinda just hugged while I felt good abt it but also kinda conflicted like I'm not sure.
In the dream itself we were at a cabin kinda resort in a foresty place and she kept making moves while I kept subtly dismissing them. She was also acting kinda weird and awkward, more than her usual amount. Later on, she got sorta mad at me for rejecting her like that and leading her on and when I told her that I was aro she understood instantly and took it quite well tbh. I didn't even feel super gross abt it throughout the dream and rlly didn't mind since I was glad I was at least having fun with a friend, but I only felt properly disgusted by it all when I actually woke up. I was still a bit annoyed in the dream tho that she was making my sexuality her problem.
In real life, she's a person who I used to be presentially attracted to but it's faded now and I'm just chill friends w her. She's the person I made a post abt where I didn't know why I didn't like being presentially attracted to her and I didn't like the possibility of her being romantically attracted to me too (this is incredibly confusing to me because usually I'd just see attraction to/from me was cute and not think abt it much). That weird fear of attraction surrounding this person I think faded along w my attraction to her but I think I still do feel weird abt her being attracted to me. Idk how I feel tbh..
Sorry I derailed your post, idk what else to add but I'd rlly love this dream to be interpreted cuz it's fucking me up 😅 I rlly do not like romance. And honestly friend I am glad that you're glad it's fading for you cuz that makes me feel less alone in this. I see a lot of arospecs wishing they were allo or feeling broken but I honestly feel more 'fixed' and 'whole' than any allo. This is the best. I am literally living the life of a god here guys wanna try? Loving it
