#queerphobic

[imoanurparentsnames]

[sunbeamedskies]

I have been saying this for FOREVER and will continue to say this until people actually fucking understand- ACCUSING REAL LIFE PEOPLE OF QUEERBAITING ACTIVELY HARMS QUEER PEOPLE. The Kit Connor situation is a perfect example of it. STOP DOING IT. You should only ever accuse writers of FICTION of queerbaiting. It especially harms and tends to force bi people to come out early. Shut the fuck up and let people figure their shit out and say what they wanna say when they wanna say it. You are not owed ANY information about peoples’ orientations.

“But but but- what if someone really is queerbaiting to get more queer fans???”

SO MANY people who are accused of queerbaiting end up coming out as queer that even if there are a select few who are really doing it- you know what? It’s NOT WORTH IT to force the large percentage of people who are really queer out of the closet early

[purple-mothman-majesty]

queerphobic parents pop out dozens of kids and expect every single one of them to be cis, allo, and heterosexual???

like. if you're going to be fruitful and multiply, don't be mad when 65% of your fruit turns out to be fruity.

[aces-to-apples]

Proud of myself for managing most days to not think about how very much so many people absolutely despise aces and aros. Annoyed that today's achievement of such was ruined by some queerphobic dipshit posting TERFy McRadFem talking points straight from 2013 like it's new and interesting and getting reblogged by a bunch of equally queerphobic dipshit 22-year-olds with entirely too much personal info in their bios.

[butch-bakugo]

I think it really speaks to how fake yalls supposed support to ptsd victims trigger words if they say that q*eer is one of their triggers and ask you to tag it, you turn into spiteful hateful demons and call them bigoted for... Having ptsd and dareing to care about their mental health. You make your page inaccessible to ptsd victims and that makes you ableist towards us 🙍

If you wont tag a term thats still commonly used as a slur ( wether or not it actually is one is irrelevant) and triggers someone, dont fucking say " ill tag all trigger terms :):):) dont be afraid to ask!!!1!". You dont care about ptsd victims and you don't care about other's well beings if your trigger tag stops at a term with alot of pain behind it.

Youre support is performative and we hate you for it. Yes, you, no matter how much you try to assure yourself that you support us as an ally or even a fellow victim. If your trigger word tag stops cause of " discourse" surrounding a term that carries alot of pain for alot of people then you dont care about us or your fellow victims.

I hope yall realize youre intentionally hurting people when you dont do that and it can send people to very dark places. Fuck off with performative ptsd allyship.

Td;lr: i dont care about discourse surrounding the term, fucking tag the word queer when ptsd victims ask you too.

Tag it as tw q slur, tw q word or straight up tw queer. Warn us so we dont get hurt trying to interact with you. Its ABLEIST.

[zendiscourse]

it’s honestly so gross and vile when a person reblogs a post happily or casually using the word queer and tags it with the ‘q slur’

like little respect do you have for other people? how little can you possible care for other?

how self-entitled are you, to think that’s okay?

[transwarlock]

hey uh PSA—I really don’t like it when people trigger tag my posts about being queer. “q slur” is super insensitive and was started by TERFs, and “q word” makes queer sound like it’s as bad as the r word.

if you’ve been asked to use either of those tags on all posts about queerness, or absolutely refuse to stop, then please just don’t reblog any of my posts about queerness period. thanks for your time 💖

[dykewingism]

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Anyone who uses folx unironically is lowkey asking to have the piss taken out of them

Also I guess I’m “queerphobic” now for not supporting bi erasure :’)