#struggeling

[blossombambi]

I love men but I also hate men at the same time

[ikeaskuka]

"Hard work pays off when you start getting compliments."

[iloveilovei]

I missed Wille & Simon's soft moments (honestly I could just watch them being soft around each other for a whole season), but season 2 was them trying to move on, struggeling to do so and coming to the realization that it's not about being with "someone", but that they are "it" for each other with all their faults and all the baggage that comes with it (and it is a huuuge pile of baggage).

It's not just touch Wille is missing, but it is Simon's touch, he doesn't only need someone to talk to, but he needs Simon's ear and his voice, his opinions which will make him look at things differently.

It's not being with someone who is nice to you (at first anyway) and gives you the openly visible relationship you want, but Simon needs Wille's often awkward, clumsy and shy way to show Simon that he is trying to take care of him, his way of trying to communicate with him.

[ramblingbunnie]

I am your friend

I am the one you trust

I am your friend

I am always there for you

I am your friend

I am your free therapist

I am your friend

I understand you

I am your friend

You can always come to me

I am your friend

But I wonder if you ever saw

I am your friend

But you arent mine

[coldbloodpoetry]

Me: *is an introvert, social anxious, needs their own personal space*

My roommate: *invites their friends over for a whole fucking week*

[marie-curie]

Some bullet journal spreads. The helloween-theme for this week and I already lined out the overview for november. Today was really exhausting. I was at university from 8am to 7.30pm and it took me some time to make dinner and sum up todays lectures. I’m so tired I could sleep for days. But tomorrow I have three hours of free time where I can catch up with the stuff I didn’t do today. Anyone else struggeling with doing so much work at once?

[alias-writing]

Life lessons

They are arguing again about things that are not that important in the end. And I could intervene and stop them and try to mediate between them. Telling them that all that really matters is to understand the opposed side and feelings behind the action and to find a compromise together.

They are struggeling again with not being present and scattering themselves in all directions to make everyone else happy but themselves. And I could tell them and explain what to do.

But none of that is my place!

People can get upset when you try to help them. You’re giving them the solutions. When you have all the solutions there will be nothing left to do.

I can give hints and tips but I can’t tell the solutions. I can’t, because all we are in life is learning.

The true meaning of life is to learn through our experiences!