The called One

old schoool Housewife/Wife/Mother + Vintage Lover (50s mostly) + Pagan and Nordic electic Witch + passionated Writer/Read

[transmascmarypoppins]

why is this post completely broken in every way imaginable

[cecilsrandomeverything]

Broken notes… deactivated account… removed image….

Finally, we have them all.

[spacefinch]

In addition: OP’s name is just… gone. No “[insert username]-deactivated[insert a bunch of numbers]” as is the standard for deactivated blogs.

Just the world “deactivated.” Look upon their post, ye mighty, and despair.

[chatblancofficial]

It’ll be almost impossible to find this post unless it wanders across your dash.

[huewrite]

It wandered across mine. I shall help it travel forward.

[gossamermouse]

this is not a place of honor

[jackviator]

[dinosaurana]

Oh hey post of Ozymandius, good to see you again standing on your feet in a desert where no one remembers you

[thecalledone]

"Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies?  Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it’s all a male fantasy: that you’re strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. 

Even pretending you aren’t catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you’re unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else.  You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman.  You are your own voyeur." - Margaret Atwood

[thecalledone]

"Calling Grandma".

New Deco piece for Our Livingroom. =)

[thecalledone]

"I'm autistic, so social Interactions are sometimes confusing for me" - this don't spark joy. "I'm a Vampire, so your social Conventions aren't allinge with mine sometimes" - this sparks joy.

[vamp-orwave]

Instagram article from Fifty Shades of Gay

[thecalledone]

Made myself a Pin!

So happy! *hihi*

[goth-queen]

[thecalledone]

Attention: None english speaker! Sorry for the Mistakes in words. Hope you can still understand my Point! Thanks!

As we all love to scream about US Politics, I wanna give an example why I get fearful about the Politics in my OWN Country (not the US). The President (or the equalent to it here), is at the Power for ONE YEAR! One frecking YEAR! And we already hate him as much as since the second World War wasn't a politicer hated before! Just a few examples, why I fear for my future and those of my kids, when all his planes go through as he "screams them out". - Ending the free Health ensurance I get from my Husband. We over here have a "family health ensurance" where kids and a non working sprouse can be ensured for free from someone who is ensured. He wants to end it for the sprouses. What would made me pay 220 (roughly 258 Dollar for the US) to ensure myself. Doesn't sound like much, but we are already plus/minus zero every month. - Cutting Money for Help organisations/CPS. I'm working with a Woman from CPS at the Moment (she's a "Family helper" and should help me organise everything that have to be done because of my kids. Will write more to that in another point) and she told me, that in her City already "helps" are cut without explanation, because the money is already cut. Our dear President want to cut it even more.

My oldest need a Special needs assistant to help her in School. This Person is just for her and her needs (and she needs it like that). The Money for that should also be cutted down and Schools should work the the "pool solution" (one Worker for the whole Class). That would be a disaster for my daughter. She would rather bound the worker because of her needs or her needs would get not met enough, what would likely resulting in her failing in School or even having to leave. - Cutting Money for Special needs/disabled people I have three Kids. All three are special needs. For all three I have a care grade. I get a bit of money from my State to accaknowledge the work I have to do, that exale the "normal" work of a parent. This should be also cut.

Also should the Money for helps be cut. Also for projects to help people in finding jobs, having accessibily or such things. Setting disabled/special needs People up for failure.

In the same breath: Cutting the social security down Yeah. It's talked about to cut the social securty payments, that we have and are really proud of. And before you get on here and shout your bullshit: I were a Kid growing up on social security. It weren't nice. It weren't easy. It weren't "more than enough". It were struggle. It were bread and jam for two weeks, because my Mom got "overpaid" and had to pay it back. It were skipping social gatherings, because I couldn't afford an ice cream or trip to the City. It were knowing, that I can't work while living at Home, cause the Money had to be go forward my Mom, cause it would be taken from her help - (so no option for me to make my own money for things like a driving liscense or such). Cutting it down more would push people into proferty. And I mean real proferty - not the "First World Proferty" that I had to endure as a Child. I don't want that. Especially as my mom is still on social security (she get's EU pension as she is unable to work because of her health). It's barely enough for her to get buy. She has to cut corners in so many ways, just get through (and I mean by important stuff like work on her theeth etc.) - Pushing down the Pensions We all love him over here for the "A Pension shouldn't be more than ground security (aka barely enough that you can somewhat live). Sorry? We (my Generation) already know, that we will not likely ever have a liveble pension (no matter how long we work) and would need the State to cover it so that we're not ending up homeless. And now that should be cut even more? Sure, because for the Guy who get a Pension in the Millions that's no problem to give a bit away....moment? Your "Diats" (like the Pensions of Politics are called here) won't be touched by that? Aha...see... And you know what's the scariest fact in all that? It raises the unhappiness of the People. So much, that we have a feelable turn to the right. Our right wing party get's so much "I would vote for them, if I have to at the Moment" - Points. That leaves me scared. Scared for what we are on the way into. Scared for the Future of my Kids. My only hope is, that this is just "talk". And if not, that the Supreme Court will cut this bullshit the Moment it get's on paper. We will see.... (Yes, I know that I'm previledged for many People out there to even have this kinds of money for me and such. But don't letting me complain about loosing it, won't teleport it to you. If you things such things are cool - go bother your politics about it. Thanks for listening!)

