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@blackjinhwan replied to your post “note: spoilers”
i completely disagree with your “people coming back made no sense” take. idk if youve been dirt poor before but these people are desperate. some spent their lives in fear of loan sharks heckling them for money or getting beat up by gang members. when youre going through that everyday and your life is miserable, your life isnt much better than a deadly game. and idk how you think ali could afford to leave the country if he couldnt even get a bus ride home?
Thanks for your thoughts!
I agree the people depicted in the show are desperate; my argument is that the game is not the best way to handle that desperate situation, and I think the show actually makes this point.
When I said Ali could leave the country, I didn’t mean he could’ve done so easily, or simply, or that it wouldn’t have been a struggle. But I think leaving directly, or getting himself to the nearest authority, were both better options than being dead in the game.
I conceded above that I don’t have a thorough understanding of the criminal world. But in the show they depicted the character who embodied having gang issues (or loan shark issues, or issues with the law in general) as being savvy enough to get cash from his underworld friends and escape a beating when it was EIGHT VERSUS ONE and then they say this person chooses not to turn himself in to the police or go to another city/town/country but chooses to play the game. This choice. Is what I found odd. Particularly… not that he would choose the game the first time (he knew nothing about it then) but that he would go back the second time.
Because. The game is deceitful. It is not a fair game. It is designed to kill as many as possible randomly, unfairly, and the players KNOW this. So I didn’t understand why they’d come back.
In the first episode, when they all play red light green light, there is some time that passes between when the first person is killed and when the group gets over the shock and starts to really play the game again. During this time, a lot of players turned and ran for the door. Every. One. of the people whose bodies piled up at the exit door made a calculation in their head: Is my life out there better? (Even though I’m desperate? And poor? And in debt?) Or is my life in here better, playing this game?
And the fact that they were at the door when they died means they chose outside. The show is saying that when presented with the actual choice of life in misery vs. death, people choose life in misery. (And imo, it’s not even that they choose misery. It’s that they realized that there are better ways to get out of misery and get some cash than playing this rigged game).
Then there’s the conversation they have after the first game. 255 people dead. The guards come in, and the remaining players literally PLEAD FOR THEIR LIVES.
These are actual quotes from the second episode, after everyone finishes red light green light:
“We may be in debt. But that doesn’t mean we deserve to die.”
“Sir, please spare my life. I will find a way to pay off the debts.” (emphasis mine, in support of my earlier point: there are better ways to earn cash than this game).
“A chance? You kill us while playing a child’s game. You call that a chance?” (emphasis mine, more on this later)
“You killed all those people. Yet you call this a game?”
“I don’t need that stupid prize money. Please just let me out.” (emphasis mine, in support of the point: life in misery is better than life in the game.)
“Please spare my life.”
“Please let me go home.”
“I want to stop here.”
These people thought about it, and they came to the conclusion that they wanted out. And the show expects us to accept that they just… forgot???? All of the horrors of the first game? All the words they said after? How they pleaded for their lives? And instead they chose to come back?
Now…. I agree, they did take a vote. And some people did decide to go on with the game. But I argue that those people either fall into the two categories I mentioned earlier (really really sick or so emotional they’re not thinking straight) or they were not… appropriately assessing just. how. rigged and pointless the game is.
Firstly. Players are recruited through false advertising. The guy in the subway (essentially) says “I’ll slap you if you lose, I’ll give you money if you win.” A lot of people would play that game, it only (relatively speaking) has an upside! In the real game, you DIE if you lose, and get the CHANCE to DIE AGAIN in another game if you win. But subway guy doesn’t tell them this. It doesn’t make sense to me that a player then agrees to come back knowing the game runners are deceitful. (How do you even know they’ll give you the cash at the end if they lied about the rules?! It’s a lie by omission. But a lie nonetheless.)
