#womaflexible

[crazyalien87]

womaflexible/womanflexible flag with multisexual stripe in the middle

[crazyalien87]

personal rant about gender and sexuality and that kinda stuff (maybe a little nsfw and also some censored swear words)

it feels like people are expecting me to be some fucking cishet girl who like guys in a striaight girl kinda way and in a romantic & sexual kinda way. But I can't. I just f*cking can't. I'm not a woman. not at all. I'm transmasc and (probably) nonbinary (there's a slight chance I'm just a binary trans dude but I doubt it). The idea of me liking a dude in a straighr way is just ugh. Not to mention I don't like them sexually. I do like dudes, but in a romantic way. And of course alao in an aesthetic and sensual attraction kinda way but that's not the point. The point is I'll never like guys in a noraml cishet romantic+sexual way. Like, when people is talking about guy things, and cis guys things involving like dicks and stuff, and like straight guy stuff, imaging myself as the girl just feels so weird. Like, I usually imagine myself as the guy unless it is like a purely romantic thing and not nsfw. But even then, I wouldn't imagine myself as a straight girl having a boyfriend. Just like as someone having a boyfriend.

Idk, maybe it's just because my sexual attraction is like 90% women and definitely 0% men so obviously if there is any nsfw mention I ain't gonna imagine myself f-ing a dude. But still.

F*ck idk where I was going with that.

I wonder if I can stil be sapphic now idk. Cuz I am definitely not a woman.

Like, I' wearing a dress right now and it feels good because I like wearing dresses and it shows off the muscles on my arms, but like at the same time I know it will make people that more likely to think I am a cis furl and I'm just like. ugh. Can't a closeted transmasc wear a dress without being assumed to be cis? But like I don't want people to assume I'm trans either because like I'm not ready to come out.

Oof. idk. Like how is that possible? Like do I want people to not think of my gender until I come out? What if I never come out? Like, I'm nonbinary and at least my immediate family seems to thimk there are only 2 genders and they can barely understand binary trans people.

sh*t.

[crazyalien87]

gyneflexible/womaflexible flags with a ceterosexual flag in the middle

I made some gyneflexible/womaflexible flags with the stripe in the middle being the ceterosexual flag.

Gyneflexible is mostly being attracted to women, and occasionly to other gender(s). The skinny flag in the middle of the flag represents what other genders you are attracted to. I made some with the cetereosexual flag because I've only seen some with other flags in the middle. Ceterosexual means attracted to nonbinary people.

[crazyalien87]

Womaflexible & Gyneflexible flags with the polysexual flag in the middle

[aniso-pride]

Anisoattracted Woman-leaning / Lesbiflexible flag

Lesbianflexible (female-leaning anisoattractional): feeling attraction to women (you also identify as one) but flexible in its identity. A lesbiflexible individual can be genderfluid and/or rarely attracted to other gender(s) than woman.

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

Hello. I like how inclusive this blog's pride flags are. They taught me a lot, but I'm still not sure what my sexuality is. Do you think you can help me figure out what would best fit with it? I tend to be physically attracted more to women, but in rare cases can be attracted physically to men if I develop a close enough connection with them. What term would best fit this description if my attraction to women is the most dominant and doesn't require a close connection to exist like with men?

Bi is inclusive of people who are attracted to more than one gender, no matter what quantity of attraction. If you are just unsure about if you are really bi or not, you don’t need to worry.

If you want a more specific label, though, you could use:

Woman-leaning bisexual / bisexual with a preference for women

Womaflexible / Femflexible / Femiflexible / Feminaflexible / (also maybe homoflexible or heteroflexible, depending on your gender): Denote having mostly attraction to women, and rarely to other genders

Sapphic, if you are a woman or a woman-aligned person, which means you feel attraction to women and maybe other genders maybe not

I don’t think there is a specific label for “femsexual + demivirsexual”, since demi is usually used in a-spec contexts and may confuse people.

~ Tath