I AM TRANS MED, but only for myself.
i would not identify as trans without my dysphoria. because if i was comfortable in my body how it was, if i didn’t have a disconnect from my birth gender then i would be happy as a girl.
do i understand how you can identify as transgender w/o dysphoria? nope.
but it’s not my job to understand your identity. it’s my job to RESPECT YOU.
i will be getting any surgeries and medical procedures needed to pass as a cis male. because i WANT that. i don’t care if you want that, and i don’t care if you think you don’t need those things.
do i understand how you can be happy living with your body as it is while being trans? nope.
but it’s not my job to police what you do with your own body. my job is to respect you.
YOU can identify however you want, even if you don’t want surgeries, even if you use non conventional pronouns, such as it/it’s or xe/xem or otherwise & i WILL RESPECT YOU & UR PRONOUNS.
because i do not own the trans community. & i do not & can not control how other people feel.
you are ALL welcome on my blog, despite our differing opinions and i WILL ALWAYS respect you & your identity.