#npd problems

[yourfavoritenarcissist]

>problem i have because of npd

>look up how to cope with npd/that problem

> "how to break a narcissist" "how to manipulate a narcissist" "how to abuse a narcissist" "how to cope with narcissists" "how to get rid of a narcissist"

[npdculture]

npd culture is

no i dont want to hang out with you

I want you to want to hang out with me

💜

[kamisamabest]

no wonder you're a narcissist,fucking asshole. narcissistic abuse is real.

it's not real womp fucking womp

[secretsideblogshhhh]

Something ppl won't talk about with npd is I want attention, I want it so badly, but the second I get it I feel nothing but guilt because I genuinely cannot tell when I've been "stealing" attention away from others or when it's an even amount of attention

So the second the focus is on me it's "oh great now everyone hates me because I'm being a narcissistic asshole and I have to shut up"

And it drives me insane because I want that attention I want the focus to be on me, but fuck the guilt. And also the "oh god I can't mess up one word or phrase or everyone's going to judge me and hate me"

[the-narcissist-by-blur]

having npd traits and not even being hot or talented or charming has truly got to be the worst combo

[angel-pd]

I hate being selfish.

[xxbl00dsh3dbunnyxx]

Anyone else with NPD feel the need to "approve" of other people?

Like if I make a post and someone adds onto it, I feel the need to like or reblog it so "they know I approve of it and it's worthy of being read"

And it stresses me out if I don't like or reblog it because then "they won't know they're right and that I agree" as if my approval is the end all be all

[se4liestm3rman]

I'm shitting, one of my mutuals reposted such blatant ableism 😭 does no one read my bio on Tiktok? It clearly says "suspected npd." Why do people become mutuals with me but then post ableism towards narcissists ..like girl, the enemy is closer than you think.

Edit: (not saying I support abuse. I'm just so upset that people LOVE to armchair diagnose abusers due to the simple fact they're abusers. I think it's ableist that you're calling a abuser a narcissist, and further stigmatizing NPD through stereotypes. People NEED to STOP contributing abusive acts and calling it narcissistic or attributing it to NPD. We are NOT the monsters people think we are. We are indivuals who have friends, families and lives and deserve respect. )