Second. The game is not. Fair. The players, after red light green light, see the disparity between how the game gives you its rules (you’ll be eliminated) and how the game plays out in reality (you will be killed). So it makes no sense for me that they come back KNOWING the game is RIGGED against them. For example: the sugar game is not a fair game- disproportionately, if you choose the umbrella, you die. The tug of war game is not fair if you are physically smaller; even with the old man’s strategy, Gi-Hun and the team almost lost. The lights out game ISN’T EVEN A GAME, it’s just Murder Time In the Dark! The marble game is closer to fair but the old man blows that one by not dying when it’s his turn, and finally, the ‘walk across glass’ game is BANANAS unfair- obviously those in the back win more often, and the moment one of the players looks like he’s getting the hang of it, the Leader goes out of his way to get rid of the player’s advantage by turning down the lights (so he can’t tell the tempered glass apart).
This is the crux of it: it’s NOT A GAME! the players are in a death squad type execution field where instead of guns they have silly rules and fake teams that are designed to make players feel like they have a shot when THEY DON’T. It is not IF you die, it’s WHEN AND IN WHAT ORDER. Which brings me back to the earlier quote:
“A chance? You kill us while playing a child’s game. You call that a chance?”
It’s not a chance. Not a real one. It’s just death. And my argument is that people realize this after the first game (that quote comes from episode TWO) and yet they come back? I repeat the math from the other post: 1 in 2 is chance. 1 in 456 is zero. I don’t have any idea why they took those odds.
The first time, it’s fine because they didn’t know. The second time, it’s as if someone came up to them and said “okay. let’s play a game. I’m going to give you 20 million bucks if you can win this arm wrestling contest with Arnold Schwarzenegger when he was 20 years old, right after he won Mr. Universe and was basically the strongest man on earth. Except you also have to do it while only standing on your left foot. Oh, and if you lose, you die.” And they took the bet.
Lastly, I think the show makes my point.
Gi-Hun, the winner, comes home to a dead mom (who he could’ve saved if he just accepted the cash the ex-wife’s-husband gave him). And he is so beside himself with grief and shame of what he did in the game and what it cost and who he lost that he can’t even spend the money.
The MONEY, the reason he played the game in the first place! is now useless. Because he can’t spend it.
So what was the point of coming back? What was the point in playing the game?
We know Gi-Hun has learned his lesson because he rips the card out of the hand of the new player being recruited in the subway. He doesn’t ask the new player, “Are you ill? Is a gang after you? Is your mom in North Korea? Are you in the country with all documentation handled? How big is the debt?” Nothing. He just takes the card. and goes, “No! Never!” when he’s asked to give it back because now he understands.
The old man created a situation where no one wins (except the VIPs), not even the winner.
TLDR; squid game is not a game. it is an execution system designed to leave one (1) person alive* and I didn’t understand why anyone would come back to the game and take a bet on being that one, especially after they know the game runners are dishonest, the game is rigged against them, and there are other ways to tackle poverty outside the game.
*when the police officer looks through the list of winners, I didn’t see any year where more than one person won, but i could’ve missed something, and the rules don’t seem to expressly forbid it.
@themoonofblueside replied to your post “note: more spoilers”
That. That is literally the point. The game is rigged, everyone knows they’re being played and used as a toy, everyone knows it’s not actually “fair”. But people are desperate enough to come back: that’s the whole point. These people haven’t been in poverty for a month, you think they didn’t try everything in their power to pay their debts? You think Ali didn’t try to leave the country after his surgery? People came back because they saw no way out and they were sick of being poor and living every second of their lives thinking about surviving for one more day to pay their debts. As Miyeon said-the inside and outside are no different, they’re both hell. People coming back and actively putting their lives on the line is The Point: the World has put them in such a position that they’ll do anything to pay their debts off.
Thanks for your thoughts!
I… think we’re seeing two sides of the same coin here, two different conclusions from the same… coin. I think it is not believable to say that people in desperate situations choose almost certain death (knowing the game is 1/456) over possible death (life outside the game), regardless of the cash prize (in part because if they win, they are possibly too traumatized to spend it, and if they lose, they’re dead anyway, what does money matter?). I think your conclusion is that people in desperate situations would choose almost certain death (knowing the game is 1/456) over possible death (life outside the game) given enough financial incentive to try to overcome the odds.
I think we’ll have to agree to disagree :) If you haven’t already, see also this post where I elaborate, in the second main point, on why each of the (main characters at least) would have been better off not playing the game, despite their desperation.
