#sanists

[alostlittleriverlotus]

Giving all the kisses and flowers and everything to all the narcissists today. We deal with so much fucking ableism and it fucking sucks. Today is from now on Narcissistic Awareness Day cause narcissistic abuse isn't real and doesn't deserve a fucking day. We love all narcissists here. You all deserve love and support and plenty of supply. I love you fellow narcissists. And I love you fellow queer narcissists since it is also now pride month. Wishing you all a fantastic pride month and a fantastic day in general cause y'all deserve the fucking world. 💜💜💜💜💜

Wishing every single narcissist a good day. 💖💖💖💖💖

[timidsketch]

holy shit dude that post obviously isn't fucking about mental illness can physically disabled people talk about anything without you making it about yourself

That post said "able bodied allies of disabled people." That is clearly posing "disabled" as the opposite of "able-bodied," which implies anybody who isn't physically disabled isn't disabled at all. And this notion is extremely common in the disabled community. People without physical disabilities are constantly excluded and deemed not "disabled" enough, not having an "actual" disability," not having a disability that comes with "true" hardship. I am forced to see this bullshit exclusionism every single day. I am forced to see the disabled community constantly pretend that "disabled" means only "physically disabled." Why is it never the other way around? Why does nobody ever say "disabled" to mean only people with mental illnesses? If this wording doesn't matter, then shouldn't I also constantly be seeing people do the same to physically disabled people?

Even the founder of cripplepunk peddled this shit and was openly sanist against mentally disabled people. "Can physically disabled people talk about anything" is a hilarious thing to say when almost every single post about disabilities is about only physically disabled people, while mentally disabled people continue to be excluded from the community and treated like shit. So you can get off your fucking high horse. Maybe you should actually give a shit about the people you constantly use as a throne. You're no different than the gay people who exclude bisexuals and pansexuals. You're no different than the trans women who exclude trans men. You're no different than a terf or radical feminist who cannot stand not being at the very top of the oppression hierarchy that assholes like you have created. How dare anybody have a problem with being treated like shit by you, huh?

Get the fuck away from me and my blog, you exclusionist asshole. You have been blocked ✌️

[sophieinwonderland]

I really don't understand why some systems are so hateful of endogenic systems

when I was discovering we were plural we thought we were endogenic and seeing all of these posts back then would have been incredibly similar to the transphobic harassment we came across when we came out as trans

idk

I guess I just think that you don't have the right to question and challenge somebody about their plurality if you're not in their head

Totally!

I really feel, and I've said this before, that it's about punching down being easier. I guess I'd call it lateral sanism. Whether you view endogenic systems as "disabled" or not, there's a big community out there that just feels more comfortable sending hate to another marginalized community that's discriminated against for their neurodivergences, and blaming that group for all their problems instead of the actual oppressors.