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[the-charming-system]

Charming System/Collective. He/him unless member tags otherwise. Adult.

Members will tag by name.

General use blog. You may send questions.

[thedailyheadmate]

Headmates who won’t stop kissing while fronting

[sonarsystem]

graduation

[fictfrenzy]

you know?

[vegetable-central]

plurality is having someone say "come on, we're getting up" or talking out loud through tasks to help us stay on track and not break down when things are overwhelming. i don't know who does that but thank you

[the-charming-system]

mii maker? Nuh-uh. Me maker.

[oursystemblog]

[fictive-culture]

Fictive culture is wishing folks would realize fictives of younger characters can be adults and/or have the lived experience of adults.

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[musithical]

having the brain go "nope" when accidentally stumbling across a memory you arent supposed to know about is like the mental equivalent of walking face first into a glass door

[moonberrylodge]

One of the most plural things you can do is not be sure. I don't mean not know, and I don't mean be indecisive, in the middle, or nuanced. I mean all of it. At once, at different times, not at all, Fluctuating, all entirely what I mean. Plurality is different plurality is dimensional plurality is yours plurality is personal. Question things, check if your old rules still apply. We haven't been let down by normals and standards, and we won't be starting now. Take it in to your own hands or paws or hoofs or claws or stubs or nubs or tentacles or lines or boxes or triangles or other and make this shit you&.

[helixrainn]

a friend from a past life

[pipshinwhatever]

If you think about a fictional character enough you should be able to manifest them into reality. So I can make komaeda work the closing shift today

[bior-ampersand]

a comic about getting hurt

[primulasystem]

I think it's important to recognize that the concept of a "little" means different things to different systems.

- Some littles are less responsible and emotionally mature than adults, and some are equally responsible and emotionally mature.

- Some littles don't have access to adult memories and knowledge, and some do.

- Some littles formed in childhood, and some formed later in life.

- Some littles age or emotionally mature over time, and some don't.

- Some littles need to be sequestered away with other littles, and some can socialize with adults both in and out of the system.

- Some littles have childlike interests and enjoy media and hobbies associated with kids, and others have broader tastes in activities.

- Some littles need to be kept away from potentially mature content, and others are fine with seeing violence, swearing, sexuality, etc. in media.

- Some littles need to be kept off of social media for their own wellbeing, and some can safely use and enjoy social media.

- Some littles can't do certain tasks adult members can do (driving a car, cooking, managing money and doing taxes) and some can.

- Some littles need to be frequently supervised and have decisions made for them by older members of the system, and some don't need special supervision or guidance at all.

- Some littles are completely asexual and may find exposure to sexuality distressing, and some have sex drives and can consent to sexual activities.

Any discourse questioning "can littles do X?" should be answered with "it depends on the little". Individual systems should be trusted to make decisions that work for them. Judgment calls can be made by the little in question if they have that level of maturity, or by older members of the system if they need that kind of help. But I don't think those decisions should be enforced by people who aren't members of that system. (With the exception of the specific people involved in a sexual activity, who can give or rescind their own consent.)

In my opinion rules in online environments should accommodate littles, not make assumptions and box them in. For example, little-specific Discord channels - great! Littles are ONLY allowed to use little-specific Discord channels - not so great.

Ultimately we should keep in mind that while littles have their identified age in common, they may differ from one another in other ways. When it comes down to it, how things work for one system will not be how they work for everyone.

[fruitorchardsystem]

Nah I don’t have memory issues I remember my childhood pretty well.yeah everything I remember has been recorded or told to me and anything outside of that I don’t remember unless it was bad but like that’s fine

[theweathersystem]

so, so terrified

but still alive.

[helixrainn]