#pan nblnb

[jackdawmlm]

Oh to have a punk push me up against the wall and call me a pretty boy before kissing me

[red-honeysuckle]

I was just going through the "anti-pan" tag to see what was going on there.

And, I saw some pretty nasty shit for pan people such as me.

So, I repeat:

PAN PEOPLE ARE VALID.

PAN PEOPLE EXIST.

PAN PEOPLE ARE NOT BIPHOBIC.

PAN PEOPLE ARE NOT TRANSPHOBIC.

PAN PEOPLE ARE NOT 'JUST BI'.

PAN PEOPLE ARE REAL AND DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED.

I LOVE YOU, PANSEXUALS.

[enbypanposi]

Pan wlw in relationships with men are no less wlw!! Pan wlw in ‘straight’ relationships are no less LGBT!

Pan mlm in relationships with women are no less mlm!! Pan mlm in ‘straight’ relationships are no less mlm!

Pan nblnb in relationships with binary people are no less nblnb!! Pan nblnb in ‘straight’ relationships are no less nblnb!

Pan people not in relationships, pan people who have never been in relationships, pan people who don’t want to be in relationships for any reason—none of that makes them any less pan!!

No matter what gender you are and what gender you are with, your panness and your LGBTness are not in question. No matter how straight your relationship looks, you are not straight, you are pan. Especially for nonbinary pan folks, your nonbinaryness does not erase your panness or make you automatically straight by default. Pan relationships are beautiful and valid. They are never lesser because of who it is with, and who it is with will never have the power to change who you are or redact your true sexuality. Pan folks are valid and pan in any relationship or in no relationship.

[hedge-witch-des]

Oh to be a witch, living in a cottage in the woods, surrounded by plants, animals, books, and your lover. Sitting on your porch as the fall breeze sways the trees, making your chimes jingle and jangle ever so gently. Spirits and Fae Folk visit every so often, careful to leave behind trinkets as a thanks for allowing them in. In return you leave out a plate of homemade cookies, honey, and milk. Your garden’s last harvest is ripe and ready, admiring it’s gentle beauty as you tend to your chickens. Dinner is being cooked over a wood stove, which also heats your home in the gentle fall evening. You all curl up on the couch, surrounded by woven blankets and soft pillows, as the sun sets in the horizon. All is warm, all is good. You are home

[my-name-is-quin]

Question for Enbies

Is anyone else repulsed by planning weddings so young? How its glorified and made to be an ultimate goal in life?

Like, I dunno if I wanna get married. I haven't gone steady with anybody yet. I'm not against it but I'm not gonna rush into it and plan something I'm not even sure will happen.

Plus, marriage shouldn't be an ultimate goal in life?? There's so much more to life...

I just end up repulsed when I see people making marriage this big grand thing and the be all end all in life.

Plus, being a closeted nonbinary person complicates it. I don't wanna dress as my agab is expected to. So all the planning of outfits and hair is just unappealing to me. It'll be a struggle to present how I want or a day where I hide true self so I don't have to deal with the pressure and snide comments.

[follow-me-through-purgatory]

Me: understands that my partner is asleep and that they said goodnight to me nearly 3 hours ago

Also me: checks my phone every minute to see if I have a text from them

[tired-and-mental]

I wanna makeout with @probablydepressedbutidk while listening to 'Wait a minute!' by Willow smith

[xavierunderthestars]

What's it like to have a boyfriend as amazing as mine? Ha. You'll never know.