#parasian

[pride-stars]

Parasian : medians who are closer to the singlet side of the singlet-multiple spectrum.

[aspenand]

various plural terms stamps

dualitien coined by The Nathyl Diviplex hybrid system flags by @extranth

burger plural coined by me B:3 diversian chimera/mixed system flag by @plural-the-way-you-dont-like

mode coined by @extranth mesosian chimera/mixed system flag by @plural-the-way-you-dont-like

BIPOC plural & parasian chimera/mixed system flags by @plural-the-way-you-dont-like

broken singlet coined by @theshattereddgirl (deactivated) varian chimera/mixed system flag by @plural-the-way-you-dont-like

radendo reclaimed by @xenomayhem mustērian/enigmatic system coined by @archangel-level-coining

xenoplural coined by @anyolovez (deactivated) dog alter flag by @vocaidol extranthrope coined by @extranth

ageless alter flag by @mad-pride cerberusconscious coined by @solar93 parspolymonoconscious coined by @plural-void-coining

[hawkeyeflags]

paragenic , parasian , and monoconscious for anon!

[unique-plural]

(multiple experiences here, we just have no one to talk to about this)

We experience our headmates in a weird way. It's like they disappear once they have been identified, we can't access our headmates and when we hear someone they never know who they are, or if they should tell us. It's like we notice their existence to just be removed later. We have a collective sense of self, but we are also separate in our own ways. We have no clue how to identify each other anymore, we like different things, but we all say we like all of the things combined, just a little bit less or more whenever the front changes. We feel like a collective single identity, but multiple at the same time. We can't just express ourselves with "I'm a singlet" or "we are plural" for some reason It goes beyond that. We are both in our own unique way, and seeing others having identified headmates with different names and likes all figured out makes us... Desire the same. We have no clue of who we are talking with, but they exist here. We are a mix of a singlet and plural, both at the same time somehow, still have no clue what to call us. We have no headspace, it changes every time we try to create one, guess we have too many different ideas. We can't agree on any major life decisions, we want too many different things, and even when we try to mix them, there's someone that doesn't like it. We call ourselves plural, since it's a broad term, and we feel closer to being plural than a singlet, but it would be nice to know if there's some other plural that experiences the same!

Don't worry about putting more than one experience. It may be harder for me to read, but if it all comes together then it's no big deal :D

It's okay to not be very distinct!!! We ourselves sort of have the first bit depending on what flux of our plurality we're on!

I'll go ahead and mention that for a while my headmates were fine taking my name and going around with my pronouns, but now they really dislike it if I'm not out-- and whether or not that happens for you doesn't really change much about whether this is "actually plural". Fragments, facets, and even what could be considered a fully formed headmate can all just decide to not have separate identities or even just not share who or what they are.

Maybe read about median, plurallet, parasian, varion, plural-adjacent, singlet-adjacent, and mixed? Not all of them fit what was described, but they all have some amount of indistinct headmates on different levels. Some headmate-specific terms are facet, segment, and fragment. We recommend combing through posts on the median tag because a lot of median systems aren't far from your description :)

[bugpalace]

I hate so much being in that awkward place between singlet and plural. And I don't even mean median systems where there's still a good sense of being multiple people, for me it's just... whatever. I swear I'm like... √2 people. More than one, but not enough to be 'multiple people'. I've had moments where I feel like it's more obvious, but it's hard to tell...

Maybe I should just make art about it. It's hard to explain this in words.

[felix-01000101]

Should I make a separate sideblog for my system?

It would probably help with a lot of things, but also I'm lazy.

I also don't know what to name my collective. Does anyone have any ideas?

Edit: Okay, if this post gets 50 notes, I'll make the side blog (no more than 4 notes per user). Feel free to use some of those notes for name suggestions. I kind of need new names for my facets and headmates anyway.

My Simply Plural is that_ryebread in case you wanna check it out I guess.

Edit 2: We have a collective name! The Mechanical Void :)

Edit 3: Reduced note count

[je-doute-donc-je-suis]

Please, I've scourged through all the official medical articles, median tag, parasian tag, osdd 1a tag, reddit and more

There's nothing, barely any help, and even less that actually fits

How the hell do you people see distinction between facets/alters. How the hell do you communicate. Figure out who's who

I saw that facets mostly all think that we're the same person, just slightly to the left. That there's no full switches, just personality influence. So how can you separate them and have different names and know who you are and who's there

I don't know...feels extra blurry while writing this, really hard to put into words, like someone is putting in a mental block to stop me from talking about this

Idk who i or anyone is. Idk how to communicate. There's no answers in the post it notes or simply plural or our private discord, because "i" never black out with someone else taking over. I don't hear voices. I feel stuff or see images, and have no idea how to tell if that's "someone" else

I tried acting close and really friendly and supportive and like we're a team. But saw posts that says that some alters aren't friendly in a way that implies that it's like physical people with having to slowly build a relationship. Idk what to do, they may have reacted badly at me acting like we're buddies? It's not like i can tell anything that's going on in there or how many there are...

So fucking blurry

Feels like someone was deeply anchored in the body from December to july or august, slowly building an identity and feeling really connected to how the body looks. Which has never happened before, always wanted something else for the body. Then suddenly in august/September, it's like someone or something blew at us, and sent us all twirling like dandelions bits away from the controls, and now we're still twirling above the controls in a blurry cloud

There's no one we can talk to, or help available in this country

So lost on what to do...have no idea what I'm doing. Or when "i" will finally stop being just a grammar thing, and finally get a real connection to a real identity, because "i" am just a static cloud

Don't even know if we're really median or osdd, i could straight up just be a front stuck host with the role of never learning about us being plural to keep us safe, while everyone else has already been aware of each other for ages, and are actively interacting in an inner world i can't access...

Or i could be wrong about all of this and making up all the signs and possible switches and the bad reaction I've got from insinuating no one else is real and it's all just cptsd and audhd

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

[ID: Nine small pixel hearts of various system flags in order being Endogenic, DID, Median, Parasian, Mesoian, Diversian, USDD, Aplural and OSDD. End ID]

@m-grouped Aplural