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Art, writing, etcetera. 💜🤍💚 & 🩷💛💙 (she/her) Helluva Boss, DND, etc

[irrevocablecondition]

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[the-shrimp-that-fried-rice]

Make sure you outlive him.

[blitzwhore]

Reblog if Stolitz

[wandering-starsailor]

My friend just told me she’s genderqueer??? Like okay did I suspect she wasn’t cis? Yes. But did I suspect she knew that??? Not a chance in hell this is such a surprise to me.

And ofc she was like “check my tumblr” and what do you know the genderqueer flag in the form of coloured hearts was in her bio. The sign was there I just never bothered to look.

Congrats on coming out to me bestie I’ve been waiting for that one. Love you.

[tiredandanxi0us]

so what we're learning is that Stolas is the OG stolitz fanfic writer

[khazaddoom]

His dark materials is so funny. It starts out like “oh no, my best friend is missing! Let’s go on an adventure to find him!” and two books later they’re going “let’s start a multi universal war and kill god”. And they’re twelve.

[iwillsmitethou]

Air jail for the morally challenged imp. Random thing I thought of after the newest Helluva Boss short lol

[tiredandanxi0us]

First canon stolitz interaction in 1.5 years and it's "you don't know the alphabet????" anyways I love them

also why is no one talking about the fact that Moxxie canonically has a masters in theatre. Or did I hallucinate that.

[vivziepoparchives]

Illustration from Blitz's phone in Ozzie's posted to Jeff Delgado's instagram May 24, 2024.

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[blitzwhore]

What if I drank boiling soup directly from the pot. What then.

It'd still hurt less than this that's what

[brawltogethernow]

Endlessly funny Millie character trait is she genuinely likes Blitz not in spite of but because of his personality.

This sounds normal until you examine the specific scenarios in which you can see her experiencing that affection:

(↑ UNEXPECTED HANDFUL OF RANCID BUTTER?)

The most normal thing is she's a huge silent proponent of the cosplaying and other fucking around on the job.

But it's also pretty clear she sees zero need to set more boundaries about her boss's attempted involvement with her sex life and finds the pre-development dynamic harmlessly funny.

ZERO relief in her face when he said he was done with that, just pure concern. It was all just rolling right off of her.

Like not even Stolas at his most down bad is actively into most of this, being more about being uniquely able to notice Blitz has positive character traits IN ADDITION TO his freak shit. Millie full stop enjoys even Blitz's most extreme nonsense as long as it doesn't have major material consequences. He brightens up her life the way you or I might respond to seeing an unexpected clump of daisies. She's insane. In conclusion:

[timkontheunsure]

yep, it's this sort of stuff why I buy Blitz is her best friend.

"The prince is our boss' booooooyfirend!"

Millie even soo willing to take the piss on things she knows Blitz will be embarrassed about.

Blitz doesn't have a lot of boundaries with her marriage; and she's ok with that; so of course she's going tease him back about his relationship with Stolas.

[zylahbee]

sexism in medicine kills people. racism in medicine kills people. fatphobia in medicine kills people. queerphobia in medicine kills people. classism in medicine kills people. ableism in medicine kills people.

do not downplay people’s fears about being mistreated because they are a part of a marginalised group. it is a matter of life and death and you should be angry about it.

[tiredandanxi0us]

I wish more doctors looked at weight as a symptom and not just an effect of "lifestyle choices"

[live-to-100]

While I do think for most people their weight is largely determined by their lifestyle (sorry OP) this is why it’s important that people aren’t encouraged to avoid getting their weight checked when they see a doctor. Obviously having a health professional hide your weight from you isn’t an issue but any unexplainable weight gain or loss is cause for concern.

This is derailing the post a little but this is a good reason to keep general note of how many calories you consume on average. You don’t have to count every single little thing but knowing how many calories are in the meals you make most often could help you keep track if changes to your weight are unexplainable or not.

[tiredandanxi0us]

The point of my post was more about how doctors look at someone with chronic health issues and immediately assume their weight is the cause rather than a symptom of a larger systemic issue in their body and require the patient arguing with them in order to even consider anything outside of weight. Whether or not lifestyle choices are the reason for someone's weight is something doctors should determine, not something they should assume. It should not be a battle to convince a doctor that chronic pain or fatigue is the cause of weight changes rather than the opposite.

Chronic health issues included that I would not consider lifestyle choices: eating disorders, anything causing chronic fatigue or chronic pain, mental health issues of all flavors, everything else that can go wrong with the brain or the body. Also, while not technically a health issue, poverty of any kind.

[royalromper]

feel like I'm going insane every time I see people frame Stolas saving Blitz in Mastermind as him abandoning Octavia and is therefore the worst dad ever.

it's understandable for a codependent teenage girl to see it that way but surely grown ass adult viewers can discern that Blitz was the only one in a life or death scenario. Via is upset but she is physically fine, someone's life is more important than someone else's feelings. Stolas made the right choice, I don't consider this remotely debatable.

idk, it's just an insane standard I can't remember seeing applied to any other character in any fandom I've ever been in. imagine people calling Blitz a terrible father to Loona because he put himself in danger to save Fizz.

[tiredandanxi0us]

Stolas has many flaws as a father but saving Blitz was never one of them. And Via learning to accept that is going to be a big part of her character arc in the coming season(s), I imagine

[tiredandanxi0us]

What if I told you that liking the finale and understanding how it represents sacrifice and disliking the finale and seeing it as destruction of character are both valid and reasonable interpretations of a piece of media

[tiredandanxi0us]

I wish more doctors looked at weight as a symptom and not just an effect of "lifestyle choices"

[veggiemedleys]

see my problem is if i “listen to my body” it literally only wants to lie down and take naps, all the time

[tlirsgender]

"Maybe it's just stress/anxiety" is so crazy as a Dismissive Statement because even when it *is* anxiety it's such an understatement to be like "how about you just chill out idk" when your body is poisoning itself with its own stress hormones. Like okay sometimes it is anxiety. This is still physically happening to me

[tlirsgender]

"It's probably just stress" and it's like well documented that it can just kill people sometimes

[tiredandanxi0us]

the constant anxiety I've had since I was a child has quite literally destroyed my nervous system and turned my immune system against my nerves. Stress and anxiety were actively killing me in high school and college and now I have chronic pain and fatigue and a host of other nervous system problems. "It's just anxiety" and it was killing me. It was in fact, not all in my head.

[valtsv]

fanart so upsettingly good it makes you get up and pace around your room in shellshocked silence

[valtsv]

shout out to The Character for enabling the creative expression of some of the greatest artistic minds of our generation that i can easily access and be moved by without even having to leave the house or sit up in bed

[valtsv]

never kill yourself there's literally always more art to look at. you can even make it yourself.