do you ever think about how dabi and izuku are opposites in how they react to their abuse/neglect?
how izuku doesn't acknowledge anything was wrong, how his abuser isn't an abuser actually. he doesn't need an apology because he'd already forgiven bk. he's kind to the point of self-destruction because if he doesn't forgive bk and ignore his past, he's a bad person. he can't be anything other than kind. anger, resentment, those are bad emotions. it even shows with other people, like endeavor. he has to see enji as a good person, encourages shouto to forgive because shouto is kind and kind people don't hold grudges.
but dabi? he hates everyone involved in his abuse. he puts blame on people who didn't contribute at all. he lashes out at his siblings, wants them all dead. he's loud and violent and destructive. he became the villain
in the end, both of them are ignored in favour of their abusers.
