Welcome to our little haven.
This is a cozy blog for some potentially not-so-cozy people.
This blog is run by the fictives of The Haven Keepers. Funny, it was originally a name for anonymity, and then it just stuck. Whoops? This is a blog focused around being a safe space for problematic fictives or factives, fictionkin, fictherians, hearthome havers, and any other fictionfolk. All are welcome here, regardless of their source actions, level of separation from their source, or their relationships. As long as you don't threaten the safety within our blog, you're welcome.
This blog is both for others to send in asks, and a safe space for us to talk about our own experiences with insys relationships and problematic sources as fictives. After seeing so much negativity around "proship" in the plural commmunity with absolutely no regard for how that might apply to fictives, we wanted to create this. That being said; dark topics will come up! Everything we can think of will be tagged, and there's no shame in asking us to tag something we missed. This blog is ultimately intended to be a positive space, so anything that could risk that for someone will be tagged.
We intend to be 100% open about our source here. We have quite a few fictives who will want in on this, though I can't say who for sure so this section will be a bit barren for a while. We're bodily in our early 20's, trans, and auDHD. We have many nonhuman members so things like that will be posted here as well.
Names you may see: Viridian, Kaeya, Diluc, Zane, Vylad, Scara, Wilbur. You'll see more than just them but honestly I'm not sure who all will want to post about themselves specifically.
Please be aware that we will respond only if we want to. You can specify if you have a preference whether we do or don't respond- and please do! We don't want to offer unsolicited commentary, and we can't promise that we'll give proper answers to folks who do want them sadly.
Source talk regardless of media
good faith questions about our experiences, system, sources, etc. We don't bite!
Properly warned dark/triggering content (ex. TW: [insert thing] with the content below it). If it's triggering to us, we won't be posting it, however.
Any thoughts about your experiences you don't want to post elsewhere.
properly warned and relatively mild NSFW. (Just don't go in depth, use your own discernment. If you're unsure, just say so at the beginning and we'll post it or we won't!)
if you need to ask something to follow your own DNI, go ahead.
For our comfort, any in-depth description of topics such as SA or SH are off the table. Mentions are perfectly okay if properly warned.
NSFW that is just literal smut at that point.
Blatant Anti-endo rants (asking questions in good faith is okay, fakeclaiming is not.)
Shipcourse of any kind. Duh.
Generally, if you're being an asshole to someone.... don't.
We don't have a set DNI for this blog, we believe that a safe space should be accessible to everyone regardless of their stances on whatever. So long as you play nice. This is the key here. We block freely. But, if you'd like to know our stances on things to follow your own DNI, then:
Systems of all origins are welcome, we don't give a single fuck I assure you.
This is a safe space for any queer label. Contradictory, niche, xenogenders and nepronouns- whatever your experience is. "MAPS" are not included in this.
We are a primarily nonhuman collective! Alterhumans of all kinds are safe here.
We don't support radqueer/transIDs but we won't stop you from interacting.
Dark topics will be talked about here. We feel the need to say this again. This is safe for people regardless of source actions or relationships with sourcemates. Yes, even that. Whatever "that" is when you think of it. If your relationship with your sourcemates is healthy now, or if you're not hurting people now, we don't give a shit how bad it was in your source.
If you judge anyone based off source, or don't want to interact with fictives from a specific source, don't bother.
We'd also like to add that this is a safe space for fictives who had disabilities, disorders, etc. in-source that their body does not have now. We have a few folks who have had this experience, and it's jarring, but scary to talk about.
