Don't trust no man

female rage blog

[toomuchlabor]

[iwanttolisten]

>be born female

>everyone makes fun of you, your art, and your tastes, is constantly trying to sort you into a million categories of "woman" to mock

>decide you will be a man instead

>everyone makes fun of you, your art, and your tastes, is constantly trying to sort you into a million categories of "trans man" to mock

>half your fellow trans men decide this means men are oppressed and trying to speak out about this makes their language turn mock-MRA, the other half speak out and look suspiciously like radfems (evil hate group that you get at least 1 death threat a day towards on your feed)

>you want to be a cool and different trans man so you become a transfeminist and believe you have male privilege because MTFs say so

>spend years decentering yourself, allowing mockery and seeing threats and devaluing towards trans men and "theyfabs" and cis women because it takes on the language of toothed feminism

>politely ignore how 90% of MTFs are actually 10x more unbearable online than trans men, are largely sortable into a set of predictable tropes, and are actually insanely entitled and careless about anyone except for themselves

>find a couple of other trans men in the same boat, their MTF friends treat them like weird pets, you never get close enough because you hate the content these MTFs post but watch as your online MTF mutuals grow into the exact same kinds of pervert you have been quietly blocking and ignoring

>obvious MTF grooming ring is being covered up, your transmasc friends are the most suicidal they have ever been, community is a swirling vortex of MTFs behaving in the most vile ways and then crying about oppression when they are disliked

>realize these MTFs are weaponizing their suffering and reverting of language to suck you and your community dry, just like men have always done

>realize your other female friends will now hate you if they knew you

>realize the unbearable reality of being born female

>oh my god

[magnetictapedatastorage]

i think a lot of younger teenagers who are against sex-based sports leagues haven't really grasped the strength difference yet. it's not a comfortable thing to understand, and its very tempting to deny it as long as you can.

[stupid-pig-came-home]

Also, if they start questioning the difference in strength and bodies regarding sports then they also have to start questioning the difference in strength and bodies when it comes to dating and marriages and they're not ready to question the problems of hetero partnerships.

[bittermarching]

I always wonder if the people who refuse to acknowledge the strength gap between men and women are also in denial about rates of domestic violence? Do they know that DV is a mostly male-on-female issue? Because I knew that instinctively by the time I was in middle school, if not earlier.

And if they do--do they not wonder why women are so ill equipped to defend themselves when their male partners physically abuse them if male and female bodies are exactly the same?

Same with rape. Do they not wonder why women don't just easily fight off their male rapists, if they're just as strong as men? Do they think rape victims just didn't try hard enough?

In fact, why do they think men were able to oppress women at all? How do they think men established patriarichal rule at all if not with physical force? Do they think men are smarter than women? Or that women just wanted to be subjugated?

Idk I suppose the younger teenagers maybe haven't thought that deeply about this. But I've seen hundreds of adults making the same arguments for why women's sports shouldn't exist too and I always wonder what their explanation for these things are.

[radfemme-rage]

[anjomecanico]

And becoming obsessed with guns

[winslowsfaust-deactivated202410]

cis people when a trans person turns out to be a bad person: oh so i can misgender them now? i can misgender them now right? now it’s okay for me to completely disrespect their identity and show other trans people their pronouns are a privilege right? i can do that now? i can be blatantly and violently transphobic to this person even though it has nothing to do with what they did right?

[radfemarchive-deactivated202304]

r*ping your own your elderly mother with dementia is a painfully male crime that should only be linked to a woman when one actually commits it, it's not that deep.

[ms-gay-frogs]

so using male pronouns on a MtF rapist is bad because "transphobia towards any trans person is still transphobia" but hurling rape and death threats to JKR is excusable because she's "bad"? do you want humane treatment for people you deem bad or not?

[toomuchlabor]

The white trans "girl" in my school who spent time trying to educate our black immigrant Spanish teacher on how Spanish needed gender neutral pronouns gives me second hand embarrassment to this day.

Like I'm p sure he was using ella/ellas in his work and getting points taken off bc it was wrong and this poor teacher probably thought "how many times do I have to explain this to you".

Same person would spew this idea that it was racist to say there's only male and female humans.

