#isfj problems

[robcognitivepersonality]

Fe equating with empathy and absorbing emotions is not correct, particularly for IFJs / ITPs. Fe- is the "emotional feng shui" set by others.

Bad feng shui messes up their inner peace. It triggers them to do something about it. They can choose to care, blame, or ignore.

These types are not naturally good with emotions. They use logic and reason to better understand and gain a sense of control, in order to avoid these bad feng shui vibes from happening.

Most of them actually hold very strong values and opinions about how the world should behave, therefore need to devise solutions so that everyone, with them included, can get along.

[atomicfilm]

ISFJ vs. ENTP: Extroversion

ISFJ: can only handle social interaction once a week but somehow manages to be friends with everyone at school (so they may appear to be an extrovert)

ENTP: can handle social interaction daily with the people they like but can’t spend a second around the general population (so they may appear to be an introvert), very well known yet not necessarily popular, probably popular within a certain group like theatre/film/debate

[imnottotallyaparadox]

ISFJ, Dissected

dom Si: I Know My Family Tree Backwards

aux Fe: Cannot Roast a Type to Save My Life

tert Ti: I’m Secretly Analyzing Your Soul

inf Ne: The Big Picture? Do I Know Her?

[thepotcallingthekettleblackk]

isfj~leo~hufflepuff~request* for anon

hope you enjoy mysterious friend :)

[introvertdear]

5 Struggles of the ISFJ Child and How You Can Help

Although reserved and no-nonsense on the surface, ISFJs are incredibly empathetic, emotional individuals with great compassion for their fellow humans.

"Parents who are advocates of tough love might inadvertently damage the self-esteem of their ISFJ child. Often perfectionistic, and with a strong people-pleasing streak, ISFJs will take harsh criticism personally and may beat themselves up so they can live up to others’ expectations."

[just-mbti-things]

ISFJ’s Dilemma

ISFJ: *bumps into ENTJ, apologizes three times* ESFJ: Good job ISFJ you only apologized three times! ENTJ: That’s your new record for the least amount of apologies in an hour I bet. ISFJ: I’m so annoying, sorry. ENTJ: Yeah you are like 10% annoying just because of how much you apologize. ISFJ: *contemplates apologizing for apologizing too much but ends up overanalyzing the situation for a week*

[entpstruggles]

“I live in the past, you live in alternative worlds”

My ISFJ friend about me (ENTP)

[quiet-heart-murmurs]

ISFJ realization

I literally realized yesterday that not everyone tries to just make other people happy for no reason, whereas that is how you can sum up my entire life.