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Stranger Things
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Misplaced Lens Cap
we're not kids anymore.
noise dept.
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
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@theomnipotentfox
We're weaning baby so she's trying to nurse and I say no. Five minutes pass and she turns to me, says Saoirse mad Mommy, completely calm. I didn't hear her so I said, "sorry?"
And she gets right up in my face and goes "Saoirse mad Mommy.. Saoirse mad..." Still cool, no emotions lol.
I finally found the spare air filter and finally changed the air cabin filter... I don't know how long it's been but other than being gross, I found a Baskin Robbins taster spoon, bits of paper (IDK why but there has been constant paper coming out of the vents since Spring?), and a shredded ketchup packet?! I can't even conceive how this shit got in there.
I'm so glad it's changed though.
Stupid dampener on the glove compartment was being a bitch.
Several wildfires are forcing members of a number of First Nations to flee their homes in northern Ontario.
“I had time to run home and pack a bag and get to the beach where the boats were waiting,” said a member of Namaygoosisagagun First Nation (Collins). “We literally had minutes to get on the boats and flee before it took our town. “Once we left my house finally after packing what I could in a pack sack, the fire was right behind our place. We had to run to the beach and once we got there, it was only moments before the fire had jumped over the (train) track and was coming for us.”
it has since been confirmed that namaygoosisagagun first nation has completely burnt to the ground. if you would like to help the community navigate an ongoing crisis, i urge you to donate to the anishinabek nation 7th generation, a registered charity seeking to improve the lives of first nations people. donations are going directly to members of namaygoosisagagun first nation.
if you're canadian, you can e-transfer [email protected]. if you're outside canada, they accept paypal as well. see more information HERE
Hello, tumblr! I saw something on here the other day that worried me, so I decided to Do Science about it. But I can't do it alone: I need your help to build the dataset!
Here's what I need you to do:
If you see a post with a "mature content" label, and it's 2026, DM me a link to the post.
Yes, that's really it.
I am hoping to collect several thousand such posts, so that I have a decent sized dataset. I do not care what the post is about; if it's labeled as "mature content", I want to add it to my dataset.
If I get 10,000 posts in my dataset before August 31st 2026, I will post my preliminary findings then. I won't feel comfortable calling my findings "settled" before 2027, unless I get over 50,000 posts.
Crikeadiddly just shoot me
The air is 🔥 SPICY.🔥
DIO ‘Iconique Shoe Objet Pumps’ by MAYLA. Reservations start July 17 at mayla.jp.
yesterday? blorbo stuff. today? blorbo stuff. tomorrow? you'll never guess
unleashing the skeleton army on an unsuspecting populace?
yes god finally one of you gets it
Little bit too early in the year to incite the skeleton war, no?
That's the point. That's why the populace is unsuspecting
Idk, have you been to Michael's recently? They have all their Hallowe'en stuff out practically... I think the populace is preparing.
I’m paying to force seven thousand strangers to see a photo of my late husband having fun with his dog. Tumblr Blaze is totally worth it. XD
Thank-you to all of my new Internet stranger friends for being so gracious about having my post shoved onto your dashboards. I loved reading all of your kind tags and comments! Both Martin and Bosco have been gone for several years now but for 24 hours, they felt very present in my life. I greatly appreciate this gift. ❤️
Reblog to have your dashboard be visited by the spirit of joy that death can end but not erase.
Thank you to everyone who commented in their tags or messaged me. Indeed, today is “Martin and Bosco Day”. I originally whimsically blazed this photo on 13 July 2022. I never expected Martin and Bosco to travel so far and make so many new friends. The experience has been such a gift for me.
This is so sad. RIP Takahiro Fujiwara
I think I have another kidney stone?? And Baby just puked everywhere after dinner so I'm going to have to schedule us both doctor appointments (I want to rule out she has a dairy allergy).
I asked someone on Etsy if their shipping was correct - $11USD (to a US address) for a shaker keychain and they just kind of ignored me? (They answered me previously about other stuff).
And I can't help but feel they are offended like I was questioning their prices - I'm not. I've never asked for a discount on art or questioned someone's prices but Etsy has sometimes auto calculated incorrectly when it seemed too high and asking does bring it to the seller's attention. (I would gladly buy off site if that's the issue!)
If you want to charge more, by means, do so, but I just want to confirm the shipping fee is accurate.
Spin the wheel. Tomorrow, you wake up in this country with, however implausible, a passport for both it and your home country. How do you feel?
This is awful; I’m booking a trip home immediately.
I really don’t like this; I’ll stick it out briefly, but I’m heading home soon.
This isn’t great; I’d rather be back home, but I’ll manage until I can get back.
Being here isn’t better or worse than being in my home country.
