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27 •queer + autistic• main is mx-mcrae •blog for me to be horny on• beware ye who enter, shit be untagged •trying to move out• https://linktree.cx/ThistleHurt

[thistle-hurt]

Bigs my eyes at you

[thepittmemes]

[avocado-berries]

preach king

[preacherboyd]

It was my goal to get him to look at me. So, finally there's a moment there where it happens... where they actually make contact. Not easy with Robby. He doesn't like to look at you. - Shawn Hatosy

[littleastrocub]

Being into fauxcest is basically just oooo what if your family loved youuu wowww what if they didn’t think you were super annoyinggg and liked being around youu

[badymaru]

reminder that if you’re a TERF you’re not welcome here

[mx-mcrae]

Televerse day 3 fit! I bailed early because I could feel my brain and body hitting a wall.

[noah-wyles]

noah's stylist either loves him or hates him or noah throws hissy fits so he can wear what he wants. jeans on the red carpet yesterday, massive baggy ass pants in a untailored suit today. noah, sack them. please. for your devoted exhausted fans.

[mx-mcrae]

Shawn was impressed and enamored by my phone brightening and whiting out the screen for selfie lighting

[diwhitney]

Soooo Dr. suicide mommy issues checks 2 of the biggest boxes I have. He’s fine I guess. whatever 🙄

[sexy-necromancing-bird]

Is the guy in the cuck chair supposed to stay quiet or is he allowed to clap and cheer

[foxgirlmindcrank]

he's supposed to take notes and make an intrigued hum when an interesting plot point occurs

[conspiracydeerist]

[blu3str1k3]

[thisarenotarealblog]

one is getting cucked by the bottom and the other is getting cucjed by the top. Subject matter experts discussing the sex like a sports panel

[morganoperandi]

One cuck always lies, the other always tells the truth. You have one question to determine who’s a top and who’s a bottom.

[whumpster-fire]

[bassenji]

what they don't tell you about sex is that it doesn't have to involve sex

[mx-mcrae]

I made him hold the phone because my hand was shaking and also my arms are. Too short. He needed help figuring out the camera silly old man

[mx-mcrae]

Televerse day 2 fit + details!

Bonus: the shirt i almost wore just for the pitt

[mx-mcrae]

SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP

[mackdaddyofthecravate]

Please return us to a world where Notp and squick are used for a ship you don’t like instead of just making up a load of bullshit about how immoral it is or w/e lol 

[sazandorable]

a short selection of concepts and phrases that used to be commonplace in fandom and we’d really benefit from making that a thing again:

NOTP: the opposite of an OTP (One True Pairing). It is a ship a fan strongly dislikes. The word is a portmanteau of ‘no’ and ‘OTP’ and thus is not a contraction of any particular phrase.

Squick: anything that is a deep-seated, visceral turn-off. Squicks may be shared by many fans or be specific to one; one person’s kink may be another person’s squick.

YKINMKATO, or kink-tomato: Your Kink Is Not My Kink, And That’s Okay: used to indicate support for fannish diversity and to distinguish between disapproval or kink shaming and simply having different taste.

DLDR: Don’t Like, Don’t Read: a phrase used to warn against complaints about an aspect of fic or meta. A “live and let live” philosophy of fandom, which places the responsability for avoiding content one doesn’t want to see on the side of the fanwork consumer, rather that on the creator’s.

SALS: Ship And Let Ship: similar to the above specifically about shipping tastes.

YMMV: Your Mileage May Vary: a phrase used to acknowledge that any given individual’s personal opinion on the topic at hand may differ due to their own tastes, standards, values, experiences, etc.

As the OP points out, all of these crucially imply no moral judgment of what they’re designing.

(definitions lifted more or less wholesale from fanlore’s relevant pages)

[shatterpath]

bring the healthy fun back to fandom!

[thorst]

Co-signing all of this. Bring back the ancient texts

Also I saw someone saying they’d never use squick because it’s such a silly, made-up sounding word and I thought that this has been part of the problem. Fandom itself isn’t silly; it can be deeply meaningful (it has been to me!) however things can be deeply meaningful and silly. We (society) have got to stop acting like being childish is the worst thing you can do. Embrace silly whimsy.

Saying “this squicks me” is useful maybe because it’s a bit silly. It imparts no judgement. It’s like “this is about me” And importantly it doesn’t water down other terms which have important clinical implications that I don’t think I need to name

[pendragyn]

Squick = Squeamish + Ick.

Let’s bring back “Fandom Wank” as a term/tag too, because honestly calling it “discourse” is too dignified a word for the vitriolic circle-jerk melodrama and trolling that’s been going on. The flame wars never ended, it’s just sometimes wrapped up in therapy speak to pretend it’s more civilized.

And let’s be real about trollish behavior in fandom. Telling someone they are mentally ill, or that they deserve to die, solely because they have a different opinion on a piece of fiction than you, is fuckin nasty ass troll shit behavior. Sockpuppet accounts, sending anon hate, spreading unfounded rumors and straight up lies about someone, all nasty ass piece of shit troll behavior.

You don’t get to claim the moral high ground and then put the bar so low it’s a trip hazard in hell.

[cuntwarehouse]

(driving home from work) i must not kill myself. killing myself is the myself killer. i will— (sees a guy jogging shirtless and he’s all sweaty) Woaw i wish I lived in his armpit (crashes car into telephone pole)

[hotdogtown]

awwwww so cutie.