#toxicparents

[nmolesofadrenaline]

[oddthoughts-ofmine]

It sucks when you have strict and toxic parents and can't go out whenever you want to, so studying is the only escape from them.

[kuptemikravu]

the fact that my parents fight so much

the fact that they tear the other person’s heart apart with all the ugly things they do not even mean while they’re saying them

and all i can do about it is nothing because there’s nothing more i could say to them

everything was already said

the love that had once hold our ceiling, painted walls and ticked in the clock has simply blown away 

somewhere where people deserve it and where they’re ready to fight for it

[the-eternal-strawberry]

How DARE you sit there and tell me my brother and I are equal when all my life I have been treated as an expense and he is seen as an investment.

[davidwfloydart]

#blacksheepofthefamily #blacksheep #toxicrelationships #toxicfamily #toxicparents #toxicfriendships #disfunctionalfamily #bullshit #disfunctionalrelationships #transparencymatters (at Catalina Foothills, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQJX80BrJY8j3uKbjfseSx43kfSTxKP0DrKIRE0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[iwanttodielolololol]

you don't "still love your abusive parents" you have stockholm syndrome

a coping mechanism isn't love

[nmolesofadrenaline]

[roquesox]

parents are some of the most toxic people you will ever meet in your life.

and, if that's the case, they set you up for consistent failure in relationships until you teach yourself that familiar is NOT healthy and break the habit of seeking out people who treat you the same way they did.

idk who needs to read this, but seriously: your parents are not perfect. the dynamic they have with you is not the only way relationships work. it is not your job to make excuses for them. they decided to bring a kid into their lives & it shoukd have been their responsibility to give you a good upbringing. and if you are constantly faced with people who treat you poorly, odds are it's because you were raised into being treated badly and are so used to it that your mind is literally seeking this out because it's familiar. your subconscious mind is an idiot and naturally works to sabbotage you & hold you back! the comfort zone is not comforting at all. . .it's just what your mind knows to be familiar and it doesn't know good from bad. and while it's not your fault that you were raised into it. . .it's on you to recognize and change it.

healthy relationships do exist. it's not about seeking them out; it's about learning to walk away from your attachment to toxicity.