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Hair Tip to look more masculine
The right pair of bangs (like the curtain bangs in photo) can drastically improve your passing. Having bangs can hide your forehead shape and looks good if you fill in your eyebrows a bit. The right hair can shape your face.
Im gay and ftm (stealth). When my classmates told me they already had a feeling that im gay it made me feel so insecure. Im afraid of being seen as a stereotypical feminine gay guy. I see myself as someone neutral more towards the manly side and so do my friends. Theres nothing wrong with being a feminine guy, but thats just not me. I really cant tell what makes me so feminine... I just want to be seen as how i am
To stealth or not to stealth, that is the question. Hello everyone! Today's video is a very honest chat about something that I am currently struggling with. I think it's one of those things that now I've spoken about it, it'll be easier, or I at least hope that'll be the case.
Does anyone else ever get in this headspace where you get almost obsessive about trans stuff? Like I’m awake four hours later than usual, just staring at my computer. Surgeons, forums, blogs, hate blogs, youtube videos, random episodes of tv shows that happened to have a brief trans character, researching colleges with safe policies, thinking through every fucking aspect of my future and trying to figure out how to remain stealth in all of them...fuck me.
My Decision to No Longer Be Stealth
Well, I guess I am officially no longer stealth. On the Trans Day of Visibility I chose to disclose to those who are in my life and I don’t know via social media that I am a transsexual man. This was not an easy decision but I’m glad that I did it.
I first started to live stealth in most aspects of my life when I graduated high school. After transitioning in high school and having to endure a lot of bullying, harassment, invasive questions, and being seen as the token trans guy I was done. I wanted to see how it felt to live as just me without all the assumptions and pre-conceived notions of who I was based on this one aspect. I was tired of feeling as though I had to justify or defend my gender identity. There was also, at times, a safety aspect.
Since then I lived most of my life stealth and for most of this time that was what I preferred. However, over time things started to change. I started to no longer want to be stealth. I found myself wanting to tell people and in some situations I did. I tested the waters by telling people here and there. It felt good. In the past six or so months, during this program, I told some of my classmates and eventually I realized that I just wanted to disclose.
The decision to disclose was the result of several factors including, but not limited to, my future career plans. It felt right to do it and it felt right to do it now.
Trans people are under no obligation to disclose their trans status. Living stealth was not any more or less genuine or valid. Not everyone gets to choose to be stealth or not and I recognize I was lucky that I had the option and also the option to disclose.
I was nervous to disclose and in such a public way however I was met with a lot of support and kind words. I was unsure how some of the friends I had made over the past few years would take it but there was nobody said anything negative and many “liked” it, commented and a few even took the time to send me a private message. When I first started to transition my experience was a lot different and I was nervous that I would experience similar reactions or problems but that has not been the case.
I’m open to talking more about this if anyone has any questions or is wanting to just chat about no longer being stealth. It isn’t something that I could really find any information on or experiences.
I started T 5 years ago. No one knows not my past as I've move away from where I grew up. I don't know now if I want to be open about it it stay stealth.. Cause staying stealth sometimes feels like carrying a burden on my shoulder all the time. I know I don't need to explain/report to anyone. But it's just the fact that I need to lie from time to time and I'm sick of that.
I"m a stealth binary transsexual man who has a lot of values and opinions, both positive and negative around the transgender / transsexual community. However, being stealth, I have no platform to say these opinions and I also have a substantial lack of trans* friends who would be on the same page as me.
I've been mulling it over for a while and though it kills me I think I'm going to have to go stealth again. I just don't feel safe anymore with current events going on to be openly trans. I'm mad because I just got to reschedule for my hormones after fighting the pharmacy for months for them but with the way things are I'd rather go off t again and be unhappy than possibly dead
