My Little Treasure Trove of Trash

Emily, but call me Nightmare. 24. Aquarius. Biromantic Asexual. Where you can find the dumbest shit out there on this blog. RP blog. IM or talk, just whatever pleases you. #JusticeforJennifer'sBody. An unwilling but begrudgingly accepted Optimus kin. My Ao3 is HeavyMetalRebel. Enjoy the rambles of a woman with too much time and not enough adderall on her hands.

[thenightmaregrrl]

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

Hey, here's my Ao3 profile, it's got some stories here. Like Orion's Body and my short story Middle Fingers.

[pukicho]

Still rocking an NFT icon in this day and age is like seeing a confederate flag on the back of someone’s truck. You lost 100 years ago, fucker, it’s over.

[witchysolfan]

[thenightmaregrrl]

WE CAN'T HAVE SHIT

FUCK GEN AI!

[dynamite5ftjewishbitch]

Fun, someone said the words “prior authorizations” around me and now I’m pissed off at 730am on my day off. I go off on this rant all the time. ALL THE TIME.

[wayfaringmd]

Oof. This man gets it.

[fromthemindofatwentyorotherlycan]

Every time I have to send a fax to a doctor saying "hey this med needs a PA" I get violently angry.

Hint: if your PA gets denied call your insurance and ask for the credentials of the person who made that call. Usually they will approve it instead of admitting they hired some 18-year-old with no relevant training or experience to scan for buzz-words and just deny everything

[laexploradoraaa]

If you get denied, appeal. It's within your rights and if the appeal is overturned, you will be approved. It happens enough that it's worth the effort. Sometimes it's just a phone call.

[thoughtportal]

propublica made this helpful tool: Find out why your health insurer denied your claim.

Find Out Why Health Insurance Denied Your Claim

You likely have the right to access records that explain why your insurer denied your claim or prior authorization request. Use ProPublica’s

[podcastwizard]

this one gets to breach containment me thinks

[madeline-kahn]

Music in Film:

Jennifer’s Body (2009) dir. Karyn Kusama  - Soundtrack

[antlered-vixen]

I am so tired of short-attention-span, trim-the-fat culture. All writing advice these days is for how to write like Chuck Palahniuk. "Cut 'think', cut 'feel', cut 'wonder' - only action, only pushing forward, show and move and move and move." What if I could emulate this style, and still don't want to? What if I want to write like Henry James, with three paragraphs of introspective musings between each dialogue line? The music advice is, "make it shortform, make it Tik-Tok compatible, make it punchy, hit the refrain as soon as possible." What if I want that 10-minute prog rock piece? What if I want that symphony? What if I want it slow and luxurious and lazy? Movies. Series. Poetry. Bodies. Everything is "trimmed trimmed trimmed trimmed, stripped bare, you have three seconds to win me over, make it airport chic." I don't want to win you over, then, I guess. I want the fat left it. I want the pleasure and the indolence and the indulgence. Fuck this art-advice that's always "your art needs Ozempic."

[sandmandaddy69]

[harzilla]

Reblog to cast healing for your homies.

[thirdwheelingrightalong]

Need me a relationship like this

[thenightmaregrrl]

The explosion goes off and Megatron just pauses for a sec and goes "Anyways."

TFP is flawed but it has its quirks.

[rileythedummy]

Why The New Asexuality Flag Was Created

The new asexuality flag was created by Ace and Grace aka Ashabi to reflect her own experiences as a black femme woman with asexuality.

Unfortunately within the queer community, these last year there’s been a lot of anti-blackness within the community and not listening to People of Color voices. Y’all need to understand that race and ethnicity can play a HUGE role with someone experiences in the queer community and their experiences with racism in the queer community and outside of community.

AceinGrace wanted to create this new flag to show the difference types of love in the asexual community and people of color experiences of being asexual. As of lately a lot of people of color have been feeling unsafe in the queer community, especially because white queer activists have been ignoring/not talking about what people of color go through and often have to fight harder to be seen as queer, then their white counterparts.

Then there’s people with the community that have been using their autism/ADHD as a shield or other queer folk for not liking and harassing the creator of the new asexual flag because, they don’t like change, just to be aphobic, or racist to AceinGrace. The creator of new ace flag is AuDHD herself and also doesn’t like change, she said hundred percent fine using the old version of the asexual flag too. But because you personally don’t like change, doesn’t mean you are entitled to harass her or others person who using the flag.

Please, listen and learn from other people points of view.

🖤🩶🤍💛💖💜

Links: https://asexuality201.substack.com/p/the-new-ace-flag-reactions-and-anti

Updates towards Progress

[clungedestroyer]

[r4cs0]

SMACK

[lordascapelion]

Cats can have a little salami

AS A PUNISHMENT

[vitamaeternum]

@my-mom-does-not-have-it-going-on

[blignick]

[chainsandcherries]

[sometiktoksarevalid]

[creatingblackcharacters]

[fanfictionjumbler]

Better solutions than age verification BS

Teaching children/teens basic internet safety rules such as not giving out personal information (name, age, etc.) and internet stranger danger

Informing parents/guardians about the existence of the YouTube Kids app before they hand the unfiltered iPad to a kid to watch

Informing about YouTube Teen Accounts

More online teen spaces such as MMOs, pet sites, and RP forums with site rules to keep things appropriate

Emphasis of report and block buttons if something said in said spaces makes someone uncomfortable and/or breaks site rules

Game support forums not being locked to Discord servers and easily accessible to the entire userbase

Parental blocks that restrict downloading dedicated "adult community" apps

In mixed age online spaces, adults being less hesitant about using built in content filters such as tags and mature content labels

Parents/guardians understanding age ratings on items such as movies and video games, especially R and M

Parents, guardians, and trusted adults (ex. teachers, librarians) being available to listen and discuss when a topic is confusing (and not immediately get mad and complain about the material)

Better access to youth library materials (ex. young adult)

More/better offline teen spaces and access to hobbies without too much unnecessary expense

[smoqueen-deactivated20251108]

[oneheadtoanother]

mark your calendars now

[nerdreamer]

[thenightmaregrrl]

Little kids at the playground be like

[cryptonature]

It’s really that simple.

Withhold time/resources from organizations building an anti-human future