Call Me Valour

I do a lot of stuff. Like play basketball, write, and sleep. Oh, and video games. Twenty and living in the great white North. I hibernate in the summer.

[kabo-cha]

5/17/17

a quick guilmon~

[best-life-wisdom]

can we just worry about nothing and fuck

[bpdirt]

me: what the hell is wrong with me brain: here’s a repressed memory that explains a lot of things me: Well Lock It Back Up?? Did I Ask For All That????

[hellochameleon-deactivated20161]

So my boyfriend did a thing.

My boyfriend of over 2 years sent me a game over skype. He said he wants to try and make Pokemon games since I play them so much. I opened it up and was super excited.

It seemed really well done and was super ready to start on my adventure!

He left a lot of cute notes and tips around town.

He remembered my favorite Kanto starter.<3

I was surprised it ran pretty well. I went on my journey and leveled up my Pokemon!

He showed me support and encouragement through a ton of NPC dialogue.

Then as im ending the game I come across this.

;u;

[imaginarybatman]

That is the most adorable thing ever.

[neku-sakuraba-deactivated201806]

lightning / claire farron | puzzle and dragons art work

[mothmansbignaturals]

hey tell me fun facts about pirates

[mothmansbignaturals]

this is everything i could ever want

[rumwik]

A small snow puff!

[thatsthat24]

My Remedy for the Blues! 💙

[nicklesans]

why am I like this though

[thesquarecomics]

Uses of alcohol

[405blazeitt]

i hate the trope of kids giving their favorite stuffed animal to a younger child as a sign of compassion and coming of age, as if this is something that should be expected of kids as they grow up

im 22 and i dont care who you are you’ll have to pry my ikea shark out of my cold dead hands

[dotdollplushies]

I can’t remember the name of the study, but there was a theory, supported by pretty good evidence, that if you have your comforter, be it blanket, plush, pacifier, whatever, taken away when you’re not ready to give it up, even if you’re a dinky little kid, it can have really long lasting effects. People who kept their comforters into adulthood were less likely to smoke, drink or do drugs, tended to have better family relations and home lives etc, while those that saw their comforter removed or destroyed were more likely to be drawn to more serious “comforts” elsewhere. The more extreme the removal, the more extreme the result. Typically.

We learn at our own pace to make and break connections and emotional ties, and the situation is forced upon us, we seek comfort. But whoa wait, you can’t possibly have comfort anymore, you’re five. You’re a big kid now.

So when parents are forcing you to “grow up” by tearing the only comfort in the world from you, they could actually be messing you up big time.

[star-anise]

In psychology they’re called “transitional objects” and they help the neurobiological process of helping children learn to internalize the experience of being loved and cared for, which is an essential part of learning to regulate your emotions.  They are REALLY important.

[imnotevilimjustwrittenthatway]

I wonder what it means psychologically that I’ve started getting a few more for myself?

[star-anise]

Well, there’s a process we call “re-parenting yourself” where you give yourself the love you missed out on in childhood, and thereby start to heal the pain you’ve carried since then.  And using childhood comfort objects can be part of that.

[zawesome-cd]

Oh..

[jayce]

[bleedandcry]

why do puppies sound so funny

[bleedandcry]

update: this is him now

[sociallyawkwardphantasy]

Same

[moss-flesh]

reblog if youd say yes

[beepbeepbeepbeep-deactivated202]

beep beep

[southernsideofme-deactivated201]

[ronpaulproblems]

I’m not crying you’re crying 

[thefiveandahalfminutehallway-de]

Always remember the 9/11 Search and Rescue dogs. 

So many of them became depressed and distraught because they were trained to find live bodies, and when they kept finding remains, their handlers and other rescue workers began to hide in the wreckage so the dogs could do live finds. 

These dogs provided immeasurable help to those that were working the scene, bringing great emotional support just by being around the rescuers. 

[missgingerlee]

I’m not saying I’m sobbing…but if you don’t cry or catch feels something is wrong with you.

[huskar]

[hipster]

puppy