#vent kinda

[syphabelnyades]

If you don’t have a place in your heart to love, accept, and support trans men, then you need to fix your heart because there’s something wrong and rotten with it.

[infezmite]

[juniipaws]

motion sickness

[elkian]

It is so fucking frustrating to have ADHD and go "and I do this as a backup incase I forget-" and people fucking JUMP ON YOU for having a backup and tell you "just don't forget!", as if having Dogshit Memory Disorder is something I personally chose in order to inconvenience them, and it's triply annoying when they also have ADHD.

Planning for when you forget IS a responsible action.

Telling people not to forget is like saying "just don't get in a wreck!" when someone puts a seatbelt on. 1), it's useful for more than just the most dire situation possible, and 2), if people had control over that they would already be controlling it.

[imjunebitch]

ppl will rly insult a trans woman by tiptoeing circles around calling her an overemotional hysterical bitch and calling her a weird gross predatory freak while carefully degendering their insults like. we can read. I can read. can u maybe grow a spine I'd respect u a TINY bit more. 😭

[thecommunalfoolboy]

It’s crazy how many people just don’t understand why a lot of aro and or ace people don’t like that Alaster gets shipped. It’s not that hard to understand we don’t have a lot to let ourselves lose. I mean can you name 10 asexual characters? 5? Can you name two aro characters. There’s the guy from Archie who they made have a sex scene in a movie version. There’s a few books. I think a background character in Heartstopper? Do you see the theme here??? You’re all queer people, do you not get it? How it feels to have nothing? Is it so wrong to be upset that there’s finally an outwardly aroace person in popular media and instead of people embracing that they’re fighting on the internet about why it’s ok to ignore it? And I will never in my fucking life have anything against the people who are aro and or ace and portray him in THEIR experiences, even if it is a romance or sex favorable experience, but it is obvious that way too many of you guys are allo and it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I don’t even like him as a character that much, he isn’t even made by an aroace artist. The show isn’t even that fucking good, I just want to keep someone like me for once in my life. If there were a million other aroace characters I wouldn’t care, but it just hurts seeing erasure coming from my own community. It just sucks, man, I don’t know. It just sucks

[missearwaxx]

[venus-rivers]

every transmasc ever: hey it kinda sucks how under represented we are in the trans community and how most art made to express trans feelings focuses entirely on transfems. itd be nice if our community was built to see us too

queer people: kys or detransition masculinity is evil u were better off a woman