🐝 * ― 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑭𝑰𝑽𝑬 𝑳𝑶𝑽𝑬 𝑳𝑨𝑵𝑮𝑼𝑨𝑮𝑬𝑺. ( add " + " to reverse the action )
GIFT GIVING
[ handmade ] sender gives receiver something handmade
[ flowers ] sender surprises receiver with flowers just because
[ souvenir ] sender brings receiver something special from a trip
[ wanted ] sender hands receiver something they wanted but never would've gotten for themselves
[ practical ] sender offers receiver something they mentioned needing
❛ i know it's not much, but i saw this and thought of you, so i wanted you to have it. ❜
❛ you said you needed a new one, so i got it for you. ❜
❛ don't make a big deal out of it, please. just take it. ❜
❛ i wasn't sure what to get you, but this felt right. ❜
❛ i wanted you to have something that was only yours. ❜
QUALITY TIME
[ date ] sender takes receiver out on a date
[ visit ] sender surprises receiver with a visit just to spend some time together
[ quiet ] sender joins receiver to sit in comfortable silence
[ home ] sender spends the day with receiver at home together
[ night ] sender stays up late talking to receiver
❛ we don't have to do anything. i just like being near you. ❜
❛ i cleared my schedule for you, so now you have my full attention. ❜
❛ i like doing ordinary things with you. let's make a day of it. ❜
❛ do you want some company? i have time. ❜
❛ honestly, i just needed an excuse to spend some time with you. ❜
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
[ comfort ] sender verbally comforts receiver after a hard day
[ important ] sender reminds receiver how important and loved they are
[ enough ] sender assures receiver that they are enough
[ compliment ] sender gives receiver a compliment
[ proud ] sender tells receiver that they are proud of them
❛ i'm so proud of you, you did such a great job. ❜
❛ you always make things better just by being here. ❜
❛ you can do this, i believe in you wholeheartedly. ❜
❛ you're more than enough, and i'm lucky to know you. ❜
❛ you are not hard to love. in fact, you are loved by so many people. ❜
PHYSICAL TOUCH
[ cuddle ] sender initiates cuddling with receiver
[ warmth ] sender offers receiver their body warmth
[ shoulder ] sender pulls receiver close so they can rest their head on their shoulder
[ gentle ] sender brushes hair out of receiver's face
[ kiss ] sender kisses receiver's forehead/cheek/etc.
❛ come here, you look like you could use a hug. ❜
❛ let me hold you for a minute; i've got you. ❜
❛ you're freezing. give me your hands, i'll warm them up. ❜
❛ i like being close to you like this. ❜
❛ you don't have to pull away if you don't want to. ❜
ACTS OF SERVICE
[ repair ] sender fixes something broken that belongs to receiver
[ sickness ] sender takes care of a sick receiver
[ chores ] sender helps receiver with some chores
[ space ] sender makes receiver's space more comfortable for them
[ clean ] sender cleans something up for receiver
❛ you looked tired, so i already took care of it for you. ❜
❛ sit down and relax. i'll handle it. ❜
❛ you don't have to do everything alone, i can help. ❜
❛ i did it because i wanted to make your day a little easier. ❜
❛ let me help; i don't mind doing it. ❜














