Aug 5, 2017
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Thinking: wait, did you just flirt with me? Feeling: have been for the past year but thanks for noticing
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Mbti convo
Thinking: wait, did you just flirt with me? Feeling: have been for the past year but thanks for noticing
The intellect, this demon of words, is a destroyer of life; the more the mind becomes words the less there is life substance.
Carl Jung
https://www.reddit.com/r/infp/comments/5zdrge/i_feel_like_its_really_hard_for_us_infp_guys_to/dexqunl/
https://www.reddit.com/r/infp/comments/5zdrge/i_feel_like_its_really_hard_for_us_infp_guys_to/dexavf1/
The personal complaint I have as an INFP woman towards firsthand experiences with two INFP men in the past is that I became a logical Thinking type (of) woman in terms of communication and making personal and professional decisions. (Kindly note my midzone score has always been between Sensing and Intuitive but never ever scored/struggled between Thinking/Feeling). Hence, I felt unpleasant and even disappointed as a traditional or ordinary/average INFP woman who doesn’t really want to take the lead role 24/7 yet was forced to in the above-mentioned situations. In other words, I was the one who had to toughen up instead when needed.
My personal opinion as an INFP woman is: Regardless how difficult communication is , it is the key to make relationship work in the end of the day. If INFP men wonder why women feel turned off, may be that is the reason.
Word choice: Something that these outsiders and I may deal with blindspots: Notice that there are not enough details about these 2 sides: the writer and the girl, so how can all of us all point out that it must be the girl' s fault when the girl is absent here?! Next, if the writer wrote DAYS, meaning they have not yet understand each other well, ghen how could he say they hit off well? At last , if they communicated with each other more than 30 days +, then there may be an gradual mutual understandings between the two. It is not fair to only hear just one side of the story before final judgement in my opinion unless they really knew each other for a few days then the girl was indeed not too polite.