To address your points above:
“You think they didn’t try everything in their power to repay their debts?” I point again to the quotes from episode two: “Sir, please spare my life. I will find a way to pay off the debts.” and “I don’t need that stupid prize money. Please just let me out.” The game is not the most logical way to pay off debts.
“You think Ali didn’t try to leave the country after his surgery?” Generally speaking, I would say that for Ali and his family, for a long time, staying in South Korea was the option they found more appealing than leaving South Korea. I say this because staying was what he/his family did despite all the perils of non-documented status (like being underpaid, being assaulted and not being able to go to the hospital for fear of being arrested, etc). But my point is. That when Ali’s choices were between staying (perilous), leaving (difficult), or playing this game (deadly), I don’t get why he chose the game.
“As Miyeon said-the inside and outside are no different, they’re both hell.” I understand that the dialogue suggests that life inside and outside the game are no different. They even dedicated an entire episode to trying to argue that life outside the game is truly awful and enough to make people play the game. My argument, for all the reasons stated, is that the two ARE DIFFERENT. The key difference is death. And that this difference makes no amount of money, despite truly awful life circumstances, worth the risk.
“People came back because they saw no way out and they were sick of being poor and living every second of their lives thinking about surviving for one more day to pay their debts.” There is a hypothetical scenario where the game doesn’t exist. Maybe the old man learned to be a normal rich person so the games were never invented, or the subway recruiter guy took a day off so no players were invited, idk. In this scenario, where nobody recruits them for the squid game, would Gi-Hun’s mom be dead? Would Sae-Byeok be dead? (Yes, her mom would be still be in North Korea, but isn’t she there anyway and Sae-Byeok dead by the end of squid game?) Would Ali be dead? (Yes he’d probably be in police custody. But dead?) Would Sang-woo be dead? (Yes he’d be in prison. But dead?) Would the gang guy be dead? (Yes, he’d be on the run. But dead?) Would the girl who gave up her life for Sae-Byeok be dead? (She’d conceivably be in bad shape. But dead?)
Tldr; If you agree that the players would not be dead inside of a week, or however long it takes to play all six games, then I think you can see where I’m coming from about why playing the game, why coming back, is meaningless. Playing the game is signing up for no money AND no life inside of a week. Not playing the game is signing up for (little to) no money and a difficult life, but a life nonetheless, and a chance to change the difficulty over time.
People coming back and actively putting their lives on the line is The Point: the World has put them in such a position that they’ll do anything to pay their debts off. Agency is definitely a theme in the show. But for all the reasons above, let’s agree to disagree :)
Posting the reply to this thread to continue the train of thought
@themoonofblueside replied to your post “note: spoilers”
I think you're looking at Sangwoo's position a little too um.positive? Yes if he was a character attached to living your point would be true but it's already established that he's extremely suicidal. And he has a pride. It's not him being jailed, it's his mom practically losing her job and home. So since sangwoo is suicidal here's his thought process: I can die right now, in this bathtub. Or i'll get in the game again, either die while playing or win. There's also the whole point with people not actively believing they'll die(esp. in deoksu's case). Deoksu fully went in the game thinking he'll live. And about gihun: his ex-wife's didn't give him the money. He offered the money in exchange of gihun never seeing his daughter again. Gihun did not accept the money. While entering the games, he thought if he won, he could support his mom and daughter and if he lost, her mom would have enough money to get treatment(let's not forget the condolences money)
Thanks for your thoughts!
I agree that Sang-woo is. Well, he’s the Mysterious One TM in the show, whose motives are... interesting... And I agree, at the start of the show, he’s in a depressive state, very much coded to be at the end of his rope (the bathtub scene). However, I place Sang-woo in the category of people who seemed smart enough to not play the game because of his agency, which I alluded to a bit in the earlier post.
Essentially, to your earlier point regarding agency (does the circumstance of their world and poverty etc compel them to make this choice or do they still have free will), I said we’ll have to agree to disagree because I can’t... /prove/ or demonstrate necessarily that (a lack of) agency swings a person in a certain direction... but I still think Sang-woo had enough agency that he wouldn’t have played the Squid Game.