This is pretty nice; I’ll stay a little while, but go home eventually.
I love it here; I’ll be staying a long while before I go home.
This is amazing; it’ll be a long time before I go home, and I may stay here.
Picker Wheel is a wheel spinner for a random picker. Various functions & customization. Enter choices or names, spin the wheel to decide a r
You have became this medieval role, how do you feel about it
you are in the medieval era and you have this role!
How do you feel?
great!! I love this
good!
It's okay
So bad. I hate this
This is similar to my real job!
Results/other
I don't usually do blind boxes/bags but bro Duck gave me some Hot Topic Cash for my birthday so I thought what the hell! Why not!
So of course I got THIS FUCKER
SONUVA BITCH
Wait wait my friend was willing to trade for Bubble! So!!
I GOT BEST DAD YAY
Oh yes how could I forget
Also grabbed pins of these lovelies :)
Most of the shop was on for Buy One Get One 30% off so I was buying everything in pairs lol
although if we ARE talking about passive aggression my technique is generally (and I have had a LOT OF PRACTICE developing it lmao) is to interpret what I think they're implying and then say "are you asking me to (x)?" in a very polite tone with a friendly (sincere! not mocking!) smile. I find that this often 1. ceases the tiresome cycle of ignoring passive aggressive behavior -> behavior escalates -> ignore it -> it escalates, and on and on that you get if you simply ignore it, 2. lets the person know that in the future they can just fucking ask you directly for god's sake, and very importantly 3. although I strive not to sound condescending when I do this, it is inescapably and obviously something that I learned to say when talking to toddlers. the people I use this with the most (mostly older female relatives but not infrequently on men as well) will often catch a hint of that and sort of realize that their method of approaching me was childish, not in a derogatory sense, but in the sense that they don't need to try to get me to do stuff in the way they got used to working in the past. they can do it differently.
obviously how effective this is varies wildly based on the relationship, or lack thereof, that you have with the other person. but I find it effective with people who are In Your Life but don't meaningfully have any control over you. quite often it DOES result in increased directness in the future, especially if it's something I end up doing fairly often. and it's not rude; I'm just politely seeking clarification about what is being communicated. it makes the person have to think about what effect they were expecting their behavior to have on my behavior, and then just... tell me straightforwardly. but without escalating the situation or making the person feel 'called out' most of the time.
its very simple but I so much more often see people say "always ignore passive aggressive communication" and while I think that's absolutely a good approach much of the time, especially especially from strangers. it is not especially EFFECTIVE at helping them change how they're approaching communicating with you in the future. in my experience. so. I prefer to use my method when I determine that it might be effective.
I use this technique on my grandmother a lot.
She frequently makes requests by telling me what I want, eg "oh wouldn't you like to.." "don't you think it's be nice if..."
It used to drive me up the wall, but now as an adult with better understanding of what's happening I say "Actually I'm fine with x, but I'd be happy to do y if that's what you want?"
One day she actually asked me, "Why is it so important to you that I say that y is what I want?"
and i got to say "Well I don't like being told what I want. I have enough life experience to know my own desires and limitations, and I can advocate for them when I need to. However your opinions do matter to me and I want to take them into account. It's much less stressful for me to do so when I'm not guessing what's in your mind."
And folks, she Actually Listened.
Later that day she wanted something that ended up not being possible, but because she said so directly I was able to help her find a different way to achieve the same goal!
She still slips up, of course, but it was so good to see her Understand.
I love thissssss. yes I have had similar experiences modeling this behavior for older female relatives. I think a lot of them got real used to having to be indirect to get their needs met and it becomes maladaptive but they get stuck.
Mom wanted to go to McDs so I got a drink. It was faster, I also ordered first so that's how things go. We did curbside pick up and mine arrived before hers. She waits for 5 minutes.
Mom gets upset and freaking *calls* the McDonald's to ask where her order is (it's been maybe 7 minutes since mine came out). Says it's been 15 minutes and thought they forgot about her.
I am so freaking embarrassed. They were waiting on her cookies to be freshly baked!
Now her stupid cookies came out and she's upset cuz she thought there were supposed to be 4. Ma'am I said you can get a pack of 2 for $3. They're normally 1.69 each.
I'm having cashier!PTSD flash backs about that idiot who thought he could get 4 bags of carrots when the sign said bogo 1.99.
Oh I thought they were two packs of two! I said two cookies, why would they be bundled in 2? Because price wise that sounds good?! It's 2026 and McDonald's.
Is there nothing that can go right for her? Ahhhh. Also, she's going to order ice cream and I know she's going to complain it's not big enough (for $1).
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hm there's a knotting joke here I could make...
text: My name is thread and I like getting knotted and pissing people off!
