[vintage-bentley]

Another example of TIF homophobia and of them being just as creepy and invasive as TIMs are towards lesbians. In this edition we find a straight woman attempting to join a gay male orgy, and getting upset that the men there wouldn’t interact with her because they’re “transphobic” 💀

[grandmanifestoinfinity]

Bro this is insaaaane. It’s actually absurd how she claims to “pass very well” after two months on T just bc she has small breasts and dresses “masc”. It’s also kind of crazy how she didn’t catch that her friend obviously wants to humiliate her earlier than this. I’m very seriously questioning whether this is a gay man, in all likelihood he’s a bi man who wanted to see her half naked and enjoyed humiliating her (additionally with the potential of making her feel like he’s the only “good gay guy”. And then he just has no solidarity with the other men at this party who didn’t consent to seeing tits at a party explicitly for men only. This is ofc only if all of this is genuinely true, because obviously this could be a fake story written by a troll. I’d be interested to know how the comments are reacting, as that’s honestly way more telling to me. Are they in support of this woman sexually harassing gay men, or do they believe gay men are the problem in this scenario? The story might be fictional, but the reactions are real.

[bushpropaganda]

obviously this is not a reddit-specific issue, but reddit perfectly demonstrates what lesbians are talking about in regards to lesbian community erosion, and how any criticism is met with accusations of biphobia.

it is not biphobic to acknowledge that bisexual women can be and frequently are lesbophobic.

it is not biphobic for lesbians to possess pattern recognition, or to talk about our experiences with lesbophobic bi women, or to point out the elephant in the room.

it is not biphobic to be exhausted with the very few spaces lesbians have always getting overrun by bisexual women.

it is not biphobic for lesbians to have boundaries.

it is not biphobic for lesbians to protect our extremely small community, or our frequently co-opted identity.

lesbian spaces are not a catch-all for everyone to occupy while they're on a self-discovery journey. they rush to defend bi women, to pull the biphobia card against valid criticism, to insult a lesbian and call her a bigot when she's simply pointing out an observable pattern—and for what?

this knee-jerk reaction to scream "BIPHOBIA" at any sort of criticism, as if the evil lesbians are the true oppressors of bi women, co-signs lesbophobia. they're perpetuating the idea that lesbians are not allowed to speak out about our oppression, that we should sit down and shut up, that "inclusivity" and "kindness" is more important than lesbian community, that we have no say in what goes on in our own spaces.

[grandmanifestoinfinity]

But also it’s completely insane to join a “late bloomer lesbian” subreddit. Late bloomer lesbians who married a man despite how they didn’t feel attracted to him are in fact very different to a bisexual woman who happily enjoyed sex with men her entire life, then one day were into a woman as well. Like why do you even want to be in there? The lesbian has to blow up her entire life to be happy, while you can literally stay with your husband because you love him. I’m not saying it’s not a mindfuck to realise you’re bisexual at age 45 but how tf is that lesbians business. None of us are gonna relate to that. Because we’re not bisexuals.

[unapologeticallygay]

Stormé DeLarverie in the Stonewall Veterans Car at the New York City Gay Pride Parade, June 25, 1995, by Morgan Gwenwald

[pjharvey]

i don’t understand how neil gaiman intellectual properties still trend on here so regularly he literally trafficked women. like it’s not even a discourse thing or a “he’s problematic” thing he was “cancelled” for human trafficking. he repeatedly isolated women, usually his or his ex-wife’s fans, with no support system for the purpose of raping them while they were dependent on him for income and housing. that’s human trafficking

[nocountryforlesbians]

straight homophobia: all lesbians hate men and want them to die

queer homophobia: all lesbians hate trans women and want them to die

straight homophobia: lesbians should have sex with men if they use dildos

queer homophobia: lesbians should have sex with trans women if they use dildos

straight homophobia: lesbians are sex-crazed deviants

queer homophobia: lesbians are vagina-fetishists

straight homophobia: if you like butch lesbians [masculinity], why wouldn’t you just date a man?

queer homophobia: if you like butch lesbians, why wouldn’t you date a trans woman [who is feminine]?

straight homophobia: lesbians recruit minors to be homosexuals and feminists

queer homophobia: lesbians recruit minors to be homosexuals and radical feminists

straight homophobia: butch lesbians are basically men

queer homophobia: butch lesbians are basically men

[bibidi-bobidi-boooo]

Straight Homophobia: How can you be sure you don’t like dick if you’ve never tried it?

Queer Homophobia: How can you be sure you don’t like girldick if you’ve never tried it?

Straight Homophobia: Lesbians need to be fixed through force, rape, coercion, and conversion therapy.

Queer Homophobia: Lesbians need to ~critically analyse~ their ~penis aversion~ through ~exposure therapy~.

Straight Homophobia: Lesbians need to allow room for men in their life and stop prioritising women and being angry, hairy, man-haters.

Queer Homophobia: Lesbians need to accept trans lesbians into their beds or they’re not *real* allies.

Straight Men, as a joke: Hehe lol, I’m basically a lesbian too, eeeeeeeeeey, pussy. High five.

Heterosexual man, sincerely: I’m a lesbian.

[tubularfem]

Also while I’m at it there’s no such thing as a genital preference for gay men and lesbians. It’s a REQUIREMENT that a partner be the same sex! The END.

A preference would be “oh man I’m out of my favorite fruit, apples. That’s okay though, while I like it the best, I’ll eat oranges too since I have them.”