The first reason is the amount of money he stole. Please scroll to the bottom of this post for a more thorough breakdown, but the crux of it is he stole ~$550,000 US dollars. And according to google, people who stole much more, $180 BILLION USD, got 25 years in jail. Sang-woo is 46 in the show. He’d’ve gotten out at 71 if he got all 25 years (which is /way/ too much for what he stole). A closer comparison might be this guy Nick Leeson, a rogue trader who used futures and options (same as Sang-woo) to rack up a $1.4 BILLION USD loss and bankrupted an entire bank. He got 6 and a half years, served 4 years 4 months and then was out for good behavior. My question to Sang-woo is: why does a deadly game make more sense than four and a half, maybe 6 years in prison?
You mention his mother, which definitely is seen to be a motivation for him. But. I don’t agree that the desire to do right by his mom is enough to drive him to play this game. Firstly, it seems like he shouldn’t have been able to put up other people’s stuff as collateral without their consent in the first place. But if he had her consent, if his mom volunteered her stuff, it could be repossessed and sold to cover the debts, definitely, but only up to a certain point, usually bankruptcy (and even then, some of her property would be protected). Somebody who knows the law about it should prolly weigh in, but I’d think if the bank is really interested in recouping losses, wouldn’t they put a lien on the mom’s assets? This would let her keep (use of) her property, keep the stand open but make her turn over a percentage of profits until the debt is paid off (Like a mortgage). She wouldn’t lose everything.
But let’s pretend the mom did lose everything. No bankruptcy, no lien. Everything is just gone and she’s homeless. She still strikes me as the kind of person who would want her son alive anyway. Yes, the current situation is bad. But six years down the line, when her son is out of jail, she can open another stand. If he chooses to play the game, she can’t get another Sang-woo. I think if he wanted to do right by his mom, he would take the consequences of his actions and go to jail, not die in the game.
Also. um. In the middle of him being in the bathtub. The doorbell rings. And Sang-woo got up. This is agency to me. (That is, he could’ve decided to stay in the tub and die, but he didn’t. He chose to get up.) Is he seeking to /die/? Or is he seeking a way out of debt? It’s hard. But something about his actions, and the way he is calculating about letting Gi-Hun choose the umbrella option and the way he manipulates Ali... just put him in a different category, and I don’t think he had a reason to play the game. But I agree he was in a bad space.
It’s... possible... Deok-su may not have expected to die, but. It doesn’t make it a reasonable expectation. People died left and right in the game, and strong people at that. I think I would say he didn’t have a good reason to come back, and he wasn’t thinking through the repercussions... By episode 6, Gganbu, we see Deok-su shaking, trembling as he loses during the marble game. So he knows the fear of death. And he makes the same face of fear when Han Mi-Nyeo grabs him, even pleading, “Don’t do this. I’ll go first, okay? Please let go of me. Let go.” It’s the same plea of everyone who tried to leave red light green light - when it’s their turn, they all realize that there’s no point in playing the game.
I agree that the Ex Wife’s Husband gave Gi-Hun the money with strings attached. But firstly, imagine being Gi-Hun’s mom; would she be happy to get a surgery? And then go and beg for the permission to see the girl again? Or would she prefer to die for her son’s pride? Would the ex-wife allow her new husband to keep the weird arrangement even if he made it? Would she want her daughter to grow up without ever seeing her dad again? If Gi-Hun agreed to leave the daughter alone, took the money, saved his mom, and then went to the police to demand to see his daughter, what would the ex wife’s husband do about it? There was no contract, no signed agreement: that was free money. Gi-Hun should’ve taken the win and taken the cash, saved his mom’s life, and figured out the details on visitation with the daughter later. It’s like. Really wrong that he didn’t imo. That’s a /life/ he played with. We also know that at the end of the film he’s on his way to see his daughter. So. Whatever the ex-wife’s husband wanted by keeping Gi-Hun away, he didn’t get it.
As for saving his mom by dying in the game, i’m pretty sure they only send condolences money if everyone agrees to quit the game and no one takes the prize money. if a player wins, no condolences money is sent, the winner (Gi-Hun) gets everything.
TLDR; I understand that Sang-woo was in a bad way... but i still don’t think he, Deok-su, or Gi-Hun had a good reason to come back to the game.
















