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I told him about my HSV today. He’s the only one who knows the whole story. He said he still wants me.

It's been three and a half years, he still wants me 💕

I wish I had known then what I know now; that it does get better. I wouldn't have spent so long hating myself for something out of my control.

#hsv #herpes

glittergangsta

livingwithitsblog

HERPES goals

Finally being able to distinguish between a ingrown and outbreak 🙌🏼

sequinagini

HERPBLR APPRECIATION POST

Thank you herpblr. I mean it.

dxglitter

To Herpblr.

puresonicfury

Cheers!

pussiesandpeonies-deactivated20

fearandlovescantcoincide

Every 7 years ours cells are destroyed and replaced. It’s comforting to know that one day I’ll have a body you never touched.

and never will (via thunder)

herpessupport

The worst part about herpes part II

I suffer from stigma, not a disease.

fuckyeahdragrace

lets-staypositive

In a room full of 60 people, ten of them have GHSV. Out of those ten, eight of them don’t know that they have it. And those two that know? Only one will actually tell you.

So, who are you more afraid of: the person who just disclosed to you, or the 9 that won’t?

glitterslutblog

Cool Down Coconut Glitter Stick.

Beware: You’re going to want to kiss me more than you already do now.

Here is what you need.

Coconut oil

small Jar

Tea tree oil

spoon

freezer

You’re going to spoon the coconut oil in the small jar, then microwave it for 20 seconds. When the oil melts, add 4 drops of tea tree oil.

After it’s mixed up throw it in the freezer for a hour or so.

After it freezes you should be able to take the coconut oil out

Like so,

And you can apply generously to your glitter attack.

This is like a coconut oil/ ice pack combo. It will feel soothing as fuck, and the tea tree oil will help cut down your breakout time.

(be sure to put it back in the freezer when you’re done)

This is great for

Breakouts

After shaving

After vigorous sex

During vigorous sex

and It’s also great for sunburns

Taking you pussy from drab to fab in no time.

Let me know how you like it!

xoxo,

g.s

letsstopthestigma

Remember…

some people are born with STI’s

some people contracted their STI’s through a non-sexual nature

some people did not consent to the act in which they received an STI

some people contracted an STI even while taking precautions

some people had partners lie to them about their sexual health and history

some people did not have the same education you did about STI’s

some people just made a mistake

ALL PEOPLE with STI’s deserve the same love, respect, and healthy sex life as people without STI's

unfriendlyhsvhottie

As I started writing about my experiences, I found myself using the term ‘HSV’ over ‘herpes.’ I realized it had a different effect on what I was saying. HSV is way more stealth: most people, unless they know they’re positive for it or are unusually well-versed in sexual health terminology, don’t know what this acronym stands for. But it sure sounds medical, and thus legitimate, making it easier to talk about herpes without implicating deviance, morality, disgust. For once people might regard your situation as a valid health issue, rather than something to be mocked or dismissed as your fault. Eventually, though, I transitioned into using ‘herpes’ intentionally. BECAUSE it is more visceral, BECAUSE of all its connotations. I have discovered a certain power in this word: in uttering it, I force people to reckon with what I am. To sit with their discomfort.

The Sweet Curse of Embodiment: Navigating the Self Within Sexualized Illness (2014)

this

(via valtrexbarbie)

glitterslutblog

My husband and I knew the day would come but I didn't expect it so soon.(1 yr.&8 mo.) I gave him the glitter. He seems to be doing much better with it then I am. What do I do now? How can we heal? Can you suggest some sites on that topic? It just hurts to see him hurt and to know that my stupid ass mistakes caused my husband this pain! Am I being selfish for feeling bad? Do I just need to get over myself?

Woah, Woah, Woah.

First you need to stop hating on yourself…

Your husband is a grown ass man.

He knew you had the glitter, he wanted to to not only tap that, but ONLY tap that… that’s why he married you.

Your husband is a grown ass man.

Yeah, sharing the glitter sucks. But he knew, you knew, we all knew that it could happen. All you can do now is show him the ropes, and use this a bonding experience to give you a even stronger relationship.

It’s Ya’lls glitter now.

Having sex is not a mistake. Getting a STD is not a mistake.

It’s life, and shit happens. You’ve got to let this shame go. You’re a amazing devoted woman who loves the fuck out of her man. And I guarantee he knows. it. From what you’ve told me he’s probably more worried about you then himself.

Want to help heal his pain?

Worship that dick.

You heard me.

If it hurts, blow on it for him with that come hither face.

Take baby powder and a cotton ball and power that dick like it was your face.

When it starts to heal give him hand-job with coconut oil with a dash of tea tree oil.

The biggest issue with the glitter is getting your sexy back. You guys are so lucky to be able to go through this together. Make him feel like the sex god he is and instead of a burden you both share, it could be catalyst for a second honeymoon.

xoxo,

g.s.