A preference implies that it can be changed, that it’s only a choice of which you prefer at the time. What has been called “genital preference” is actually so fucking homophobic it’s unreal. We don’t choose this! It’s innate. And it’s sexual orientation, and cannot be changed.

[callie34]

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

Your completely healthy body was born requiring cosmetic surgery and hormones it doesn’t produce and doesn’t need?

[gendercriticalbutch]

even if you’re looking at this through a gender dysphoria lens it still makes 0 sense. so you’re convinced you need to take drastic measures to alter your body to feel happy and confident in your own skin? how is that comparable to sexuality? a more accurate comparison would be an anorexic person who’s convinced they need to take drastic measures to alter their body to look smaller in order feel happy and confident about their body… and we would all say to a person with an ED that they desperately need help and that they’re hurting themselves.

[g1rluninterruptedd]

i am not happy for pride month at all anymore genuinely. i feel like this community sometimes doesn’t even gaf about lesbians, they’re disrespectful as hell to black lesbians, people are disrespectful to bisexual women, labels mean nothing anymore, a bunch of corporations are gonna pretend to care (and for some reason people will buy it? no im not talking about parents doing it for their kids).

it just feels like nowadays being a part of the community is meant to be seen as different. “we’re here, we’re queer!” and it just feels like it’s meant to signal that we’re “other” and i don’t want to be other. i get that this community has a unique history and everything and i feel like it can be celebrated just fine without making it seem like we’re some third kind of human, some odd creatures or some shit.

[forsapphics]

STORMÉ DELARVERIE

in promotional photos used to advertise the Jewel Box Revue (ca. 1950s)

[lesiansrus]

Happy pride month to all you beautiful lesbians.

[detransitionbaby]

So you want the BLM and trans colors taken off the pride flag?

how bout we bring this bad boy back? as a designer, the black/brown/trans stripes are fuck-ugly and very well intended but misguided.

gilbert baker also added a lavender stripe before his death to represent diversity that’s actually aesthetically well-reasoned:

[bulldyke-rider-deactivated20251]

Lol it's the way the ask is worded for me. Like I'm supposed to feel bad that "blm and trans colors" don't look good on the rainbow flag. Much love to BLM, but I don't see why that would need to be on the gay pride flag. They are their own movement.

How come instead of just flying actual BLM and black power stuff alongside the rainbow, we just tossed a brown and black stripe over the rainbow? I'll put the raised fist next to my rainbow happily because, idk, maybe I'm able to value them without swallowing their movement into mine.

Why don't we give them real recognition instead of 2 stripes?

[detransitionbaby]

[illalwaysbehere]

^I agree. Shoving everything into one flag (and by extension, one community) is lazy. It shows you have no absolutely respect for the different groups you're herding under one umbrella, and that you just want to look "woke".

None of you actually care. You just want to put up a flag and be done with it. You're lazy.

[old-school-butch]

Why does no one insert the gay pride flag onto the blm and trans flag? Hm.

[niiwa-angel]

I thought the whole point of the original pride flag was that everyone fell under it. No matter race, religious upbringing, class, education, country of origin, or ability? Adding more and more stuff to it just made it more clear which groups weren't being considered.

Why did nobody add anything for disability advocation? Why didn't anyone add anything to support feminism? Why didn't we add anything to show we stood with the homeless LGB folks? If we could add the trans flag, the BLM colours, and the intersec flag, why didn't we add any of the stuff I mentioned?

The original flag was good enough. It still is enough.

[radicalgalaxxy]

That’s exactly right, Black and brown people who are same-sex attracted were always included in the flag, same with ssa trans people. It’s literally just a flag for homosexuality y’all are fucking included if you’re ssa. Adding black and brown stripes just alienates, like poc weren’t included in the original but as long as you’re same-sex attracted you’re included. The “progress” flag is the ugliest fucking thing and I will never get behind it. I see the “progress” flag and assume the person holding it is a homophobe.

[majchic]

Not Our Crimes | Trans-Identified Male Prison Population Data

Documenting the realities of men who commit crimes and claim womanhood.

[feminist-furby-freak]

TRAs outing themselves as pedo apologists. Can’t believe people actually think like this and voluntarily tell on themselves online.

[depsidase]

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

great comments guys, thanks for the input.

“since seeing an uptick in supposed lesbians express attraction to men, I just wanted to go out of my way to say happy pride to lesbians who are actually fully homosexual!”

“AND happy pride to the ones who aren’t, and wanna fuck dudes ✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻🥺🥺🥺🥺”

oh okay. you’re the reason the post exists, you are in the majority as a woman attracted to men, your biggest issue is not being seen as “queer enough” because you never shut up about whatever male celebrity you wanna fuck, we don’t need your opinions during pride month. you’re basically being subtweeted in the post, no need to make yourself known in the comments too

[achapstickdyke]

happy 2026 to all the proud clit-licking, finger-fucking, bush-having, hairy-legged, braless, loud and opinionated muff-divers in my phone 🙏🏽

[average-tim-post]

Wow it must be soo hard to have to put up with free fucking breast implants instead of some other less common surgery to supplement your larp. He is so oppressed 😢

It’s actually like just as bad or maybe worse than women dying because they are prohibited by the state from receiving actually lifesaving procedures because you see if he doesn’t get a boob job there’s a chance he will think about killing himself, which is of course cruel and unusual punishment.