[thecalledone]

It were hot - like scorching hot - today. Way to hot for April and way to hot for my Climate. *sigh* Guess who's Arms and Hands are burning like something? Even with suncreme and all? I wore a hat. I stayed as much as I could under a Umbrella. Still my Arms are burning like crazy. The Sting is real. Ugh.... Sun Allergy sucks.

[dearorpheus]

from the bloodsuckers exhibition currently at the aus museum—lampreys, candirus, vampire moths, vampire finch, vampire bat, jar of leeches, heartworms (◡‿◡✿)

[the-prairies-calling-out]

"Why do you buy books when the library is right there?"

Because publishing houses will not continue printing paper books if libraries are their only customers.

Also, I like being able to read at my leisure and generally have books at hand.

[its-the-blob]

#public libraries are good because they let people access books they might never otherwise read#private book ownership is good because it's Yours#physical books are good because they last a long time and again it's Yours#ebooks are good because you can fit a whole library into the physical space of a single book and they're cheaper to produce#audiobooks are good because they're accessible to people with eyesight or visual reading issues and leave your hands free#in conclusion: all books are good and people should enjoy them however and whenever they can#(lest it be misunderstood I agree with you completely OP I just also really like books in general and it got away from me)

YES. all books. every kind

[thecalledone]

Whatever brings People to read is good. A Yeah for Books!

[lesbianalicent]

[thecalledone]

*getting my Quija board out to make this Post*

[cottagemoridollynatural]

[mx-dorkboy]

Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.

[mx-dorkboy]

Really though, what was that about? I don’t know is a valid answer. It communicates very clearly that the child cannot answer your question, and therefore maybe needs more help understanding the question/situation. Why do you try and push them to give an answer they don’t have? That stresses them out and it makes them feel like they’re being punished for not knowing something.

[logically-asexual]

i thought i was the only one with an “i don’t know” problem because my parents made it seem it was the strangest and also most horrible thing in the world. i genuinely didn’t know and they got angry and that only blocked my thoughts more which meant i didn’t know the answer to anything else.

[kitvalkyrie]

THIS ^^^

[nyxwoven]

Also “I don’t know” is a commonly used sentence for children with ADHD/Autism. We DON’T know why we can’t do our homework. We DON’T know why we can’t eat certain foods sometimes. We DON’T know why we forgot to do a chore. It’s really distressing when you genuinely don’t know and people think you’re just lying or indifferent

[thecalledone]

My Kids hear me honest saying "I don't know" if they have a Question I don't have an Answer too. Or a "I think it could be...." or a "I don't know. Maybe we should check in the Internet..." Nobody is all knowing. Nobody can explain his behaviour all the Time. Sometimes we just do things (or even not) without knowing ourself why. Because it's learned, because it "feels" right, because our Emotions are in the Way etc. That's normal. That's human.

[findingmywayforever]

Did you know you can watch Stepford Wives for free?

If you haven't...Do it now.

WATCH ON TUBI

[stepforddollie]

Definitely will be watching this!! It shocks people when I say I want to be a Stepford Wife but I haven’t seen the movie 😂

[stepforddollie]

Finally watched it. OMG! 10/10 recommend!

[thecalledone]

Watched both Versions and read the Book. Recommend both Versions. The older for the pure Horror; it's made very good. Absolutely great. The newer for the Asthetic. Gosh, these Dresses!

[upthewitchypunx]

The jar of jars, a witch staple.

[thecalledone]

Putting Jars in a Jar is a very.....jaring move.... *tadatusch*

[thecalledone]

She finally has a Name. Linnéa. Or short - Néa. I'm really happy. Thinking about adding more weight to her (only 1,5 Kilo is pretty low). And some Day her Head Paint needs fixing. But for now: She's perfect.