#self express

[heyeun-recyclebin]

Interesting 🤔

My former colleague who got fired texted me out of the blue. I was hoping not to hear from her anymore since our last text (which was about a few weeks ago) 😑

She acted weird and sour about the whole situation in the beginning and took it out on me instead of the company lol

She texted me randomly as if I was her daily journal.

“let me guess, who stole my position??”

“I’m gonna sue the company for discrimination”

“I bet he/she is sitting at my station”

“tell me, who replaced me?”

“So, who stole my $xxx.xx a week job where I was the sole provider for my family?”

I’m just looking at her random texts going “uhh…..” and never responded back coz seriously, I didn’t know what to tell her!

I ended up telling her that I can’t help her and she would need to reach out to HR herself and ask. I told her best wishes.

She never replied back so thought she moved on, thank God!

But here I am with another text from her 😂

This time was a normal text. She told me to feel free to use her stuff she left at her work station then told me that she’s getting unemployment then lastly added “I hope you had a great Thanksgiving holiday”

Wow 😳 for the first time she greeted me with holiday wishes. The past year she was never the one to initiate conversations or any type of heartfelt greetings. I remember her as someone with just full of negative energy 😅

Anyway, guess what? I didn’t respond back lol

I ought to stay away from someone like her for my own safety reasons lol tbh, she’s got some psychopath vibes.

I want to be accepting towards her but there are some people who will never learn and grow from their mistakes.

I’ve observed her for the past years and I know that she’s got some mental issues and I am definitely not the one to help her ✌️

I should really start organizing this topic of her.

Anyone who came across my post might think I sound so cruel and mean towards my former colleague haha 😂

[al-yasmine]

Love

Tell me where is it

Is it in the journals?

Or on Television.

Is it in our morning hello's?

Or in our goodbyes.

Is it present in our wars?

Or even in our peace.

Is it in speeches?

or in our silence.

Do you see it?

Can you feel it?

Tell me when you do

Because I don't.

[heyeun-recyclebin]

I just saw this post on my tumblr feed and man…it is misleading…

The part that is misleading is saying that “your soul, it will always tell you”

You gotta elaborate more on this because yet it may sound cool and convincing it’s teaching people to just dismiss any type of relationships without actually understanding the situation.

Because…we all need to know this fact.

“Feelings change every time”

So please do not just rely based on your feelings. You don’t even know if that’s your soul telling you or not lol.

It could just be YOU dealing with crap and simply wanting to distance yourself from the “world”

You might be losing good people because of this.

I thought it was my soul or heart telling me to stay away from certain people in the past and I regret so much for doing this. I made the dumbest decision.

In fact, I recently reconvened with an old friend several months ago whom I dismissed 10 yrs ago. I had this feeling that my soul was telling me to stay away from this person with all my heart at the time lol.

I regretted this decision year after year and we finally decided to try it again.

I am far more mature than I was before and so is my friend. We are really in good shape and both working on this relationship.

People these days give up so easily. If something doesn’t simply align with them they just toss it aside and never look back again.

Yes, unless the relationship is toxic and abusive…you are dealing with sociopath and narcissistic people…please leave the relationship but don’t leave just because you don’t feel the same anymore.

There are tons of ways to make things work out.

Don’t go straight into “oh…I have this gut feeling that I should distance myself from this person because I feel xyz”

If the relationship was good and becoming stale or you’re experiencing life challenges and changes, let them know your situation. Be honest. If they don’t want to respect you then distance yourself.

Some people just read these quotes and immediately apply it to their life by distancing themselves.

That’s an emotional betrayal and shock to the opponent.

They will be wondering why?..did I do something wrong?

They will probably act unnecessarily clingy and being that chaser to find out what the hell is going on??

Even putting them into the most vulnerable, unattractive place and giving you validation that “oh yeah, my soul was telling me the right thing, I indeed need to distance myself from this person”

Relationship is about companionship and commitment. We work on it together. We help and support each other. If something doesn’t seem to align, you work it out together as a team.

It is not too late to distance yourself after trying out all other options.

[heyeun-recyclebin]

Yay I voted! Dropped off my ballot at the City Hall an hr ago 😊

I would love to vote in person next time though, I think that will make me feel more proud to announce that I voted 😛

[fastlivenostress]

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[hazelhealer]

Creativity is the way I share my soul with the world - Brene Brown

[black-shaped-box]

some are aware but do not often check here.... i tell them I am ok but deep down I am not. i still have no hold here because i know that nothing is permanent. I am not permanent or you, we are born, breathe, live than die.

what do i want to be remembered for?

my answer i dont give a shit