#effrille

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effreu, effluide, effrille, and effron !

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Blackberry Cookie from Cookie Run is a biromantic asexual gothcoric enbyfluid demigenderfae effrille voidcoric fuzzygender aesthetigender autigender alterian catgender xirl who uses she/her, goth/goths, it/its, sce/scene, ne/nem, lolita/lolitas, dress/dresses, formal/formals, maid/maids, clean/cleans, cloth/cloths, star/stars, gala/galaxy, sun/suns, and moon/moons pronouns, and her son Onion Cookie is an autistic bisexual transmasculine faesari deligender nonbinary boy with anxiety who uses they/them and he/him pronouns!

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I've been questioning my gender identity and am leaning towards non-binary girl, anywho, I was wondering if you know of any non-binary yet feminine / inclusive of being female genders? (Other than DemiGirl, as I am already aware of that one). :)

This answer has some!

I’m not sure of what you mean by “inclusive of being female”, though; do you mean genders that blur the line between female and feminine, or genders that you can use alongside female? Because most identities can be used alongside others; you can be bigender fingender/female, for instance.

Some genders that are related to femaleness or femininity, without explicitly rejecting femininity or femaleness, are:

Juxera: “A gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. It is not outside the gender spectrum.“

Sapphiregender: “A gender that is aesthetically related to sapphires, a gender that is feminine, nonbinary, and vaguely fluid.”

Xirl: “Someone who identifies in some way as a nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of woman/girlhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely girls or don't want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word “girl.””

Femfluidflux: “Being fluid between feminine and nonbinary genders and having the intensity of those genders fluctuate.“

Doegender: “A gender encompassing feminine animal energy. Can be used by kin and non-kin.”

Dulcigender: “An aesthetically-centered gender that is associated largely with stereotypically feminine things (such as pinks, frills, buns, and general cute things)."

Princessgender: “A soft but grandiose gender; The individual with this gender feels that their identity feels majestic, imposing and grand, but also prim, cute and ethereal. Often involves a gender expression that is soft and feminine, but commanding and confident. May openly pursue reverence of their identity from others and/or be very vocal about their identity to others, with pride. Softer, cuter and less acute than Regisgender.” Princessgender is the female-aligned version.

Queengender: “A lofty, grandiose gender; The individual with this gender feels that their identity feels majestic, imposing and grand. Often involves a gender expression that is bold, commanding and confident. May openly pursue reverence of their identity from others and/or be very vocal about their identity to others, with pride. Feels more intense and bold than Pringender.” Queengender is the female-aligned version.

Effrille: From the french word scary (effrayant) and girl (fille), the meaning being scary girl. It is a nb girl gender, may be paired with agender and other genders.

And then, we have the many, many genders that can be used along with -girl, -woman or -feminine instead of -gender to specify how those genders are experienced. Here are a few examples:

Altegender: "Derived from shortening the phrase “alternate existence.” It is a xenogender that feels as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence.”

Dubgender: “Means that you cannot trust that an existing gender identity label will fit you perfectly well, which means that, despite being a good label, a dubboy doesn’t really trust that the label of “boy” will be entirely accurate, and a dubgirl is a little iffy about the label of “girl” as well.”

Offgender: “A gender that closely represents/is most closely represented by another gender, but is not that gender. Can be likened to what the color off-white is to white for descriptive purposes. Similar in definition to paragender and perigender.”

Ptilogender:“A collection/group of genders with all genders having a common theme, making them hard to describe individually and easier to describe as the whole group. Named after the genera Ptilonorhynchidae, or bowerbirds, specifically the satin bowerbird, which collects blue objects to display as a part of its courtship ritual.”

Ekragender: “A gender you have blown up into a million pieces or destroyed by detonating, or one that wish you could destroy in that way. Prefix from the Greek word εκραγεί meaning “explode.””

Foggender: “A gender which is close to a certain gender, but cannot be directly pinpointed due to brainfog (a lack of concentration or wakefulness associated with ADHD, fibromyalgia, depression, etc.)Can be combined with relevant genders.“

Subgender/minumegender:“Mostly agender (¾) with a bit of another gender, ex. subboy, subgirl, etc.”

Hope that helps! Feel free to ask for more, especially if you think you can now narrow your experiences a little.

~ Tath

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Scary Genders

Scary Genders: The coiner didn't give much description for these other than them being "scary" genders. I'm going to assume the gender has something to do with fear; possibly when one feels a certain gender, it also comes with a feeling of fear. It could also be open to interpretation for whoever has a gender(s) that has something to do with fear.

Term coined by: Unknown

Effreu (From the french word scary (effrayant) and neutral (neutre)):

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Effluide: (From the french word scary (effrayant) and fluid (fluide)):

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Effrille (From the french word scary (effrayant) and girl (fille)):

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Effron (From the french word scary (effrayant) and boy (garçon)):

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Color meanings: Dark purple stripes and the skull to represent fear. The center stripe to represent the specific gender that is scary.

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Effrille - From French effrayant "scary" + fille "girl," i.e. "Scary girl". It is a [non-binary] girl gender, may be paired with agender and other genders. Counterparts: effron, effreu.

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[betterbemeta]

effrille reblogged your post:why would you call people “stupid” or an “idiot”...

#i feel like fool has ableist connotations also tho im not sure

Not that I know of! I know it comes from latin and old french, deriving from being "like a bellows-bag" or "empty-headed"-- which is more "thoughtless" than it is "inherently an inferior being that we can classify as immutably doomed to be less intelligent." The only thing I can think of is that at the time the word was coined, being thoughtless could be described with the same words as being "crazy;" the french "fol" (from which "fool" is derived) is basically "insane, jester"-- but these two things also aren't the same; being zany and parodic/absurd is not the same as having a mental illness as we know them today. Even today, we can use the word "fool" to mean a clown, rather than a person who doesn't think before they act.

Basically, it's an older word and has migrated in meaning a lot farther than  "dunce," "imbecile," "stupid," "idiot," "moron," or any number of just not-okay eugenics-linked terms.

Basically, with all language, if somebody asks you to stop, do it immediately. But most words that aren't directly linked to like, racial supremacy or contemporary ableism, tend to be farther away from being oppressive than words that still bear that weight.