[prettygirlshategoyim]

[unofficialmacgyver1-deactivated]

Massive correlation between men who cross dress and/or trans and being sexual offenders according to Canada, US and EU prison study they did. I believe the Canada portion alone showed like 88% of sex offenders arrested and in prison currently were cross dressers and/or trans women.

[prettyeyeslies]

Trans ideology be like “sex and gender are different” ok so why trans women want to join in female sports? You compete with your body not your pronouns

[timelesslysparklingdoom-deactiv]

Women now have to grow out their hair and dress a certain way to be women, apparently. If you’re not overtly feminine you’re “non-binary”.

Trying to force a detrans female back into a box which made her try to transition in the first time is why so many of us no longer support gender ideology, we no longer want to follow these misogyny, backwards views. The more people see this movement for what it is the better.

She is a female whatever she dresses like.

[gender-apostate]

4k likes on a tweet that essentially amounts to "only boys can have short hair" / "girls can't wear pants" in a year that begins with the number 2 is so disturbing to me.

[violet-lavender-fem]

“radical feminists enforce gender stereotypes !!”

[marbleguard]

isn't it fascinating that really the only two groups who are known for obsessively consuming those ridiculous looking oiled up giant titty unnaturally posed anime porn illustrations are men. and trans women. I'm sure this means nothing.

[uncomfortablecliche]

“why is he so obsessed with anal” he wants to rape u, next question

[uncomfortablecliche]

i used to talk to a lottttttt of women about sex. everyone has a heard that poor woman who will talk about being anally raped like it’s just a rude thing her bf accidentally did, i’ll spare that—but there’s def a population of women who do love butt stuff, and unsurprisingly many of them are all too willing to testify that many men lose their seemingly magical excitement over anal when it’s something a woman is happy to engage in. suddenly it’s meh. the excitement is over convincing/coercing you into doing something you don’t want purely for his pleasure. or more simply just physically hurting you.

[uncomfortablecliche]

i cannot reiterate enough that the common porn fantasy is literally marketed as painal. the kink isn’t that it’s her asshole, it’s that she doesn’t want it

[radfemmll]

It's the same for other kinks like the ones who involve shit/piss. I was confused about what the appeal is until I read men's fantasies about it (it was actually a men's hockey team guide to parties, wish I could find it again, it was kinda a scandal when it came out since it was supposed to be private like only between team members) but basically one of the quote was "shit on a slut's tits and fuck it until it become taco brown" or something like that.

The point is that the sexual appeal of these acts is NOT the piss/shit per se. It's the humiliation and degradation on an absolutely absurd level of the woman underneath.

[marbleguard]

our biggest problem is that women believe men are the people they pretend to be around women. That is not a real guy, that is his 'interacting with a woman' costume. I was reminded this for the 6897th time the other friday where not many people were in the office and the nicest young guy in the department who crochets and is very kind to all the women here was talking to a few other young guys about his girlfriend and his friends' girlfriends, and it was harrowing. What he was saying was bad enough but he and the others even stopped themselves and laughed and said "well, that's about as much as I can say in the office." like what there's MORE?

All the while I am sure his girlfriend thinks she has struck gold with her nice long haired golden retriever crochet boyfriend

[marbleguard]

I'm about to say something really mean but it does feel like most women are just insanely gullible. They can witness males' woman-hating all around them from every type man and in every aspect of society for their whole lives but their boyfriend crochets and acts like a nice guy in front of her so he must be different from all the rest of them. It's like a baby being distracted by someone jingling keys in front of their face. And yeah the men are laughing at you with their friends for falling for it. But if I told you about it, you would say no, you are wrong, bitter manhating bitch. he literally crochets

[liberate-women-now]

[radfemart]

[ozempicofficial]

[mermaidenmystic]

Edge of Renewal by Erin Kate Archer ~ erinkatearcher

[lesiansrus]

I once was one of the loudest supporters of trans women, the biggest thing that made me change, was realizing how little they actually cared about women. I respected them, just wasn't attracted to them? TERF. I believe there are spaces for women that they should not be allowed in? TERF. Trying to discuss the biological differences from people born xx and xy ? TERF.

I tried so hard to be open and accepting, to see you as women, but time and time again, anything we said that slightly misaligned with how you viewed women, our voices silenced, met with rape/death threats, and often times called misogynystic names. No more will I speak in defense of you guys, when we born as women are not given the same respect.